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Dear Ann: What do you think of my husband's viewpoint on women whc arc raped?

He is a physician and highly respected in our community. 1 was reading an article in the paper and said to him, ‘Isn't this awful — two women were forced off the road by two men in another car. One man was painting a gun at them. They were raped right inour own neighborhoad!’"

My husband snapped, ‘I'll bet Is .was after midnight. Women who run around alone at odd hours are just asking for it."" | replied, ‘That's not true. | used to work nights when | was a nurse, and | came home at odd hours. | certainly wasn't asking for It."’ My husband did Not reply.

| continued, “Do you believe every victim of rape is

sl to be there at the

wrong time?*' My husband sald, ‘‘Right. These men are

psychopaths. It is up to the women to stay out of their

way. If they don't, they are asking.for it.’’ | said, *'Oh,

then the 47 percent of women who were raped In their

, own homes last year were asking for it? Or, If a woman is, out after dark and Is raped, then It's her fault?"

My husband the doctor replied, '‘Yes, and what's more, there are women who will lead a guy on, and when they get what they ask for they call it rape because they feel guilty and want to lay the blame on the man. The women's movement has tried to make It look like the female ts always the victim, and it's not true."*

| called him a male chauvinist pig and he called mea screwball: Will you please comment?

— Furious With The Ignoramus Dear Furious: What your’ physiclan-husband doesn’t realize is that rape Is not a crime of lust — ‘it is a crime of

violence. As for women being out after dark and “asking

for it,’’ 1 offer the following:

During a discussion about rape, ‘a male member of the Israeli parliament suggested there should be a curfew on women. Golda Meir, then prime minister, replied, ‘‘There should be a curfew on MEN. They are the ones who are doing the raping.”’

‘The of rape has at an alarming rate In this country. There are no rules that guarantee

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Dear Ann Landers: Why would a soft-spoken, refined woman —~a minister’s wife — write dirty words. in tipstick on the mirror of a public restroom?

| was shocked when | walked in-and caught her. She

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