Page:10B ‘The Castlegar Sun Pedop Dear Ann Landers: I am 25 hile rges d several neig d hocked to Iear that his will did years old and have grown up reading your’column. I want to thank you for your relentless i ition to get ling. It kids, I quit when.I turned 18 because I knew I'd be in scrious trouble if I were caught, I finally took me a long time to get the courage to talk to a:mental health professional, but because you kept hammering away, I did it, Iam a pedophile, I know the subject of pedophilia is gross, but this sickness needs to be under- stood. Ever since I was a child, I have had sexual thoughts about children, I always knew this was wrong but I couldn't help it. From the age of 12 to 17,1 } LOWERS , Call ua ANY TIMED E ¢ : 29 Includes G.S.T. aubee Pewee ee homemade fries. 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You cannot do it on your own. Get help before you ruin some lives and screw up your own. —Any City, Any State Dear A.C.A.S., Thanks for a letter that only a person with the problem could have written, Take my word for it, you connected with a lot of child molesters today, and I thank you. People not specify what was to happen to _ the ‘business. Now my husband's: brother wants “his -‘share.;" although he never worked there, Over the years this brother had been given significant:sums) of cash in lieu of any stake. in\the business, but this was never writ- ten down. Now that he is being: ag Anns) Landers Syndicated Columnist: Bh Pach Meme ees ELY i Meh a AY AB sf able. More family ‘relationships ‘are ruined ‘over dividing estates than any single ‘factor, Benjamin Franklin said it: best:(“‘You never know a what’ a man is like until: you'share an ‘inheritance with him" 5 aacdto tants Dear Readers:: Did .you know that aspirin is not necessarily the safest way to reduce a fever? That you may NOT need surgery for an enlarged prostate that gets you up every two hours during the night? « i 48 EN Behe ‘, These are just a few of the bold statements in a new book by-Dr. Isadore Rosenfeld, : whose two divorced, he needs “settlement money” and insists he has a legal right to half of his father’s estate. An attorney has told us that he is on solid ground. He says a law- suit would be costly and we would probably lose. Ann, print this. Warn your readers to get everything in writ- ing and clear it with a lawyer or they might end up like this, — Broke and Heartsick Dear Friends: Your letter says it far better than I could. ‘Thanks need to know this is a si and if not treated can and does muin lives. Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band worked in his father’s small business for 15 years. “Hal’s” salary was very small but he didn't complain because his father told him repeatedly that he would inherit the business. Two years ago, when I became pregnant with our second child, Hal suggested he and his dad form a hip b we for an ample of what can happen when one assumes that everyone is fair and honor- Pp self-help books have told you about: His newest one is sure to be'a best seller. reading this book is like ah i from. Wednesday, November. 20,1991’ gives his readers some extremely good’advice that helps us‘under-: stand & great deal about our. phys-' ical, problems and how’ best to handle‘ them. This book’discuss- es, in alphabetic order, AIDS, alcohol’. abuse; ies, Not everyone: with high blood pressure need follow a strict no- salt diet, °) 2 A i:You\CAN still look forward.to having ‘a‘child:of your own even if an exhaustive and extensive rs to seek help Alzheimer's discase, anxicty-and; depression, asthma,'; cancer, . fertility.’ ‘k-up suggests other- A cancer that has spread is not ¢ (breast, cervical, ling, pan an ) ipatio: A low. 1 Jevel is not betes, endometriosis, gallstones, heart attacks, hemorthoids,'hep-, atitis, herpes, high blood pres- sure, impotence, incontinence, , always better than a higher onc, There are’ more effective ways than calcium supplements to'pre- vent and treat osteoporosis in infertility, i kidney stones, leg cramps, ‘Lyme di 1 women. ‘There|is much that is new in the field of health care, for exam- to control the mum} ips, painkillers, Parkinson's disease, , ia, prostate enl prost: a wann, sympathetic, knowledge- able doctor, except there ‘is no oO . Iphabetically: this ; stroke, sun- bum, syphilis, thyroid hormone Tourette's di tuberculosis, ulcers, urinary tract easy-to-read reference ‘covers a vast range of illnesses from everyday ailments such as the common cold and headache, to more serious and possible life- threatening problems such as can- cer, strokes and-heart attacks. While Dr. Rosenfeld tells us that no book can replace the ser- vices of a'trained physician, he weight control; worms and parasites ... and mote. 5 Dr, Rosenfeld emphasizes that some form of exercise on a regu- lar basis is essential to general good health. He also tells us why diets