The Castlegar Sun Diagnosing and treating depression We have all experienced the feeling of depression after a minor For most of us. we But for one per cent of the population setback in life feel sad for a few days however, their low mood last longer than two weeks. These suffering from an ill They plete loss of pleasure and interest people are ness depression feel a com in life--and even feel that living 1s too much effort This leaves people feeling tired all the ume - too ured to do even enjoyable activities. Depressed people want to sleep all the time yet spend a restless night, they or have They have interest in and lose ight con They find it work, or either wake up too early trouble falling asleep no energy and los hobbies, work of sex n food, or in w interest trol and may hard to con reading, or even TV The thoughts of depressed peo ple are negative The¢ distort and Magnify negative life events, while ignoring the positiv themselves and feel guilty when burtge entrate or They blame plans go wrong. They simustic about the future times have Jeath Because they feel worthless and helpless, they have problems coping with work, relationships and stress are pes and some thoughts of Chicken Burger with french fries or a2 piece chicken More than half of the patients who are depressed complain of usually headaches. weakness and dizziness This pain does not respond to the usual treatment, We don't know exactly how depression occurs, MEDICAL MATTERS ~ n pain muscle aches. Brought to you by Castle gar's Medical Staff but there seems to be a problem in the chemical messengers from one nerve cell to another - a chemical unbalance like diabetes. People are not depressed on purpose, and can't just snap out of it, Often they have a family mem- ber who is also depressed, who is alcoholic or who has had a ner- vous breakdov n. For some people Mt Starts as a reaction to the loss of 1 loved one, loneliness or money worries. Sometimes depression starts in winter only - a reaction to th hort daylight hours. More than 90 per cent of depressed patients get better with antidepres- sant medication. The pills are not habit forming, are nota tranquiliz- =r and work by Correcting the problem with the chemical trans- mutters imthg brain. The aim of treatment is to improve the mood, improve sleep, and help decrease negative thoughts. The most effective and commonly used antidepressant is Amitriptyline. People will enjoy a more comfortable nights sleep immediately, and after four weeks, they should see an improvement in their mood and Advertising ‘4 Circulation F Office id Classified F 8:00 Editorial F oo We look forward to 8:30 8:30 8:00 ene WE'RE OPENI in order to serve you better, in 1993 6 The Castlegar Sun has the following hours effective: Monday, January 11, 1993 4:30 5:00 5:00 5:00 365-2278 365-5266 365-5266 365-7848 5: 365-5579 hearing from you! energy levels as well. If they don't it is usually because the dose is too low, or they haven't been taking it for long enough The body gets used to its few side effects quickly. People may com. plain of a dry mouth, they may feel dizzy on standing, and they may become constipated. Prozac, andther common antidepressant is just as effective and has fewer side effects but is more expensive. Prozac does not cause suicide, inadequately treated Severe depression might, All antidepressants are dangerous in overdose, so keep them away from children. Antidepressants need not be for life. Once all depressive symptoms have disappeared wait four months and then your doctor will reduce the dose slowly. Oth erwise there can be a withdrawal reaction - usually a restless nights sleep. If symptoms return, the antidepressant can be restarted. Some people find counselling helps too. They try to change their negative thoughts. They also discuss ways of coping with stress - like daily exerc a holi day, or an evening out They are advised to get enough sleep, to avoid too much responsibility and to avoid mak ing major decisions regarding work and family or relationships It's not the time to get divorced or Change jobs. Being depressed is not “going crazy", it just feels that way Remember that your thoughts when depressed will be pes simistic and negative, so work at changing these—congratulate yourself for things done well and don’t dwell on things that go wrong. Act like you fett'good and you may start to believe it. Fish is a healthy choice. We all know fish is good for us. It’s low in fat, relatively low in Calories, and high in Omega-3 fatty acids, those wonderful oils that help prevent heart attacks. It also contains vitamins that help prevent colds and other