Page 10B The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, October 6, 1993 Ann Landers Syndicated Columnist Dear Ann Landers: | am sepa. rated and in the process of a divorce. l have met an extraordinary man who is interested in marrying me Everything about this man is ideal except for his relationship with his mother Hank’ is in his 30s and still lives at home. He was injured several years ago and required a lot of at- home care. His widowed mother is yery nosy and extremely controlling. Hank assumes that if we marry, I will move into hismother’s home. To complicate matters, Hank's mother helped pay his medical bills, $0 every payday, he hands over his theck. She gives him an allowance and pockets the rest Ann, | was brought up to believe @ husband and wife should live together— alone. Newlyweds, espe- tially, need privacy. With Hank's mother doing the marketing, cooking and other household chores, I would fee! like a fifth wheel Shouldn't a wife cook and care for her husband? And if he hands over his paycheck, how will we start fo save for our funure? Hank- doesn’t understand why I'm 80 apprehensive. I truly love him, Ann, and I know I’11 never find fanyone as loving and caring. I need to know, Ann, if you think he is a {mama's boy” who can t change or if there is hope for us. — Cold Feet in Minnesota Dear Minnesota: Maybe the stars fin your eyes are obscuring your Mision, but I see red flags all over the Place | If you agree to move in with Hank id his mother, you had better call fe divorce lawyer now. There is no jvay your martiage can survive if ‘Our mother-in-law runs the house- ae and gets your husband's pay- Pheck. . Your only hope is to get Hank to gree to joint counseling so he can hear from a third party that his moth- Fie apron strings are strangling his hance for happiness. I hope. for his fake. that he agrees. 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Happy Birthday Susan Giles - from Brian & Ginny Happy Birthday Baba Pictin - love Nicole & David Happy “quarter of a century” Birthday Schmoo - love Pooks Happy 3rd Birthday Evan Hoodicoff - love + Oct 8 Happy Birthday Brian Gray - from Baba & Deda Saliken Happy Sth Birthday Katrina Walker - love *Oct 8 THIS WEEK'S WINNER IS Mom, Dad, Lindsay INDICATED BY LOGO & Eric Phone in your birthday wish & we will print it free of charge All birthday greetings must be Phoned in (365-5266) by Noon Thursday the week before the paper is published WF YOUR BIRTHDAY SUBMISSION IS NOT IN THIS WEEKS AD, in Service Award Wednesday, October 6, 1993 Home Improvements Begin With Accident-Proofing Your Home. “accident recommends they g: dangers lurk in their See it When you baby begins pulling up, crawling or becomes a toddler, parents and 8rand-parents should consider the following to ace ident»proof their homes for Peace of mind. ° KITCHEN — Installing cabinet and drawer latches helps Prevent unnecessary Poisoning * BEDROOM — To Prevent electrical shocks or burns, electrical outlet covers and plugs should be installed where necessary * BATHROOM — Install a thick, spongy bathtub spout cover to’ help prevent head injuries and a liquid crystal thermometer is 4 must lo measure water temperature easily. KinderGard’s child Protection products are superior-design, Premium-quality products made of engineering-grade ‘ * 1052 Donald Stree Robson, B ESTATE SALE — OFFERS FOR SALE BY OWNER $89,900 2 bedroom full basement home in Robson. To View 365-7855 or Nick - 888-7069, MUST SELL The Castlegar Sun Page 11B CASTLEGAR HOMEFINDERS thermoplastics They last longer than inferior flimsy, toy-grade Asian plastics,” say KinderGard's marke (ing manager “That's why they work better Then, your home can be a place for your youngsters to play, explore and discover safety,” ObeOen Place ADULT COMMUNITY EXTERIOR FEATURES * Recreation Centre * Private Fenced Yards * Underground sprinklers * Street Lighting * Level Entry * Year round maintenance * Fully landscaped * Guest parking $107,900 A Plan + 1,158 sq. ft. INTERIOR FEATURES * 2 bedroom - 2 bath * Designer Light Fixtures * European Cabinets with oak handles + Built-In Vacuum System with Powerhead * Skylight in kitchen * Built-In dishwasher + Indirect (dome) lighting + Rounded drywall prices corners sta ar * Bay windows Show Home Open Daily 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. Show home furnished by | . [Thank you to all of the people who] attended our “Grand Opening” Home Goods of Your support and enthusiasm was China Creek greatly appreciated, 365-0474 2210 Columbia Ave., Castlegar LIVING Pacious living and family rooms Si high, vaulted ceilings and fireplaces offer warm, pleasant spaces for entertaining and family activities in this 2,877 square foot contemporary. Vertical board siding and tall boxed chimneys enhance the multi-level lines of the