THE LIGHTER SIDE The Castlegar Sun WEDNESDAY, May 24, 1995 Ann Landers Syndicated Columnist Dear Ann Landers: My daughter had her first child recently. "Irene" told everyone she wanted only her husband and me in the delivery room. She stated quite emphatically that there was a waiting room for other relatives and that the hospital staff would keep them posted on the delivery. At the very end of her deliv- ery, when the doctor told Irene, "It's almost over -- the baby is just about here,” several in-laws trooped into the room to watch. Irene was extremely upset by this, but she didn't know how to handle the situation. By the time I realized all the relatives were in the delivery room, it was too late to say anything. The doctor was also annoyed because it drew his attention from Irene and the baby and spoiled the tender moment she had been planning throughout her entire pregnancy. Trene is now angry with her in-laws for not respecting her wishes. I have done my best to calm her down and urged her to let the matter drop, but she refuses to do so. The doctor and I both told Irene to con- front her in-laws, express her feelings and clear the air so she can enjoy her beautiful baby. She says she will try, but it is apparent that she is still very angry, and I fear this will go on until she alienates the whole family. I hope you will print my let- ter so others will learn not to ruin a most special time for someone else. -- Irene's Mom in Salinas, Calif. Dear Mom: Irene, her hus- band, her doctor and you need a course in how to be more assertive. Someone should have said to the invading troops, "You're in the way. I want you out of here RIGHT NOW. If you want to wait around until the baby comes, fine. But you'll have to wait in the other room." Metro | Quiz-Cross CLUES ACROSS Dread (4) Gulf (3) Be sullen (4) Boundary (9) Calm (4) Ring (4) Clan quarrels (5) Regal (5) 5. Freight (5) Active (5) Ester (5) Wanderer (5) Bird of prey (5) 3. Bell (4) 25. Granny (4) Extolled (9) Unsullied (4) Arid (3) 30. Tilt (4) CLUES DOWN Seu aweun- Replete (4) Bobbin (4) Ingrained dirt (5) Entreat (5) Ooze (4) Slay (4) Toy (9) Rebuke (9) Signal light (5) Employing (5) . Vista (5) Whiskey grain (3) Aged (3) Ventilated (5) Towering (5) Clutch (4) Adhesive (4) Tilt; list (4) Lacerated (4) WIOL OZ [29H “ST ONIN “bZ MUD EZ AYOT ZZ PAW “IZ auadg “¢] Burts, *Z] QeLy |] pueuridoy “g Sumpretd “L OA 9 deag “¢ perd “p ewUg ¢ [ey 7 MAL PIO'9T PAN 'vL wer] O€ UG “67 AN “$7 PAJUOIH “LZ wuUy “$7 Buo0H “Ez a13eg OT PEWON “61 JOMA ST PAN “LI OBreD “C1 AO “PI spnay 11 ad OL [N16 sewLed “2 FINS *s dep “¢ swag “| SNOLLN'TOS NMOG SSOUOV For the uf biggest smalick around btn wo Calvin ana Hobbes FOUR FULL DANS - MORNING, ‘NOON, AND NIGHT= JUST SITTING WW THE STUPID BATHTUB/ WHAT COULD POSSIBLY BE A BIGGER WASTE OF TIME THAN Way LOOK AT THIS, HOBBES E-ADDED-1T-UP-AND- FIGURED: OUT I SPEND AN AVERAGE OF FOUR DAYS A NEAR TAKING BATHS! by Bill Watterson WOW LONG DID IT TAKE YOu FO-ADD-THIS ALL UP? YOURE DELVOING YOURSELF, , LOOK AT -THIS BUG Go!” WHAT ON EARTH WOULD] | STUPIO! NOTHING YOU Do \S IMPORTANT! YOURE. MAKE A BUG HURRY? ONE BIG HAPPY OW MY GOSH, LOOK AT THE TIME / A HAT, AC ACAP, AND HORSE Je the ane he others —— Sly ) Ys NES. THEY'LL BoM BE STAYING WITH US FORA WEEK. JOMING THIS | THE Week, ISN'T |DAY DAReWS|E SHE? MOM IS fe ortlatee- BLITZ Now until the end of May. PLAZA |.D.A. PHARMACY Castleaird Piaza © “Your Neighbourhood Drugstore’ 365-7269 + May 19 - Happy 3rd Birthday > Sophie Streleoff love Mom, Dad & Tyler + May 19 - Happy Birthday Sweet Sophie Streleoff - hugs & kisses on your 3rd birthday - love Autitie Karen & ‘Unele Frank + May 21 - Happy Birthday Kathy - from your neighbors % IF YOU CAN FIND ~ 'EM GRIND 'EM To free up landscaping space, call about our new stump grinder IF YOU'RE STUMPED, 912. 4th Ave. CALL 365-5626