illnesses. The question is: what else are we getting in fish that we hadn't THIS IS NOT JUST A GAME BANQUET This is our 29th annual trophy awards presentations and fundraising event to support environmental projects such as land aquisition, wildlife habitat enhancement and fish restocking. Come and enjoy a wildgame, seafood & domestic smorgasbord that is not just for hunters! Come out and support your wildlife and We've got Door Prizes, Giveaways & Raffles with a total value of over ‘4000.00 DON'T MISS OUR UNRESERVED AUCTION $3,000 worth of limited edition wildlife prints by BC artists will be your environment. sold through unreserved auction the night of the banquet. FEBRUARY 20 CASTLEGAR COMMUNITY COMPLEX $12.00 - 14 yrs. & under Cocktails: 5:00 pm Dinner: 6:00 pm ADVANCE TICKET SALES ONLY BOSSE'S JEWELLERY 365-7141 AASLAND TAXIDERMY 365-6067 GASTLEGAR & DISTRICT $20.00 per person Dance: 9 pm to 1 am ‘(first come first serve) Available at: WILDLIFE ASSOCIATION Wednesday, February 3, 1993 My second week of “motherhood” has lapsed and certainly not without trials and errors. While I've been a step-mom for some time now, nothing prepares one for a small baby straight from the womb. I suddenly’ reaRre-how-much freedom I did have with a five and seven year old twosome underfoot, They can actually dress themselves and make their own beds, not to mention wipe their own fannies. This child has totally taken control of my life Even at this moment, sweat LIFESKILIS on my brow, I for the Pluck away at young, this typewriter old with the baby willing literally fas- tened to my body. Did I say MY body. Silly me, I almost forgot, I gave THAT away at the entrance of the maternity ward, along with my dignity. My biggest revelation during the past two weeks has been my capacity for “unconditional love”. Few relationships are blessed with the enriching ingredient. Many will defend their claim,to such a virtue but in trath most of us will find conditions with our giving of love I know I have uncovered a few of them in my quest to be a better “step-mom”. It was, I now know that feeling of unconditional love that frightens me so, when I was face to face with my son in the hospital. I am definitely NOT the same person I was when I went “in there” I have emerged with a sense of c I Brenda Scatterty Motherhood and unconditional love to say “sleep when the baby sleeps?" They surely must have some sort of degree if relaxation, I have on occasion been known to fall asleep in the middle of a social engagement and admit to drift- ing off on the couch at home with my nose buried in a book. But | am an active person and the abili- ty to just “go nap” because “it is time now” escapes me So when the baby finally gets to sleep and that is if I can successfully “plant” him in the crib (he prefers my arms), FOOD is probably my first pri- ority. I may then manage to brush my teeth, get cleaned up and be “human”. If I'm lucky, I may get to consider a brief “spell” on the couch before the “screaming” begins, You see, my new little son has a temper. Where he got THAT from, no one knows. I would blame his impatient streak on his father, but alas, I've told my partner countless times that his patience is one of his wonderful qualities. Maybe we'll leave this one alone for now. There are times, however when the little guy decides to sleep for hours on end and them I’m so nervous as to “what's wrong” that I couldn't sleep if you struck me on the head with a cast iron fry- ing pan. After my partner assures me that he's perfectly fine, just catching up on his Z's, I-attempt to relax, because “It's-time” so I must take advan- tage. I get my nice warm tea and my book (put me to sleep, when I used to be normal, anyway) After a while I decide to close my eyes and count sheep, cows, things I should be doing, and babies in a nursery. NOTHING WORKS! So I lay there wide awake, even if my eyes are burning with wisdom and clarity. While I also am more anx- ious, and suspect it will remain so for many years to come, I have experienced a miracle that no woman should be denied. Already I cannot imag- iné my life without him. (Please remind me I said that at 4 this morning) It has been difficult to let go of my normal rou- tine or the lack of “need” for one that involves a baby. Gooing (Freudian slip) to the little girls’ room has become a planned event, along with tak- ing baths, showers, and naps. I knew I would be feeding and changing and rocking and cuddling, that the baby would eat, mess and sleep basically. But no one told me the “sleep” part would be SO questionable, or erratic. Who are these people exh. praying ly that the baby