OH trio of Tory Merrit, Shelley Ss ib han Van group to the tan-colored tiger- striped costumes of the jungle routine, the colors, styles, and designs were appropriate. The ‘third performance that was startling was “Jungle Bill”. ‘The rhythons were indeed primi- tive, and both the striding and writhing movements on stage convinced us we were not far from across stage for each of the 16 groups with Louis Armstrong's “What a Wonderful World” pro- iin mspi At the end, viding the spread out in front of us were 150 who are interested in rhythm and movement. Have we gone so far in Castlegar that we have scpa- rate spheres for males and females? That is, dance is for females, and the stuff is for males. The guys are missing out on a lot of fun, not to mention the development of lifeskills they can use later on. Ask any of the 150 female dancers in the show “Time Away Places”. They’ll And | would that my tongue Wednesday, May 11, 1994 the bell tolls; it tolls for thee," It is a pretend aod eeeey eran life in all its aspects inchpding I am deeply sorry for my friends in their tragic loss; I am sorry for all who lose a loved one, but it is also well to remember that teller as welll, whoever he may be. Again and again, I'm sorry friends. The Castlegar Fire advises that permits are required for open burning of yard cleanup during the period of May 15 to September 15 of e@ach year. All other open burning requires a permit year round. For further information contact the office of the Fire Chief or City Hall at 365-7227. Thank you! CLOSE RELATIONS Submitted by: Pastor Leonard Andrews, Seventh-day Adventist Church “,..Anyway, what's wrong with that?” So goes one of the more frequent questions I hear. And it's been Dear 'Atw Landers: This is for “Miserable in Maia,” whose husband is spending a lot of time with his attrac- tive assistant. 1 could have written that leter’ word for word except I was mar- tied for 24 years instead of 15. From personal experience, | would advise “Miserable” to do exactly as you Suggested — get counselling, don't issue any ultimatums and make home a Pleasant, place 40 be. And I would add: Assume: your, husband still loves you, re-evaluate your strengths and weak- nesses and get dn with a self-improve- ment program. © After several years of absolute mis- ery, my husband and | ended up in a Counselor's office. It turned ovt that in Spite of his persistent denials, an affair had indeed taken place with his assis- tant. She made the mistake, however, of assuming that because he was involved with her, he didn't love me. She began to pressure him to get a divorce. After a while, my husband resented the pressure and ended the affair. The woman became extremely angry and accused him of ruining her life. He was filled with guilt over what he had done to her and grief-stricken because of what he had done to me. His successful business plummeted into bankruptcy, and he became deeply depressed. That's when we ended up in the counselor's office. He asked me to forgive him and said he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life making up for what he had done. He apologized to our three adult children for what he had pat them through and asked for forgiveness. A healing has taken place in our entire family. T hope you will publish my letter and let couples know that fractured mar- riages can heal. We have never been happier im our entire lives. — Blessed in Bakersfield. Dear Bake: What a heartwarming story. You letter is also proof that good ee WHILE YOUR DAD IS TAKING ROSALYN HOME, PERHAPS, aAcROoSsS : Part of C.0.D - KKK followers . Cinemas alfresco . Former heavyweight chamy Pp . Sleipner’s rider or later Depot: abbr. Ougout Venus as the morning star . Quechuans Musical exercises Particle Galaxy member DOWN . Muse of epic First __ Santa's vehicle Fright 3 YOU'D \\KE TO EXPLAIN WHAT PRIAMA' HAPPENED TONIGHT, 4 AND 29 © @NOneeNn 5 7 counseling can make a world of differ- a2 around ever since our first. parents started dab- ence, Thanks focthe estimomy, 34. <1 17 B22 singer bling in sin. is a } | 35. Steals LOOK FOR THE ANSWERS to the CROSSWORD _ in our WEST KOOTENAY ADVERTISER Coming out this Saturday 12. Hold tight Fania Well, thanks, Adam. So now we inherit imperfect bodies, mediocre mentalities, degraded society, and a world that seems.to have an endless supply of ae aap” Pa unspeakalbe new atrocities. And we ourselves still CARL'S PLAZA DRUGS dabble in sin. 365-7269 sgt “WITH FAITH - WE GROW: Why? Could it be that we have a misbegotten idea of what sin is? What is wrong with it, anyway? Only small things, mostly, especially at first. Evil must start out pleasantly, or there simply would be no takers. But towards the end we see the havoc it can cause, and how so.very little can be terminal. Baptist Church Let's try our own definition, culled from the real world: * SUNDAY SERVICES - Nearer b Chiron Church Aaable during the Serve 9-15 ame Senay Schoo! per Church 1030 am Atom. Worship + 30 pen Eve. Catebration SIN: any act or practice which comes on as desirable, but which in the end is damaging — physically, mentally, socially, morally, personally, politically, environmentally, whatever. * SUNDAY SERVICES - (Wed. 6:30 -Femnly Night: Plomser Chibi Factions ‘Support and froupe Fa 70 - You Eoreageer aL Here's another definition that's a close relative: We specialize (0s, Cc 22 fortakeout or pick-up ME ADDICTION: any detrimental practice which is a voluntarily repeated. fe We'd like everyone in Castlegar to know Siamese twins, I think. Neither can be dealt psd sab sherpa bef with successfully while the other is ignored. 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