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Officials announced subscriptions to the most-popular periodicals would be limited due to the paper- shortage, prompting citizens’ pro- tests that openness is meaningless without access to the press. Izvestia quoted deputy prime minister Vladimir Gusev saying ministries will reduce their public- ations to make newsprint available for the popular press. But he em- phasized only a few newspapers will benefit. “We have scrutinized the possib- ilities of our (paper) industry once again, and in the end have worked out measures which, while not allowing fully free subscriptions, will in any case reduce the shortage,” Gusev said. Dissident Soviet scientist Andrei Sakharov had said the press limits were a setback to the reforms of Soviet leader MIkhail Gorbachev. Others said the curbs would signal the end of reform if maintained. Gusev quoted a letter from citizens of the Far East port of Vladivostok protesting they could not subscribe to three weeklies: Ogonyok, Litera turnaya Gazeta’ and Argumenty i Fakty. ‘STAB’ “We see this as a stab at glasnost (openness),” the letter said. Gusev said extra government paper allocations would allaw Argu- menty i Fakty and the family weekly Semya to print more issues and end limits on the Communist youth daily Komsomolskaya Pravda and the benefit, but failed to mention Ogony- ok or Moscow News, the boldest Soviet periodicals now in print. He also failed to mention a recent in. crease in the export of Soviet timber, pulp and paper. A Moscow News commentary last month called for emergency steps, including paper imports, to beat the shortage. Gusev called for “realism.” He said government planners expect to be able to meet public demand for newsprint by 1995. Only three major newspapers orig: inally escaped the limits — the Com- munist party newspaper Pravda, the widely read Sovetskaya Rossiya which is also a party newspaper, and Izvestia. Test pilot knows about danger TORONTO (CP) — Gen. Chuck Yeager knows what goes on in the minds of pilots in trouble — such as the Italian airmen involved in a deadly crash last month. “Nothing,” said the former test pilot who was the first to break the sound barrier and is best known as the man with The Right Stuff. “Anytime you're in an airplane and you have an emergency situation, you don't think about anything ex- cept survival.” During his 40-odd years flying everything from the Bell X-1 that cracked through the sound barrier in 1947 to a Cheyenne 400LS business propjet, Yeager had his share of close calls. In 1944 at age 22, the Second World War fighter pilot was shot down over Nazi-occupied France. He escaped over the Pyrenees into Spain. As the recent tragedy in Ramstein, West Germany shows — not all pilots are so fortunate. Three of the Italian precision team's jets collided Aug. 28 during a flying spectacle at a U.S. air base. Two planes plunged to the ground and a third careened in flames into trade union paper Trud. He said literary journals would Sp s. At least 59 people were killed and more than 500 injured. In response, critics have called for a ban on air shows. Yeager's position is clear. “We kill 48,000 people in automo- biles every year in the United States but do people say anything about it? Heck it's not sensational,” he said, not concealing his disapproval. A tanned and fit Yeager was in Toronto on Friday to promote his new book Press On, written about his adventures in the outdoors with longtime air force pal Bud Anderson. At Ramstein, Yeager said, planes flew 457 metres from the crowd whereas the Thunderbirds — an American aerobatic team that per- formed at a Toronto air show last weekend — flew 1,524 metres from the crowd. He said Canada and the United States are stricter about air show regulations than West Germany. Yeager, whose 1985 autobiography sold millions of copies, said despite the West German disaster, people will continue to be thrilled by aero- baties. “We've been flying air shows ever since man first flew his airplane and we'll keep on having air shows as long as we fly planes,” he said. Two things we're proud to believe in: OMMITMENT AND COMMUNITY emi Cariboo- Chilcotin Economic Futures committee hereby retains the right to cancel this tend- of th For nearly a century now, we've been dedicated to helping build, develop and ma communities better places in which to live. British Columbia LIFESTYLES September 14, 1988 Castlégar News Childhood tells of person TORONTO (CP) — The aggressive “jungle fighter"’ in today’s business world probably started out a “baby bully’’ in childhood, the co-author of a new book for parents. such “*styles"" LIVE-IN BABYSITTERS | More nannies work RICHMOND HILL, Ont. (CP) — Nikki Hayman i fife with four-y Id twins Joni than and Michael on a well-worn sofa in a middle-class home where she's paid to tend the children. “I couldn't love my own kids any more than these jays,’ says Hayman, whose moussed, rock-star hair- style and shapely tanned legs in white shorts do much to shatter the Mary Poppins image of an English nanny. With this new breed of nanny comes a new brand is the first step in negotiating with children — the key to good par- enting, says Tessa Warschaw, who with Victoria Secunda wrote Winning with Kids, To negotiate successfully, parents must understand who they’re dealing with — seeing their children as they are, not as they’d like them to be. “Parents don't know too much about their children,"” Warschaw, a New York psychotherapist, said in an interview in Toronto this week. ‘‘It's important that parents pay attention to their kids’ assets and liabilities."’ Once they are established, a par- ent can effectively negotiate for desired behavior. “The old ways of force, coercion, intimidation don’t work,’’ said Wars- chaw, 54. ‘‘Collaboration is the way to get what you want. “If you recognize your child’s individual style, you can work with it. You can teach him to grow up to be respectful of his style. and the kids will grow up and become negotiators themselves, minimizing their liab- ilities and maximizing the assets of their style”’. TYPES OUTLINED In her book, Warschaw charact- ¢rizes children in several types: * Baby bully — the charming draws a picture on the wall and says ‘See, Dad, I drew it for you.’ ’’) Kid Tyrant: an articulate achiever (makes you wonder if ‘‘he’s really a short adult, rather than a kid.’’) Loner: the truly quiet type (‘‘who LIKES to be alone.’’) © Saint:the cheerful helper (‘Saints are the first to offer you help with the dishes, or notice your new blouse, or give you a hug when you’re blue."” © Under dog: the vulnerable and timid (‘‘Sometimes it seems as though everything scares them.'’) eWinner — Confident teader (‘They are comfortable with them- selves and, do not anticipate trouble or rejection.’’) Each type has his good points and bad points. While a Kid Tyrant may excel at school, he or she may also be smug, stubborn and bad-tempered. The ever-helpful Saint is considerate but also manipulative. Parents too have their own styles, which grow out of their childhood ways: Jungle fighter: extroverted and charming, but tends to overreact. ator: articulate thinking but an intimidating perfectionist. © Silhouette: polite and depend- able but a workaholic who denies feelings. © Big Daddy-Mamma: nurturer who also is manipulative. © Soother: understanding, sees both sides but is indecisive and a conformist. © Winner: interested in others, helpful, balances work and home life and helps develop self-esteem. START YOUNG In her book, Warschaw outlines the basic steps of negotiations, “planting the seeds . with infants’ and on through the teenage years. As an example of a trade-off in negotiating with a youngster over household chores, ‘You might, for instance, agree to let him off the hook for one week regarding taking out the garbage, if at the end of that time he will help you clean out the garage or attic.”’ However, some issues are non- negotiable —. like lying, stealing, drugs, alcohol and other matters of generous bossy and p! Once only the rich had nannies. Now, more and more middle-income couples are hiring live-in babysitters. “"They're the two-income working family pulling home enough to spare $1,000 a month for better than average care of children and housework,"’ says Philipa Glazerman, who runs the Campbell Personnel agency in Winnipeg. “We're seeing a lot more middle-class couples,”’ says Katherine Bakalis of Active Nannies in Toronto. “*With day care in such high demand, they'll do just about anything to get a nanny.’ WHAT IT COSTS \ A good nanny might clear $200 a week, including room and board, for working five eight-hour days. Depending on experience and background, some nannies will work for $150 a week. If a nanny is eager to get her landed immigrant status in Canada, as many from developing countries For the nannies, the job is an avenue into Canada. Under the federal government's foreign domestic Program, those who otherwise would not qualify can come into the country on temporary work permits, They Biioms RESORT MOTEL * 1&2 bedroom units * Luxury kitchens, coble TV & ones Over-sized parking — boat & beaches across street Near golf, tennis Flintstones & waterslides: Kp en cd For reservations contact renident manogers I P.O. Box queen-size beds direct dial ramp spa pool 12 minutes trom Minter Gardens. B.C. vem 10 must agree to work as live-in for at least two years. After that, they may apply for landed immigrant status. Many of these nannies have post-secondary edu- ion and rations outside the home. Hayman, the nanny with a family in Richmond Hill, just north of Toronto, took two years of training in-social work in England and hopes to enter that field when her stint as nanny is done. NOT ALL GOOD Meanwhile, the work can be degrading, Hayman says, especially for those with employers who “treat you like a slave. “‘More often than not, they (nannies) wouldn't have , to resort to this kind of work in their own country, but they made the decision to move here, so they have to abide by the rules."” Hayman herself comes from a wealthy family in SheffieJd. After her parents’ marriage failed, she chose to come to Canada to escape the emotional turmoil at home. Feeling somewhat trapped by the bureaucracy, domestics often put up with unpleasant working condi- tions to stay in Canada, says the director of a lobby group for i are, she will likely be willing to take on chores on top of babysitting. Still, it’s expensive. But for larger families it makes economic sense, says Alan Derdak of City Domestics in Toronto. care can cost you $90 a week per child,’’ says If you have three children, that’s almost $300. But one nanny can care for three children, for $175 a week, plus room and board."’ The employer must also pay a minimum of $166 a month to cover the nanny’s income tax, unemployment insurance and government pension plan premiums. On top of all that, an agency may charge a finder’s fee of anywhere from $350 to $2,400. SUBSTITUTE MOM For Sheila Menhaf, who runs a\ Vancouver lumber business with her husband, day cate ‘‘wasn’t even a consideration."’ “I don’t want my children in day care,’’ Menhaf said in an interview. ‘‘These days you hear so many things about day care. One-on-one, if you can swing it, is much better.”’ A nanny is like a substitute mother — ‘‘it’s about the same as if 1 was home.”” ‘*We had a Sri Lankan domestic worker who was kept as a virtual prisoner, never allowed out alone," said Judith Ramirez, co-ordinator of Intercede. The case only came to her attention when the nanny was assaulted by her employer and sought help. SEX TROUBLE In another instance, a Filipino nanny was sexually by her male employer. She ined to the man’s wife, who ‘‘flew into a rage.”” “The worker was literally turned out in the dead of winter,’’ Ramirez said. However, employers also have their complaints: nannies quitting and moving on after only a few months, acting irresponsibly, stealing for their em- ployers or mistreating the children. But Hayman bristles when she hears “horror stories’’ about troublesome domestics. Most nannies are hard-working and devoted to their employers’ families, she insists. And they are aware of the profound influence they have in the children’s development. “They are going to look back and remember me,”’ says Hayman, cuddling the twins. ‘I’m going to be a major role in their education."” Quality accommodation | Travelodge | ae sa! parking VANCOUVER—COQUITLAM EASY OFF/EASY ON Brunette North at TRANS-CANADA, HWY New Wi Coquitlam Direct bus to Sk: 725 Brunetie Ave., Coquitlam, .C. 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