house, covered with a cluster of intersecting gable rooflines From the sheltered front door, you step into the L-shaped entry hall. Ahead a few steps and to the right is the sunken living room, with its open beaming ceiling. The fireplace on one end wall is flanked by tall windows, and sliding glass doors at the other end lead out to the patio or wood deck. A step up from the living room leads to the formal dining room Ast around the corner from the entry the U-shaped kitchen and adjoining k. for informal meals Across the hall isithe vaulted family room. which as a Wet bar and a large fireplace flanked by a wood storage bin The spacious thaster suite has access to me patio,/phus a large walk-in wardrobe anda private bathroom The powder room/and utility room near the garage door complete the 1,982 square foot main floor. An open/stairway in the front hall leads to the 895 square foot upper level and the hall with an open railing overlooking the vaulted family room Lorne Marshall, Marketing Representative MICHAEL'S NUGGETS WITH INTEREST RATES 80 LoW IT 1S A CRIME TO PAY RENT! Do you malize you can buy is bome for 5% down and that payments on a $50,000 mortgage are @s low as $375 per month JEWEL OF THE WEEK Large 1,500 sq ft remodelled family home with double garage, million dollar kite hen, sunken living room, huge master bedroom and large flat (possibly subdividable) lo $119,900 Michael Kereiff 365-7825 res. 365-2166 1761 Columbia Ave., Castlegar, B.C Se. me in N. Castlegar. With $2,700 downpayment could be as low as $385 Per month. Asking $54,900 NUGGET OF THE WEEK 1.6 acres with mobile home in Glade. View of the river and fenced for horses. $64,900 REA’K Decorate-it-Y ourself Home Improvement Tips From Carol Oglow Wallcovering Can = Dominate Decor or Unify Elements the size of the room being decorated A small-scale pattern can get lost in a large room while a large pattern can be overpowering in a small room. It’s usually safe to match the size of the pattern to the size of the room; @ small pattern in a small room, a large pattern in a large room Think about the scale of the pattern itself. Will it harmonize with other design elements in the room? Does it go with the furniture? A contemporary room can get its visual energy from a vigorous geometric paper, deftly balanced by the quiet solids of the carpet and modular sofa, accented by the dotted fabric coordinate on the chairs. Whether planning a room around wallcovering, or selecting wallcover- ing to tie a room together, a balanced custom look can result from the pro- Per pattern choices. When primary design focus in a room is the drapes, the carpeting or the upholstery, wallcovering can be chosen in a coordinating pattern to complete the decor. | If this is the case, keep two things about pattern in mind; color and scale. Colors should be alike — scale should not. Visual variety is the key When a favorite wallcovering is the beginning focus, it's easy to borrow its colors for the rest of the fur. nishings. A background color might be used for the woodwork, for in stance, a medium range for the carpeting and the most outstanding color for accents. For the home decorator who wants to pull everything together, a wallcov ering collection with coordinating fabrics, borders and accessories, such as window treatments and pillows, can do the trick When choosing a pattern, consider For more information, visit: OGLOW'S PAINT, WALLCOVERINGS & BLINDS SR 613 Columbia Ave., Castlegar 365-6214 Member Canadian Decorating Products Association “With a home for you!” 365-5228 1451 Columbia Avenue Castlegar, B.C. VIN 1H8 nly Real Estate compa DID YOU KNOW Mi. Sentine t ast t to the Koot “te providing MULTIPLE LISTING SERVICE REVENUE HOME This fully renovated 3 bedroom home renting at $550.00, plus $350.00 for basement suite. Separate services. Tenants pay the heat and light Mortgage payment would be $462.40. Asking price in $70’s, Baba Laktin Happy 2nd Birthday Brian Gray - from Mom, Dad & Jennifer Three bedrooms, one with a vaulted ceiling, share the double-lavatory bathroom A vaulted den, overlooking the open entry hall, adds a multi- purpose room to the upper level This exciting contemporary has an optional daylight basement for added living and bedroom space Addréss inquifies about PLAN 1054- 1A-AP to KENNETH E. GEPHART, AIBD; 9630 S.w Eagle Lane, Beaverton, Oregon 97005. Phone (503) 641-7584; Fax (503) 644-7261. Visa/MC available A set of five Professionally drawn plans, for financing, permit filing and construction, is $300.00 for PLAN 1054-1A-AP or $325.00 for PLAN1I054-1D-AP. Extra sets are $25.00 each. A material list is $30.00 Add $8.00 for postage and handling. A study plan (4 exterior elevations and floor plan) is available for $15.00 postage included. 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