WILL and WON'T wake up. Finally I give in sit up and just as I'm nodding off, my little bundle of joy starts his “lung exercises” But despite all of the hard times, I will forgive him anything, and love him as fiercely as ever My love for my stepchildren is no less special but very different. They too, I lovg without conditions to a certain degree. But as they, and my new little son grow older, I realize that their independence is a threat to my control over just how effective I can nurture and protect them. Frightening as this is for me and many other parents out there, we sometimes will wish we could again exist during those first few weeks of their precious lives when unconditional loves comes so naturally. Wednesday, February 3, 1993 , eine sets Atlin Mad Mh @ Arts/Entertainment The Castlegar Sun Sno'Fest 93...something for everyone Submitted bargained for? As yet the tech- nology does not €xist-to test fish for antibiotics or hormones, and a new law in B.C. requires that fish farmers keep detailed logs that list’ what antibiotics were used and when A'ntibiotics cannot be used pvithin 120 days of marketing Quite simply, though we must rely on the honor system Strains of bacteria resistant to antibiotics can be produced in human beings, even in only sub. = Grenby Clinical levels of antibiotics exist in the fish, according to The Con- Home wv Lynn Barker <7, ~ \, ae sumers Association of Canada. As well, people who are aller- depending on added ingredients gic to antibiotics could have a reaction. According to a 1988 report by the Ontario Ministry of Natural Resources, chemicals and Tugs are gone by the time they reach our tables. We won't know either way until the technology has been developed to test fish for residues. Man is never content to leave nature in its pure state. Biotech- See HOME 58 Continued from 3B ondary education, you should be putting the $1,500 maximum into a registered education savings plan at the beginning of each year. You don’t get a deduction for your contribution but the money in the plan will grow tax free. This growth will be taxed only when your:son withdraws the money to pay for his higher Consulting Financial Counselling 1d Goal Setting education Many financial institutions offer these RRSP’s. Check ser- vice charges or other costs, your investment options and the other terms and conditions. If you‘have been saving his family allowance cheques, put this money plus the new monthly child tax benefit cheques into an account in his name, or in your name(s) in trust for him. The interest (from term deposits and Canada Savings Bonds) and divi- dends (if you buy mutual funds that invest in dividend-paying stocks) will belong to him for tax purposes. He probably has little or no income, so will pay no tax Note if you invest your own money in his name, then you - not he - must report the interest and dividends. However, if you feel comfort- § MONEY MATTERS @®& CANADA (since 1847) under your terms ¢ Pension ¢ Disability Inco ¢ Annuities Cliffe Churches Planning your insurance needs ¢ Life Insurance ¢ RRSP's i ¢ Group Insurance LIFE Planning me Protection & RRIF's 365-6136 able with the risk and give your son money to invest in stock market mutual funds that produce capital gains, these profits will be his. He can claim his capital Bains exemption and pay no tax You could also make such invest- ments in your name and use your Own exemption to avoid tax “My trust company has raised its monthly charge for managing my account of about $248,000 to almost $300 a monih from $188 six years ago. That seems a very high charge as the account has grown only about five per cent a year. Could I do better on my own, perhaps by investing in mutual funds?” - V.W. First, meet with a senior trust company official to review your account's performance. If you aren't happy - and if you have the time and expertise - withdraw perhaps $50,000 to invest on your own. See how your invest- ment growth compares with the trust company’s. If you can do a better job, then gradually take over the rest of the money. Mike Grenby is a Vancouver based columnist and independent financial adviser who works with individuals; he will answer your questions as space allows - write to him clo The Castlegar Sun BUILT-IN VACUUM SYSTEMS * NO Bags to buy * NO Filters to clean * 4.1 peak horse power * 140° water lift * 10-year motor warranty 5 (Other models available) 365-5087 COMPLETE WITH HAND TOOLS Nelson is definitey the place to be February 5, 6, and 7. The Nel son Sno'Fest Society is again Presenting the three-day celebra- tion that will chase away the win ter doldrums. Events include a host