Page 6B The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, May 27, 1992 Wednesday, May 27, 1992 Husba mow he can't stand to be around her. Dear Mr. Smoked Out: You tant, didn’t you stop smoking when YOU wanted to and not I'm sure your urge to smoke was very strong when you were trying to quit. Why then judge how much your wife will need to kick the habit? She's not you, My husband and I are both ex- Check with us to be sure your vehicle Is rated correctly. Renew With Us! CASTLEGAR SAVINGS INSURANCE = 3026 Hwy. 6 Stocan Park, B.C. 226-7216 weet $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ BUY MORE - SAVE MORE Monday, May 25 to Saturday, May 30 Purchase up to $100 and SAVE 15% $100 to $200 and SAVE 20% $200 & Up and SAVE 25% candals 445 Baker St., Nelson, B.C. * 352-7337 Across from Sonja’s China & Gift Cabinet PARAARAAAHAAHAAHAAHAAHHHHHHHH ally. I went cold turkey. We both had withdrawal symptoms, mood swings and some weight gain. My husband nagged me for six months to quit after he did, That made me more determined than ever to keep smoking. When he told me I smelled terrible, I smoked more. He avoided me at bedtime which made me angrier than ever. I retaliated by increas- ing my smoking until I was up to two-and-a-half packs a day. He stopped speaking to me. I contin- ued to smoke. For reasons that are still unclear to me, he decided on his own to stop nagging and criticiz- ing. After six months of blissful peace, I went to the office as usual, was about to light up and instead took the whole pack and ripped up each cigarette one at a time. The important thing is that I decided to quit smoking for MYSELF. Not for my husband and children, but because I want- ed to quit for ME. When your wife decides to quit, Mr. Smoked Out, you will have to be her major support, as my husband was to me. Be understanding. Tiptoe around her if she is moody. Let her take long walks by herself if she needs to be alone, Never give her the feeling that you don't trust her, even if you suspect she's gong for a walk so she can light up. Let her know she is still attractive and desir- able. Do NOT bring up , Ever. — Ex-Smoker in Capitol Heights, Md. Dear Ann Landers: Let me this straight: bills, singed clothes and house- hold furnishings, and of course cigarettes. 2. Despite the fact that his wife smells like a trash fire, she con- tinues her voluntary cigarette addiction, unconcerned about the damage it’s doing to her health, their finances and their relation- ship. 3. The husband has lost inter- est in her sexually because of the stench. 4. You think HE needs coun- News of the weird LEAD STORY + A 31-year-old man turned himself in to Anchorage, Alaska, police in January claiming to be the fugitive “Dr. Diaper,” who had been appearing at local day-care centers in diapers and trying to get them to take him in. Two years before, Dr. Diaper contracted with a baby sitter by phone, claiming to be the parent of an 18-year-old boy who had the mentality of a toddler, and who needed to be changed and fed, and whose bad habits (masturbating in public) should be ignored. When the baby sitter arrived, the giant baby was Dr. Diaper himself. On another occasion, a prospective baby sitter said Dr. Diaper had come to her door once carrying his own 3- year-old son because he could not find a real baby sitter for the boy while he went out on his escapade. Presented to: Kathy Soloveoff Tulips Floral Co. AN The C. Sun IWS Excellence in Service Award This award will be presented every week to someone in Castlegar who shows extraordinary service to his/her customers or clients. The recipients will receive an award plaque to keep courtesy of Kats Trophys and a lunch for 2, value to $20.00, courtesy of the Fireside Dining Room. We'd like everyone in Castlegar to know there is an "Excellence in Service” in their community, and to congratulate each of them personally. If you know of someone that offers "Excellence in Service,” call me, Jon Jarrett at 365-5266, or drop a letter at the Castlegar Sun with your suggestion. JUST CAN’T STOP MYSELF + Richard Smith, 31, celebrated his release from jail in March with a dinner at the Tara Hyannis Hotel in Massachusetts. He had served 90 days for running out on nine restaurant tabs last summer. He was promptly arrested again, for running out on the $28 check at the Tara. + John Fogleman, 30, serving time for rape in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., was arrested in November for making obscene telephone calls + Mahad Omar, 22, who is imprisoned for robbery and