HE LIGHTER SIDE

The Castlegar Sun

WEDNESDAY, June 28, 1995

Ann
Landers

Syndicated
Columnist

Dear Ann Landers: I grew up
in a small town in South Dakota
and had a very confusing child-
hood. I am male, but until high
school, | looked like a very pretty
little girl. My father was attracted
to me, as were several other male
members of my extended family
Physical, sexual, mental and verbal
abuse were frequent occurrences
until I was in my middle teens.

I ran away to Texas as soon as |
could, found a job and tried to build a
life. Depression consumed me, and I
attempted suicide. I was commited to
a mental ward twice and once checked
myself in. I have had three psycholo-
gists and one psychiatrist. All of them
have tried to sleep with me.

1 am not an egomaniac who thinks
I am gorgeous. I am a former male
model who still attracts both men and
women. For a while, it was the only
way I knew to find love. After seven
years of therapy, I know the differ-
ence between love and the things I
did to replace the absence of it.

After years of promiscuity, I con-
tracted AIDS. Instead of being sad
and upset, I am happy. I pray that
my next life will be more loving and
kjnd. I have forgiven myself and
others,.and all I want now is peace.

I am saddened by the state of the
world. There is so much anger,
destruction and danger. When I see
an act of kindness, I am almost
moved to tears. It pleases me when
I see people who are enjoying their
lives. I didn't enjoy mine, and I
realize what a shame that is.

The reason for writing is to
thank you for providing me with
laughter, tears and joy when few
other things touched my heart. You
perform a useful service. I can't say
1 always agree with you, but I have
always enjoyed your words So,
kind lady, even though I am
beyond help, I wanted you to know
how special you are to me, and I
wish you happiness always. Con-
tinue to be brave and speak your
mind. - Nameless in Plano, Texas.

Dear Plano: Don't give up on
yourself. It is possible that you
could have many years of peace
and productivity

You have a great deal to give.
You could counsel AIDS patients
and make a valuable contribution.
Please hang in there, and let me
hear from you saying you received
my message. I send love.

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