Page 6B o The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, February 17, 1993 SISAL FIBER AND COCOA MATS Vacuum scrub with a stiff brush. If it’s faded and less than lovely brush on coloured shingle stain, paint with canvas dye paints or a thin colour paint (I part turpentine, 3 parts paint.) Work in with stiff brush. Or do the same process with dyes meant for cotton THROW RUGS ; Most can be cleaned in the washing machine, or a f bucket or bathtub full of soapy water, then ‘use a plumber’s plunger to plunge it up and down. Dry outside on a good drying day if possible CARPET STAIN: REMOVERS 1. Btot (don't scrub) with a paper towel from outside in 2. Test the weakest stain remover solution in a comer where it wouldn't be noticed. Use a scrap of carpet, if you have one, or inside of a closet, if possible. Look at it in 15 minutes. and proceed if the carpet looks fine. If necessary, try the next Strongest sobution ‘ 3. Never pour the solution directly on the carpet as it wrecks the backing 4. Don’t use soap or soap powder. Use lukewarm water and blot like crazy. 5. Use an old dry towel to blot and weigh it down with something heavy. Keep replacing the damp towel with a dry one Blot DETERGENT : REMOVER : 1 tbsp. all purpose detergent : 1 1/2 tbsp white vinegar : 1 pint of warm water AND VI R STAIN » HEAVY DUTY STAIN REMOVER L tbsp household ammonia /4 cup water “CAUTION: Do not use on wool or non-colour- fast fibers. Always test first SPECIFIC STAINS GREASE OR GRAVY Brush on cornmeal or baking soda overnight and vacuum. ¢ COFFEE AND TEA Leave Carpet care capers Use club soda or water, Sponge on and blot. Or use | tsp of borax to one cup of water. Or use one of the shampoos I mentioned last week's article GUM Freeze’with ice. Scrape off with dull knife CANDLE WAX Scrape off with dull knife. Put brown paper bag or paper towel on stain and iron with a warm iron until the residue is gone CHOCOLATE oO Message in 1 glycerine. Rinse ¥ with water. i o Hom Lynn Barker BURNS MN] Trim burned pieces off with scissors. Cut a small piece from an old rug scrap or from inside of a closet. Glue with cement glue or rubber cement. Weigh down with a book BLOOD Act fast before it dries. Use cold water or club soda. Rub gently. Sponge with | tsp salt or house- hold ammonia in | cup of cold water. ALCOHOL Rub club soda_in gently until stain is gone Sponge with warm water or detergent and water. On dried stains, use a turpentine substitute. P TAINS Act fast. Try club soda; |, part vinegar to 1 part water, or detergent and water. On dried, cleaned cat stains, rub some household ammonia so they won't keep_using the same spot. Test on rug first TAR Allow it to harden. Scrape with dull knife. Rub with | part glycerine and | part water. Use carpet shampoo CARPET DEODORIZER Mix 2 cups of cornmeal to | cup of borax. Sprin- kle on and leave for at least 15 minutes. Vacuum. Good choices made.easier with faith and self-trust I have finally, managed to “snatch” a few minutes for the typewriter this morning. Just to write this column with a newbom around is a MAJOR accomplish. ment sits my twenty-five year old son, a new father, with that look on his face. The one that says “what in the world have I done?” The baby has been quiet only while in Grandma's arms. I kiss my Yes, he's FINALLY “dropp. off,’ and we left him right where he is, in the trusty swing. We don't DARE to attempt to move to the crib, he will wake up for sure and there will be no peace in this house for at least two hours. Oh yes, and I make sure the swing is not within my range of vision, I'm dizzy enough with lack of sleep. So. as the editor's deadline looms upon me, the typewriter is my priority, even before brush- ing my teeth or a snack. It's very good that I undertake my busi- ness ventures within the confines of my home. This morning my hair is a replica of Dr. Zorba's. (For those of you who will‘admit to remembering) It will probably stay that way until at-least sup- pertime tonight But they tell me to TRUST that everything will work out.. and no, this will NOT last forev- er. Well, heck, I am not going to last another day if this doesn’t get better soon. So I should have faith in myself that I will emerge through this alive. The way I see it though, it’s my three week old son who will decide my fate. As I ‘stumble over to the mir- ror and gaze at the “zombie” with the drooping eyelids staring back, it’s obvious that I have nothing to lose, so what the heck, I'll play