assault in Kingston, Ontario, but who had been given a one- day pass in December to attend a religious ceremony, was returned to jail before the day was over for rob- bing a woman at knifepoint in St. Michael's Cathedral in Toronto. SMOOTH REACTIONS » James L. Ramey, 53, of Clyde, N.C., was charged with assault in November after a 15- minute brawl at the rural Full Gospel Holiness Church. The brawl began when one person wanted to occupy the back pew, which was occupied, as usual, by a church regular. The church min- ister’s son suffered a bite to the neck that required 31 stitches. + Aerospace engineer Dean Harvey Hicks of Costa Mesa, Calif., was sentenced to 20 years in prison in February as a result of his conviction for launching aerial bombs at one Internal Revenue Service building and trying to blow up three others in 1991. = Grenby seling to find out what the real problem is? How did you get your job? — M.E.J., Indianapolis, Ind. Dear M.E.J.; Getting the job is one thing. Hanging on to it since 1955 is another story, Now as for your criticism: Please go back and read my answer again. I recommended JOINT counseling and asked, “Can it be that you are too con- trolling and is her way of sneaking a bit of indepen- dence?” Does THAT make sense to you? It did to me. Dear Ann Landers: I have woman said, “It's my business how much I weigh.” These are the people I want to address.” Our oldest son had a weight problem most of his life. We tried everything to encourage him to lose weight. Repeatedly he said, “It’s my life. I'l do what I want with it.” Well, Ann, he did exact- ly that and died at age 33, weigh- ing 560 pounds. He went into the hospital with what everyone thought was a severe case of the flu. A few days hepatitis, but according to the tests he did not have this illness. The doctors couldn't take X- rays because the table wouldn't support anyone who weighed more than 300 pounds. They couldn't do a body scan because he wouldn't fit in the machine. They couldn't do a spinal tap because the nurses were unable to roll him over. Bight people were required to give him a sponge bath — two to hold the bed down so it wouldn't tip over. He was in the hospital less than a month when he died of congestive heart failure and liver and kidney problems. No one should ever experience the helplessness of watching a loved one die because it was “his life to do with as he pleased.” I know this pain after watching my son die from overeating. How tragic that all the medical know!- edge available couldn't save him. — P.L.W., Colton, Calif. Dear Colton: This was more than a medical lem — it was a psychological problem. It wasn't so much what your son was- eating, but what was eating him. I'm sure you did your best, dear. Some people are beyond help and nothing can save them. later he develope: of by Chuck Sheperd Hicks had become di: that the IRS had refused to allow him a tax deduction for an $8,000 dona- tion to a mail-order “church.” * In Quebec city, Canada, in February, Serge Pouliot threatened to turn Pouliot in for sleeping at work. Both men oper- ate an X-ray machine at a ship- yard, where Pouliot committed the assault by severely X-raying the supervisor, subjecting him to the equivalent of 20 years’ on-the-job exposure. SPORTS NEWS + In Nashwauk, Minn., Hibbing Community College beat St. Paul Bible, 85-6, in football in Septem- ber, amassing 764 yards total offense by passing on its every single play. It would have been worse, but St. Paul Bible was in a “prevent” defense the entire game. + Among the rituals of Atlanta Braves minor Pitcher Turk Wendell in 1991: He always crosses the foul line with a kanga- roo jump; demands that the umpire roll the ball to him to start the game; chews licorice on the mound and then brushes his teeth every inning; occasionally makes a pick-off throw to first base with no runners on; and once took a camera to the mound in his pock- et, took it out, and snapped a photo of the batter before pitching to him. + Jeremy Edge, an Owensboro, Ky., high school basketball player, scored 7 points in one second in a January game against Hancock My [ ap County. He was fouled with :01 left in the first half and made both free throws. With the clock still stopped, a technical foul was called against Hancock County a 3-point shot before the buzzer sounded. + Earl H. Brockington was con- victed in February of robbery in Kansas City, Mo., for an incident a year ago. He had taken a woman's purse (containing only $5) in a Parking garage, then accidentally nicked the woman with