of activities geared to the family and adults too! Events start Friday at 5 p.m Old-Timer Hockey at the Civic Centre. Opening Ceremonies will be serious and entertaining. At 7:30 p.m. Mayor Ramsden and other notables will be opening the three day festival Entertainment will be provided by the Rosemont Skippers and line dancing will be demonstrat- ed. This take place in the parking lot of Super Value across from the Civic Centre. A no-booze dance featuring “Coca Cola, Much Music Video Dance Party” follows at 8 p.m. Tickets for this dance can be purchased at Local Motion in Nelson for $6 or ‘at the door for $8. Saturday morning: events begin with Old-Timer Hoc key at the Civic Centre. The traditional Lion's Club Pancake Breakfast will again be held at the Lord Nelson from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m Beginning at 9 am. the Aquatic Centre is holding an inter-school fun competition. Twelve person teams are required. Canadian Helicopters will be offering helicopter rides-for $15 each. Profits will be donated to a worthy cause. Rides will be available at 11 a.m. and there afte At the same time, Savoy Lanes will be holding a Bowling Tournament. Membership in the Canadian Bowling Association is required Also at 11 a.m. the Lord Nel son Hotel is holding a snow shoe obstacle race which will be fun either as a participant or as an enthusiastic viewer. At the same time, the Eagles will be holding their traditional Borscht, Bread and Bake This will be held at the Eagles Hall on Baker Street At 11:30 a.m. the Civic Hotel is the site of another traditional event, the Waiter Races. Com bine a tray of full drinks, an obstacle course and a time limit for this test of agility. High noon is the time for the Savoy Inn Keg. Race held at the Savoy Inn Following this traditionat event is the Savoy Inn Chuck wagon Race. This event is aimed at the youth of the community All that is required is an appara. tus that is powered by foot power. A four person team con sisting of two pullers, a rider, and sale a pusher to get their vehicle across the finish line The O.K. Corral “Big Burger BBQ” at the Garage is Old Koot’'s favourite place to chow down, An Old West Carnival is part of the entertainment for the young participant. This event begins at 1 p.m. Another traditional favourite is the Royal Hotel Tug-of-war which is scheduled for 1 on Baker Street. The all-time favourite Her- itage Outhouse races follow at 2:30 p.m. Registration is at noon at the Heritage Inn. At 3:30 the Royal Hotel Final Pulls, the best again the best will be held The Garage is again the site of activity at 4 p,m. The O.K. Corral Blade, Board and Cycle Demos will be brought to you by kids of all ages. “Tommy and the T-Birds” are the host band for the Sno'Fest Annual Adult Dance which will be held at the Badminton Hall at the Civic Centre 9 p.m. Advan- tage tickets sales only. Tickets are available at Eddy'’s Music. Sunday events begin at 9 a.m. with Snowboard competitions at Morning Mountain. Dual Slalom Races with a wide array of cate- gories are offered. Registration is at 9 a.m. Racing starts at 10 a.m. A $5 entry fee is required. The Royal Canadian Legion is holding a Doubles Dart Tourna- ment. Registration is at 9 to 10 a.m. with competition beginning at 10:30 a.m.. Apex Cross Coun- try is holding a Jack Rabbit Fun Day open to. cross country skiers from ages four to 14, At Il a.m. Helicopter rides will be available. The Pool Tour- * nament at the Royal Hotel is slat- ed for noon. A $5 registration fee is required. The Royal Hotel pool Tourna- ° ment starts at 1 noon. Registra- tion for this event is high noon, Saturday the 6 of February. The Polar Bear Dip another Sno'Fest traditional event is sponsored by KBS Radio is s\ ed for | p.m. at Lakeside Park Free chili, hot chocolate and cof fee will be available for Polar Bear dippers only The Chahko-Mika Mall is the site of Sunday afternoon events The mall will be open and events begin with the Sno'Fest Costume Contest slated for 1:30 p.m. There's lots of prizes and categories, A special prize for the Best Adult Costume is being spon sored by Evelyn's Tours. The prize is a $350 a bus tour to, Reno October 9 to the 16 one Seat based on double occupancy, prize awarded to adults over 21 only. Hotel room, all casino packages and s6me meals are part of the package. One trip package must be purchased to be eligible for this prize Following is the Weird Beard Contest. All you need to enter is the fuzz on your face. At 2:30 p.m. the youth and family out- house races organized by the Heritage Inn promises to be fun for the whole family. Prizes for the Sunday events