along with this lit- tle game. My eyes close and the vision materializes. Wait, I’m still hold- ing a baby, but this one is my grandchild, Over in the corner Artist Andrew Raney moves to rural Salmo Salmo is pleased to welcome ‘@S a new resident, aftist Andrew “Raney and his family, Formerly from Beamsville, Ontario, Raney and his wife, Noreen, and daugh- ters, Ursula, Nyla, Chelsea and Brefny, chose Salmo as a refuge from the urban crawl of the Nia ara Peninsula Born in Halifax and a graduate POKER TF pw Sun., Tues.; Thurs., Fri. 365-3752 of the Ontario College of Art, he has had 20 years of work in his an media of metal sculpturing. In Ontario he was well known and successful, having had numerous shows which enabled him to make a living from his art This included solo exhibitions in Duntas; Toronto, Belleville, Lindsay, Grimsby and the Haldimand Museum in Cayuga He was featured in an article in “What's Up, Niagara” magazine as a sculpture “with the eye of an artist and the hands of a black- smith who creates fanciful works of art from:-scraps of steel.” Because they saw their lifestyle changing with the encroachment of mass transit and urban mind sets, his family decided to leave their gardens and orchard and relocate ina more rural area. The Raneys have always had a feeling for the Kootenays, as they have relatives living here who expounded the virtues of this area. They chose Salmo as a place where they could feel more com- fortable and he could work with- out interruptions. Utilizing welding techniques and mainly using steel, his prod- ucts are in demand throughout Ontano. He is currently shipping this products from his workshop in Salmo. He has recently contracted NZ The Castiédar Sun IWS Excellence in Service Award This award will be presented every week >) to someone in Castlegar who shows extraordinary service to his/her customers or clients. The recipient will receive an award plaque to keep courtesy of Kats Trophys "and a lunch for 2, value to $20.00, courtesy of the Fireside Dining Room. We'd like everyone in Castlegar te know that service excellence exists in our community. This award recognizes a nominated business. If you know of someone that offers "Excellence in Service," call me, Marilyn Strong at 365-5266, or drop a letter at the Castlegar Sun q with your suggestion. Ss SOY WN with the Craft Connection in Nelson, and the Arts’ Desire in Kaslo and he will be selling his works through thbse outlets locally Raney also displayed a piece at the Juried Art Show at the National Exhibition Centre in Castlegar. He is looking for an outlet in Vancouver to expand his market to the coast “Although the early 80's was tough for the arts community, I have been able to make a living from my art,” Raney states, “and I hope the expansion of sales in , this region will be successful.” He calls himself a.conserva- tionist, and the destruction of the rural environment in Ontario forced him to chose an area rela- tively remote from the urban mind set, and feels that Salmo is the place “T enjoy my art, and as long as people appreciate my work I am content. I feel there is as much, or more opportunity here as my mind is not cluttered with other things,” he said. Raney has worked with the arts community in Ontario, hav- ing been a co-founder of the Lin- coln Regional Arts Council and its first President. He was instru- mental in starting an arts collec- tive and was chief organizer of the Niagara Studio-Tour. He has joined the Salmo Arts Council, and they look forward to his involvement. ticket(s willing Brenda Scatterty grandchild adoringly (oops, sorry, woke him up) and prepare ‘to leave for my golf game Oh yes, I can see now that it will get better some day.’ This revelation somehow fails to com- fort me. and I glance at my baby son. He is still innocently sleeping and I know that I truly do not wish to to grow any faster that he presently is. Already I miss him like he was fresh out of the womb. But these are truly trying times as all you parents out there know and trusting I will “get through it” is no easy process. So I will take life one minute at a time It’s always times like this when we doubt ourséives to near destruction. Suddenly it's not JUST the baby, it’s the money, the older children, the relatives etc. etc. It all comes crashing down around me and surely I'm drowning in a pool of self-pity and paranoia. What happened to my positive attitude anyhow? I'm usually pretty good at that stuff. A good night