don't work. y Dr. Rosenfeld, who has been in practise for more than 40 years, makes some statements that might surprise you. For example: treatment of cancer and heart attacks, You will read ‘about them and more in this 313-page trea- sure trove. : The book'I.am recommending ” is “The Best Treatment.” The publisher is Simon and Schuster, . . The price is $22 (higher in Call your favourite bookstore today and tell them to save two copies—one for you and another for someone you care about: You'll be glad you did. Trust me, Mews of the weird News of the weird. News of the weird At least 92 restaurants in Luoyang, China, were’ shut down in August after they had been found by government inspectors to have been inserting opium pods and seeds into their dishes to addict customers to their food. Almost one ton of pods and seeds had very little money and no health insurance. His father explained that there were sizable tax ages to the i if was . Officials became suspicious when they saw long lines of people waiting to get into some restaurants while neighbor- things were left as is. Last year my father-in-law died suddenly of a heart attack. While grieving for this man whom we loved, we were . GLASS & TRIM LTD. (24 HOUR EMERGENCY SERVICE 1050 COLUMBIA AVE. 365-6505 led: maintenance. -B. Hydro apologizes for.any inconvenience this may 2 ing were empty. new s:o Wei Ne man in March after he had appar- ently shot himself in the head acci- dentally. He didn’t remember doing it. They found a buliet hole above his eyebrow when he showed up complaining of blurred vision, He later that he had accidentally shot himself when he fell while carrying a small-cal- iber gun up a flight of stairs. * William R. Randall, 61, of Mesa, Ariz., was asleep when shot in the face in February but . didn’t realize it until three days later when the bullet showed up in an X-ray. Randall, who had called in sick from work each of those ~ three days, still has no idea hOW he was shot, but police found a note in his kitchen reading: “Bill, # you've. been shot..Call 911.” ; * Michael Stivers, former police officer and professional q wrestler in St. P Fla., them lying around on lab benches.” ° A recent report in The Machinist magazine stated that the moon contains about 100 mil- lion tons of Helium-3, an element that sells for $1,000 a gram on Barth, Only 27 tons of it ina fusion reactor could power the entire United States for a year, with litde radioactive waste. * Chinese sex specialist Chen Kai earlier this year introduced a machine to help Chinese men’ with the pervasive problems of impotence and premature ejacula- tion. Chen posits that the lack of privacy in China, coupled with traditional notions of mod Tequire the sex act to be complet- ed quickly.and with-minimal plea-' sure. For therapy, the patient inserts his penis into Chen's machine, where it is bathed with dicine and stinmlated with the incited the American Psychologi m™ cal Association to call for an investigation in July over his claims that he could enlarge ‘women’s breasts through hypno- aq sis. At least three women have given testimonials for Stivers, claiming increases of 2 to 3 inch- es, although one 3-inch woman said she later experienced a 1 1/2- inch shrinkage. * Associated Press reported in current compilation of | garch on the brain ion (120 the most of i Chen said he would’ soon open a women’s clinic. THE DEMOCRATIC PROCESS automatic TV caméra in the Span- ish parliament had captured Sen. Joaquin Galan pressing his own voting button with his finger while also pressing the voting but- ton on an adjacent, unoccupied desk with his outstretched foot. DO AS I SAY, NOT ASIDO « Mark Mirimanian, 37, a for- mer treasurer of the Las Cruces, N.M., Crime Stoppers, was sen- tenced to 18 months in prison in March for embezzling $138,000 from the bank he worked for as vice president. Pusa Finau, 42, a leader: of the Samoan Men Against Violence group in New Zealand, was imprisoned in May for six years after attacking a Sleéping than Within hammer. He! had also recently torched his estranged wife and her home. « Minneapolis lawyer Robert Joseph Brenner, 40, who special- izes in defending victims of sexual harassment, was charged in July with sexually abusing a 7-year-old girl. During a search of Brenner's «In a report on the progress of democracy in Poland, the. official news agency wrote in July that only one of the 595 eligible voters in the village of Mragowo cast a ballot. That man was one of the in number, all of fairly famous peo- st peculiar’ people do, edited by Chuck ple) at the University of Japan. Shepherd. Since researchers are reluctant to fapan’s Proof that true stories are ¢*P¢riment on brains, citing rar) t de-up J iy the stories. SCIENCE FAIR « Doctors in New Hamburg, Ontario, treated an 80-year-old brains remain in storage. Said the curator, “I think the Japanese would want to keep the famous brains the way (we keep them here). They wouldn’t like to have SA Se er) CHECK OUT:OUR:NEW = CLOTH DIAPERS. * Begins Thursday, November 7. (Closed Monda; 25% OFF Everything In The Store! Sale Ends Saturday, November 23 , November 11) . 