at the Chahko Mika Mall were donated by A&W Root Beer; Kentucky Fried Chicken; JR's Hair Force; Cydney's; Woolco; WorkWear Wold; the West End; Saan’s; Horizon Photo; Orange , Julius; Woodwynn’s; G Willik- ers, and Overwaitea Foods At 2:30 p.m. the ever popular Talent Show begins at the Civic Centre Theatre with prizes being awarded in a variety of categories. Freeloaders faking love bankrupt more than finances Dear Ann Landers: You gave an excellent response to the girl in San Diego whose boyfriend is living with her but not paying rent or any other-bilis=I hope she gets rid of him, while she still has some money left I was the same kind of fool but I wasn't some young girl in love for the first time. I was 40 and divorced, and I had three children to support. A friend introduced me to “Derek who and dined me. I fell like a ton of bricks Derek was having money trouble, so I let him move in It was always get on my feet the bills." When I met Derek, I was living comfortably, owned my own home and hada 3-year- old car that was paid for. As soon as we became engaged, he convinced me to buy some property in town as "an invest- ment for our future." I also had to get a larger car because “our family was bigger now." He needed new clothes so I bought him several outfits with my charge cards. He was smart, Ann. He made sure all purchases were in my name He played on my sympathy, and it worked, to the tune of $35,000: 1 had to remortgage my house to get out of debt After 15 months, a bigger fool came along, a woman with a $50,000-a-year job and wined As soon as I 111 help with a BMW. Derek left me and moved in with her. I was devastated and cried for weeks. I lost 30 pounds, and my blood pressure went through the roof. Now, several months later, I've got my head on straight ané I'm glad he's gone. After all, it could have been worse. | could have mar ned the creep and lost every Ann Landers Syndicated Columnist thing. -- Brookville Dear Brook: If misery loves company, you have a soul sis ter in Baton Rouge. Read on Dear Ann Landers: Your advice to "San Diego" with the freeloading boyfriend was extremely generous. Allowing that jerk two weeks to find another place to live was a nice gesture. Too nice My friends always said I was too trusting. Ten years ago, I proved them right My freeloader was "Tom," handsome and smooth with a heart full of larceny. He used my car to cart his. friends around town and entertained them on my credit card. He invited his out-of-state pals to ~ phone bill stay at my apartment without consulting me. I never knew who Id find in the bathroom. The final straw ,was a $300 When Tom came home that night, I had a "sur- prise” for him. I~d spent the afternoon packing and stack- ing his belongings by the front When he entered the apartment, I took his key, gen- uy pushed him and his things onto the porch.and closed the dogr I'm sorry I didn't do it two years earlier Loony in Louisiana 1 door in his. face Dear Loony: Some people catch on sooner than others. You were a slow learner, but you finally got the message, and that's what counts Dear Ann Landers: | believe the child-suppon laws need to be rewritten to give fathers a better break, I've been Johnny-on-the-Spot every month since 1984 -- never missed a payment My ex-wife makes $26,000. She has remarried and her husband makes over $40,000. My annual income is $36,000. In my opinion, the $365 a month I'm paying in child sup- port is excessive, especially since I also pay all the boy's medical bills, including drugs, dental and eye care Shouldn't a father who pays child support be allowed to claim that child as a depen- dent on his income tax? No = Home Continued from 4B nologists injected growth hor- mones from chicker*and cattle into salmon and created fish that grew 50 percent faster. They are also working on a plan to isolate, and mass produce the fish's own growth hormones for fish-produces to use on a large scale. (And large scales they will be, too.) Also, some producers colour the salmon, (no, not with crayons), because farmed fish are not as rosie pink as wild salmon At this point, fish is fish. We have no way of knowing what the fish is; wild or farmed; how ever, from September to May, and fresh Canadian salmon or trout is from a farm. Because producers believe we like oysters and mussels, their source is usually If consumers want cultivated identified clear environmental guidelines and controls for seafood, we will have to create a strong consumer demand for it These days, fish contains fer tilizers and pesticides from run off in the coastal waters, streams and lakes. There is still too much legal and