sleep would sure help. I reflect upon past experi- ences though, and remember the times I surrendered to fate and faith, and let it be. The memory of the resulting successes hum- bles me. However, having my first baby has been an enormous stretch for me, and the elastic band snapped npe right back into the core of my being, where lies my deepest and darkest fears and doubts, We all have doubts for sure and occasionally get “stuck in the muck”, especially when we are outside of our comfort zone Our comfort zone is a maze'of defensive boundaries that unfor- tunately aren't always too clear to-us until we find ourselves out- side the walls, If the choice to be there was our own we may decide to scurry back within the safety of our walls. However there are times in life when either one doesn’t have the choice, or once chosen, one cannot return. Faith in the pro- cess of life and self trust are cru- cial at this point. To surrender to fate and trust that everything happens for a reason, is no casy undertaking. It means letting go ‘Of defenses that we created long ago for good reason. However these same defens- es that protected us so well now limit our progress and success. The tricky part is rec- ognizing these little “devils” Let's face it, how do we elimi- nate something from our make-up that we cannot even see? In truth, we do not. It is part of us forever just as sure as our hair, ears, eyes and oversized thighs. Yes, all we can do is modify and make good choices it seems. And trust. So even as I fear that my son does indeed hold my faith in his hungry little grip, I also can TRUST_that he will | et me survive, because after all, I AM his meal ticket, right? Ann Landers Dear Ann Landers: I have been a fan of your column ever since | leamed to read: I never thought I'd end up writing to you, but like so many others, here I am. I met a wonderful fellow last year and six months later moved in with him. He is 39, by the way, so what happened came jas a complete shock to. me. It was very early in the moming and we were both sound asleep. All of a sudden, I felt this strange, unfa- miliar object sticking me in the ribs. I wondered if I was Iying on the remote control or perhaps a set of keys. When I reached the object, I had to hold my breath to keep from screaming and waking him up. It was a top set of dentures. I managed to stay calm although I have never been so shocked in my entire life. I placed the choppers near his hand so he could find them easily when he woke up. I then rolled over and tried to go back to sleep but I couldn’ get over the fact that he had kept such a secret from me. Soon he woke up and I could hear him feeling around for something. He then got up and went to the bathroom. It has been six months since I dis- covered his teeth and I am wondering how long he will remain silent Should I have told him I found them? Now I feel as if Iam the one who is keeping a secret I've tried several times to steer the conversation to false teeth and make it easy for him, but it's not a subject that comes naturally. I don't want him to think I would love him less or that Draw is on March 9th, 1993! at S100 per ticket. Enclosed please find my all the ‘Lottery Hot-Line 684-8946 e I would make fun of him. It does make me wonder, however; if he can keep a secret like THIS, how many other secrets does he have? What should I do? -- At a Loss in Nevada Dear Nevada: There is nothing you should do or say. The fact that he has nt told you he has false teeth is not a reflection on his character, pis integri- ty or anything else. This is an intense ly personal matter that has nothing to do with you. In‘order to get a better perspective, ask yourself if YOU had false teeth, would you tell him? Dear Ann Landers: This is in response to "Stressed Out in S.C.,” whose son refused to grow up and accept responsibility. Your advice was good but incomplete. After six years of dealing with their son's dis- Tuptive, anti-social behavior, it's time those parents did something for them- selves. Please tell your readers about Families Anonymous, an organization for parents whose children are chemi- cally addicted (alcohol as well as drugs) or suffering from emotional problems. At F.A., parents will find others who have felt anger, hopeless- ness, guilt and fear in trying to deal with their children. Through F.A., I have learned that although I cannot cHange my child's behavior, I can change my own, and that change can bring serenity. Fami- lies Anonymous is based on the 1 2- step program developed by Alcoholics Anonymous. It costs noth ing to attend a meeting, and it pro- vides a safe, non- judgmental place for parents who are hurting. For infor- mation, please send a long, self- addressed, stamped envelope to Families Anonymous, P.O. Box 528, Van Nuys, Calif. 