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By his vote, he selected the school board member and determined the budget. ¢ Spain’s two main parties demanded a new vote on an income tax bill in May. because 177 votes were cast by the 156 senators present: The newspaper The European reported in June an house, police discovered a. entitled ge and Dominance NewsFlash.” ° Wang Zafen, a local leader on women’s issues in Wenshan, China, was arrested in May and charged with abducting and sell- ing women into slavery, after two were passed on to traders: women in Burma for $470. ‘* Convicted arsonist Michael Hames, 22, who is still serving his five years’ probation, was elected the unpaid chief of the Chesnee, S.C., Fire Department in June by the 14 members of the depart- ment. (Send. your Weird News to Chuck Shepherd, P.O. Box 57141, Washington, D.C. 20037.) © Just a few samples... 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You'll probably’ get:some bright ideas on ‘how to add happiness to +your romantic life. TAURUS ~ ‘April 21/May 21 Be prepared to spend more time with your family this: weekend or. you May encounter awkward situations because someone feels left out. Romance is steadier and hobbies Could be turned into moncy-making possibilities, A spectacular carcer cap is possible. ‘ GEMINI - May 22/June 21 ‘There are some interesting aspects at work throughout the next few days, A chain of events could alter your life at home or at work. Stop worry- ing! The next few weeks‘are going to be a busy time for'you, so try to relax as much as possible this week. CANCER = June 22/July 22 The planetary line-up makes for Peaceful conditions in working sur- i This week is i suitable for getting much done at home in record time. A good week for doing special household shop- ping because bargains are available. LEO — July 23/Aug 23 Jupiter's aspects will probably make you feel more confident and opti- mistic, Something which happens on the 22nd could coincide with a “lucky break” for you.’ Travel, or involvement with people from other countries or, becomes rewarding. VIRGO — Aug 24/Sept 22 ‘Try not to take your irritation or rest- lessness out on other people this weekend, You seem.to be daydream- ing about romance, but don't mix friends and finances or you could make yourself, unpopular. Keep ni SCORPIO — Oct 24/Nov 22 The main emphasis this: weck is on your home environment. There should be a peaceful atmosphere and news.about a loan or mortgage, adding to your happiness ‘and encouraging you. Don't get:too excited — there could be'a minor setback to your immediate plans. . SAGITTARIUS — Nov 2¥Dec 21 Try to avoid wasting time and, effort on trivialities, Postpone mone; deals; there are“indications that you'll need to take heed in the spending department. You must be firm. with certain people to make them see your way. CAPRICORN — Dec 22/Jan.20 Pleasure may be marred over the. weekend by your preoccupation with money — you may fee! that ‘you're getting poor value for your money or. be disgruntled because of self-denial due to financial, considerations. Strong matchmaking impulses are fostered on the. 20th and the 21st of this month. AQUARIUS ~ Jan 21/Feb 18° - Valuable cosmic vibrations can be utilized in a number of different ways. If you are in business, look for additional income from:unusual sources. What appear to be risky propositions might be worth a chance. Others should look for improved emotional affairs. PISCES ~ Feb 19/March 20 You see someone that you have known for quite a long time and there are indications that you could do each other a lot of good business- wise.-Friends make you forget wor- ries and you are in a jubilant mood throughout most of the week! YOUR BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK The next 12 months Your everlasting loyalty is greatly i d in the coming months; i a within rein, or you will out-do yourself. LIBRA — Sept 23/Oct 23 You may have been rather unsure about moncy matters recently. But something which happens now will take away doubts. You have a chance -to.do something artistic, But be care- ful: You tend to be accident prone on the 20th or 22nd when plans go awry. friends or family will be there when you need them. And let go of that grudge you have been carry- ing! four hostility could take more ofa toll on you than on the person to whom it’s directed. A Capricom or Sagittarius may have smart advice to offer;, listen’ well. and don’t take it for granted. Watch your sinances this year. Calvin and Hobbes (BACK AND FORTH! IN Bee cores Bitton } THANKS ! GREAT! WE SuST. SIGNED UP. 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