illegal dumping going on Lake Ontario, whichis highly polluted, still has live fish in it, (wonder of wonders), but it is illegal to sell the fish. Unfonu nately, though, most fish contain some residual and industrial tox ins, such as dioxin, chlordane and PCB's, (which have-been banned for year High levels of methyl mercury been found in large fish such as shark marlir hahbut and albacore tuna fish um, lead and arsenic WHAT CAN WE EAT Fatty fish, such a at fist up and have swordfish Shell nian chromium adm mackerel white perch should only be caten a tew umes a month. Cook by poaching, bak ing or broiling and do not use the juices for sauces. Trim away the fattest tissues such as the dark meat, the skin, and particularly the belly flap. Buy fish canned in water, not oil. Eat a variety of fish. Bottom feeders are particularly high in toxins, stay away from them as much as possible, (ie: suckers) Younger fish do not have as great of a level of toxins in them as larger, older fish. If possible don't buy fish that come from Waters close to a city or industri- al area Don't eat a dot of high residue * fish. Learn all you can about what is the best for you. And lastly, in the interests of our fnends, the dolphins, who die at the rate of 100,000 per year in large tuna nets, boycott the vari cues of tuna that put the dolphins in danger. Tongol and albacore tuna do not endanger the dol phins. I think I'll go and eat sup per, now. Something fishy way -- my ex-wife claims our son on HER tax return, which is another break for her. My ex-wife was the one who broke our marriage vows It doesn't seem fair that I should have to keep her-com- fortable with extra cash. She filed for a no-fault divorce by mail, packed my_ bags, changed the locks and had all her bills sent to my mother's address. Then she had the nerve to gharge $1,200 worth of clothes on my account After that, she sold our home with everything in it, includ- ing my tools. I never saw one cent ofthe money It's about time we put some pressure on our congressmen and senators to pass legisla- tion that. gives divorced fathers a break. Will you help? -- Jim in Washington, Pa How about an impromptu after ski get together? Wouldn't it be wonderful to have dinner cooking while you are out enjoying the ski slopes Here are some delicious and easy ideas CROCK POT HEARTY BEAN SOUP 2 cups dried kidney beans (soaked overnight) or 2 cans kidney beans 2 cups cubed ham or stew meat (optional)3 medium potatoes, cut in large chunks 1 medium onion diced 2 stalks celery diced 2 carrots peeled and diced 2 tbsp. dried parsley 1 can tomatoes or tomato soup (optional) 1 tsp. salt 1 - 2 cloves garlic, diced 1 tsp. pepper 1/2 tsp. Tabasco sauce (optional) 1/2 tsp. worchestershire sauce 1. Put all ingredients into crock pot 3. Set dial to high and let cook for 2 or 3 hours. 4. Take out and mash potatoes create a nice creamy texture 6. Set dial to low and serve when ready. Serves 6. , SPEEDY PASTA WITH 1 can salmon or tuna 1 cup cream 2 chopped onions 1 crushed garlic clove 1/2 tsp. dried dill or parsley 2 cups cooked fettucini or any available noodles. salt and pepper to taste 1/2 cup grated cheese (optional) FOOD 2. Fill crock pot with water to within 1 - 2” of the top. 5. Add 2 tbsp. butter to potatoes and retum to crock pot to 1. Cook noodles per pkg instructions. 2. Saute onions, garlic and dill. 3. Add cream to onion mixture and boil for 5 minutes. 4. Add salt, pepper and onion mixture to pasta and fish and toss. 5. Put in cassergle dish or electric fry pan and keep hot till serving time 6. Add grated cheese on top if desired Serve with a green salad and your favourite ice cream dessert The Hen Party is a group of Castlegar friends who meet on a regular basis and have many common interests includ- ing cooking. If you have any questions or comments you can write to them C/O The Castlegar Sun at 465 Columbia Avenue, Castlegar, B.C., VIN 1G8. Or readers can tele- Phone 365-7729 and ask for Kathy. Wy NS The recipient will receive an award plaque to keep courtesy of Kats Trophys and a lunch for 2, value to $20.00, courtesy of the Fireside Dining Room. We'd like everyone in Castlegar to know that service excellence exists in our community. This award recognizes a nominated business. If you know of someone that offers | —* "Excellence in Service," call me, Marilyn Strong at 365-5266, or drop a letter at the Castlegar Sun with your suggestion. The Castidgar Sun Excellence in Service Award This award will be presented every week to someone in Castlegar who shows extraordinary service to his/her customers or clierifs. Presented to: SG WN TROPHY & ERSRAU ING