91408. -- Judy in Ohio Dear Readers: I urge you to take Judy's advice. When people who share a common problem band together, they give one another strength, and wonderful things can happen. Good luck to all of you. Bluetop _x Burger ne . Sandwich & fries * inchcdde G.S.T. Winter Hours 10 am - 8 pm 's only drive thru’ AUTHI JENTIC RUSSIAN FOOD 1521 COLUMBIA AVE. 365-8388 Wednesday, February 17, 1993 The Castlegar Sun ter i--0—-W-4--—-9 current compilation of the most peculiar things people do, edited by Chuck Shepherd, Proef-that true stories are weirder than made-up stories, Kenneth Jeffries, 24, was arrested in West Haven, Conn., in August for robbing a convenience store. Police reported that he had first offered the clerk $1 for a pack of gum as a ruse and then taken $40 in the robbery. However, said police, Jeffries returned a minute later and asked, uncertainly, "Did I pay for the gum?" By that time the clerk had summoned police, and Jeffries was soon appre- hended. THE DIMINISHING VALUE OF LIFE Joseph Fallat Sr., 61, was charged with killing his wife, Florene, 50, in’ Harrison City, Pa., in August. Said a patrolman, "[Fallat] said she would stack the refrigerator full of vegeta- bles, hiding the milk, and he wasn't going to take that anymore.” Fallat allegedly chased his wife through the house and stabbed her 219 times. The local board of health closed down the Wing Wah Chinese restau- rant in South Dennis, Mass., briefly in August for various violations. The most serious, said officials, was the restaurant's practice of draining water from cabbage by putting it in cloth laundry bags, placing them between two pieces of plywood in the parking lot, and driving over them with a van. Said Health Director Ted Dumas, "Tve seen everything now THE CONTINUING CRISIS -- To get a "specific use permit" for a building in San Marcos, Texas, the occupier must qualify for a cer- tain number of points. Among the ways San Marcos State University fraternity houses can qualify: 1 point for notifying the police 48 hours before a social event, 3 points for posting a “maximum occupancy” sign, and 6 points-for passing formal Tules against doing things that result in death or sexual assault- — In Zanesville, Ohio, in August, two firefighters fought each other instead of the fire at Connie Rider's house. The assistant chief had warned one of his men, who was carrying a fire hose, not to get too close to a downed power line. When the man cofftinued to approach it, the assistant chief pulled the hose to halt the man's progress. The two men fell to the ground scuffling while a bystander grabbed the hose and fought the fire — A Los Angeles Times story on fear of heights in July featured an interview with the psychotherapist who heads the Anxiety Disorders Association. He reported that one of his patients could cross the 200-foot- high Chesapeake Bay Bridge in Maryland only if his wife drove the car and locked him in the trunk. -- The Simon Wiesenthal Center revealed recently that Iran's philatelic to the 1991 Day of the Child commission was a commemorative of a young boy hurl- ing a rock through a window on which was emblazoned a star of David. (The delegate from Iran was elected vice chairman this year of the Commission on Human Rights.) Australian professor Brian Tay lor, head of the University of Syd ney's Language Centre, told reporters in August that the government should teach newly arrived +maigrants Lo cuss as a stimulus to acculturation However, he said, English cussing is much “weaker” than cussing in Rus gian, Hungarian or Spanish ee HOROSCOPES February 14-20 ARIES — March 21/April 20 Before you make any decisions this week, consider the consequences You're not the type to sit on a fence for too long; you tend to make quick decisions. Remember that you'll end up living with the results’ (good or bad). This will be a good week for socializing and making contacts. TAURUS — April 21/May 21 As Taurus is the ultimate homebody, it's no surprise that this week you will find your greatest pleasures at home with friends and family. You may decide that you are sick of working so hard and fetreat into one of