his knife, Provoking her to scream, where- upon four men chased him, forc- ing him to leap from a parking deck 25 feet to the ground, injur- ing his leg. He managed to hobble to, and climb underneath, a parked + Gregory Putnam, 42, a veréran sheriff's deputy who had been on inactive status since 1984 after a heart transplant, was disciplined in November by an Oregon City, Ore., judge, who lifted Putman's license to carry a concealed weapon. Putman, apparently frus- trated at being shelved from “active” status, had modified his car so that it would resemble a State patrol car and had allegedly stopped at least three motorists on his own to lecture them on lawful behavior. Putman said later that he had “let the old days get the best of me,” Continued from 4B but first see if you can: « Refinance the debt. “I was stuck with a 12.75 per cent rate and didn’t realize that if I could borrow elsewhere a lower rate, I could pay off the more expensive loan.” Brook said. + Spend less. Could you share accommodation to cut costs? Or perhaps barter your services? Borrow a “How to Live on Less” show, 10) y, Schedule for May 27, 28 & 29 Wed. 6:30 pm, Thurs. 9:00 am + Miss Castlegar Candidates - interviews with contestants. Wed. 7:00 pm, Thurs. 9:30 am * Maxwell School of Dance - Spring recital. Thurs. 6:00 pm, Fri., 9:00 am * Trail City Council - gavel to gavel coverage. May 30 & 31 * Sat. 6:00 pm - Childrens Miracle Telethon - Live coverage. * Sunday 5:30 pm - Miss Castlegar candidates - repeat. * 6:00 pm - Maxwell School of Dance - repeat. * 7:30 pm - Castlegar Citizens of the Year Banquet - coverage of this years presentation to Peter & Mary Oglow. * 8:30 pm - In Concert - The Galo Family and Friends - this musical family from Nicaragua performed before a packed house at St. Michael's School. Other performers Included Joe Irving and Our Lady of Perpetual Help Choir. bs book for ideas. + Eam more. Get another job, perhaps something you can do from home. Look for work in a “hardship” location with subsi- dized expenses, good pay and nowhere to spend your money. Note that if you have defaulted on a student loan and do get a job, Revenue Canada can take your tax refund and apply it to your debt. The BC government grants a of pr 'y-guaran teed student loans beyond certain levels of indebtedness provided the student gets a degree. Mike Grenby is a Vancouver- based columnist and independent financial adviser who works with individuals; he will answer your questions as space allows — write to him clo The Castlegar Sun 465 Columbia Avenue, Castlegar, BC VIN 1G8. Silver Rattle Antiques 301-11 Ave. Castlegar, (in Tulips Building) 365-5191, Dialogue The Castlegar Sun Page 7B HOROSCOPES May 24-30 ARIES - March 21/April 20 You are always the “idea person” and, as such, wonderful and unex pected crop up — this By Toni D'Amato id Helen Hayes star in a TV series that was very much like **Murder, She Wrote”? I say she did, but my husband says she never starred in a TV series, — T.E.; Jersey City, N.J. Helen Hayes Helen Hayes, who is some- times called The First Lady of American Theater, starred in “The Snoop Sisters” (1973- 74), which appeared in rota- tion in the ‘““NBC Mystery Movie.” Hayes played Er- nesta Snoop, sister of Gwen Snoop. On the series, the Snoop sisters were popular mystery writers who were also pretty adept at solving crimes. They were frequently helped out by their chauffeur/body- guard Barney (Lou Antonio), and their police lieutenant nephew Steve Ostrowski (Bert Convy). Hayes also starred in a number of productions for popular TV playhouses in the *50s and °60s, including “Om- nibus”’ and ‘‘Schlitz Play- house of Stgrs,”” and she won an Emmy in 1952. Hayes is the mother of actor James MacArthur (who played Det. Danny Williams on “Hawaii Five-O”). Her autobiography is titled “Twice Over Light- ly.” Hayes was born in Wash- ington, D.C., in 1900. l remember seeing a series called ‘‘Mr. Terrific.”’ Who played the hero of the show, and when did it air? — J.L.C., Kalispell, Mont. “Mr. Terrific’’ was a sitcom that aired from January to August 1967. It featured Ste- phen Strimpell as Stanley Beamish, or Mr. Terrific Beamish was a gas station op- erator who ended up working for the fictitious Bureau of Se- cret Projects. He was assigned missions by the government and given top secret power pills that turned him into a su- per hero. But the power pills only lasted an hour (slightly longer if he took a double dose). That’s where the laughs came in. The pills tended to wear off at the strangest, most inconvenient times. This was the only regular series for Strimpell. The series also starred John McGiver as Bar- ton J. Reed, Dick Gautier as 1 Hal Walters and Paul Smith as Harley Trent here is Nicollette Sheri- 35 dan from? — A.G., McAllen, Texas Nicollette Sheridan, who Plays Paige Matheson on “Knots Landing,” was born in Worthing, England, on Nov. 21, 1963. Crystal ape (| Eayes va avenvens "|| Crysmats'> Rocks + Jewellery » POLLAINE F. EMDE 1480 COLUMBIA AVE. CASTLEGAR, B.C. VIN 3K3 (604) 365-7616 Res 365-3253 week is no exception. Single Arians may get a set-back on the romantic front while those who are married might find their partner or children the source of concern, but all will be straightened out by the week's end. TAURUS - April 21/May 21 Your tendency to be stubborn has gained you much respect, but it has also has caused some valuable friendships to be destroyed. Don’t let your foolish pride et in the way this time, or you'll find yourself very lonely. A Libra of the opposite sex lightens up your gloomy mood. GEMINI - May 22/June 21 Get out and have fun on Monday and Thursday. Romance is in the air. Be Sure, however, not to overdo things as your work may suffer if you don't get enough rest. Towards the end of this week, there will be a need to dis. Cuss some special plans with a loved one; perhaps over the proposed pur- chase of some major household item, or even a new home. CANCER - June 22/July 22 Don’t keep putting off making that important phone call any longer! You've waited long enough — call Tuesday or Wednesday, if possible, and you will get a pleasant surprise. Later in the week, a friend or rela- tive may need your help or advice LEO - July 23/August 23 You may come face to face with some domestic problems during the Start of this week. If you are unsure what action you should take, seek the advice of someone who is “older and wiser.” You could meet up with an old flame and re-ignite the spark: just make sure you know what you're in for. VIRGO - Aug 24/Sept 22 Restrictions at home and at work lift during the opening days of this week, so you now can go after your goals. Make decisions about money matters around mid-week; remember to consider all options. Romance blossoms late in the week, but don’t rush into anything without careful thought LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23 Study your financial situation care- fully; there may be some need to cut back on one or two things, but on the whole, finances are somewhat better than you thought. A visitor cheers you up when you're feeling de- pressed on Wednesday or Thursday Social activities will dominate towards the latter part of this week. SCORPIO - Oct 24/Nov 22 You may take a long journey that will prove both successful and rewarding. A tempting job or pro- motion may be offered around mid- week. But you may not like the peo- ple that you'll have to work with, and you may decide against accept- ing. Near the end of this week, you'll encounter an embarrassing situation during a social gathering, but you'll still have fun! SAGITTARIUS — Nov 23/Dec 21 Job decisions will almost certainl: affect your family, so be sure to seek their opinion before taking the final step in any career moves. An older person can help you get what you want. Relax whenever you have the Opportunity; your mind needs a rest. Meditation should be considered, if you don't already make use of this source of tranquility. CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20 Teamwork will be vital this week. But don't allow personal differences to interfere with your plans. A valu- able gift could come your way, but probably not before Wednesday Treat it carefully. Your social life is likely to become very active later in the week; many friends will want to be with you. AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18 Some unexpected hitch in your plans may occur on Monday or Tuesday, but try not to get too frustrated Things will turn out better than you thought. Avoid losing your temper around mid-week; be as patient and cheerful as you can. A small gamble pays off towards the end of the week but, if you're not careful, you could lose a big one PISCES - Feb 19/March 20 This is a good week for new rela tionships, so if you're single, get out and mix with the opposite sex as much as possible! An unexpected invitation to a party will lift you out of the rut on Tuesday or Wednesday, so accept it even if it means that you've got to cancel some previous- ly made arrangements. 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