your lazy phases. This week your priority is obtaining peace of mind. GEMINI — May 22/June 21 It may be time to treat yourself to a shopping spree. You've been hold ing back, but if there is something that you really want, go ahead and get it. You are in for a romantic Valentine's Day, and will receive SCORPIO — Oct 24/Nov 22 No one can pinpoint others’ weak nesses and vulnerabilities as accu rately as a Scorpio can. If you want to finalize a finaneial transaction or even collect sums of money, then this is the perfect time to use your gift of perception. If you've been feeling sluggish, you may want to consider a change jiet SAGITTARIUS — Nov 2¥Dec 21 You ‘will achieve the best results by being as charming and agreeable as possible, even if you may sometimes feel impatient with other people You need time to refuel, so get some extra rest; otherwise you may expe rience health ot work difficulties next month. Try not to indulge in unnecessary spending CAPRICORN - Dec 22/Jan 20 Try to be more realistic about money. Look for ways of saving more — you're going to need it later on this year. Midweek sees you hi some unexpected (and gant) gifts. Why not bake some heart shaped cookies for your co-workers? CANCER — June 22/July 22 Your sensitive nature may cause you to exhibit that extra bit of crabbiness that most Cancers are famous for Try to see things as they are instead of through a fog of emotions. Be sensitive to the feelings of others Try to make Valentine's Day roman tic for your partner. A financial windfall will come your way. LEO - July 23/August 23 If you've been looking for new employment recently, you may hear some good news. Try to be fair when dealing with business matters of any type. A happy atmosphere at home may be spoiled if you allow a misun derstanding to get out of hand. You will get an unexpected visit from an old friend VIRGO — Aug 24/Sept 22 You may have to cope with a domes tic upheaval this week but, provided you are realistic, everything will turn out to your advantage in time. A hectic week will keep your energy level high — and by the weekend, you will welcome a relaxing time with friends and family LIBRA - Sept 23/Oct 23 During the early days of this week you may hear of a chance to improve your financial position through a new job, or by taking on new responsibili ties at work. The whole week looks productive and you will accomplish much more than you had expected. A love relationship will intensify about starting jects. But don’t be too impa tient, as this could lead to expensive mistakes~A Libra acquaintance will accuse you of being strange AQUARIUS - Jan 21/Feb 18 The sacrifices that you made earlier will now be rewarded. Money and property can easily come to you; it's an ideal time for seeking a bank loan, or even a mortgage. A decision made this week will change your life for the better. You will reach’a deep- er level of intensity in an important relationship. PISCES — Feb 19/March 20 Your mental faculties are heightened and you appear to know instinctively about the people who are important in your life. You should be able to help at least one such individual this week. Your career gets a well deserved boost. Your love life will suddenly seem very exciting. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth YOUR BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK ‘The next 12 months: The disappointments you have suf fered in recent years will disappear shortly after your birthday. This will be a year of change for you and also for those who affect your life. You will accept these changes with open arms, and will feel a sense of eupho- ria because evérything will be going your way. The luck will continue throughout the year, and you may be in for a substantial financial wind- fall. Close family members will be reaching major milestones; plan on attending a few weddings! Calvin ana Hobbes THIS TOWN gust AINT BIG ENou6H FER THE Bot} YEP, IT RECKON WE'LL HAVE TO ANNEX PART O' THE COUNTY! on Tt Ger To BE THE ZONING BOARD! y— LET US PLAY WITH GUNS ._/ GRE At : | DIAPHRAGM, GOOD HEAVENS, CALNIN! WHAT Do You SAY AFTER THAT 9” MY VACATION |S COMING UP AND WE HAVEN'T PLANNED ) | ANYTHING. 7—~ | Koes WE CAN'T AFFORD To Co ANYTHING FANCY, BUT WE QUGHT TO D0 SOMETHING & EXCITING. -S 7 eNS & Canadian Quiz-Cross by Maureen Azimov ACROSS DOWN E 5. Vinyl polymer Decent > Of weblike fabr Female And so fo 2 Garland of Nowe Jewel 23. 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