ELLIS CE cat ey A a ey AC ST The Castlegar: Sun Page 8B The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, December 5, 1990 Narva bes $ abe Tt CRIME FLASHBACK MAX HAINES ~em=tame Faniback Ls a i n 1952, Sir Jack Drummond, with I Drummond and their only dau Mer Se year-old Elizabeth, was vacationing in France near the village of Lurs. Sir Jack, 61, a former professor of biochemistry at Pendan) janiversity, had been knighted for is outstanding work in the field of ~ during World War Il. ween + Having recently recovered from a serious ill- ness, he was touring France with his family and » visiting friends from England who maintained villas on the continent: ah in the ni of Aug. 4, the Dru: to camp out They chess a plolurescte Ioan eoee : Digne,; close to 3 modes) farm with the grandiose rande Terre, .» monds prepured to retire for tne righ Mitton cteenia _ bags. hin In a matter of an hour, police were at the farm. rummond's body was found at the Drummonds' ' campsite, which was across a road from the river. Sir Jack’s 01 ‘4 lay nearby. Both adulls had been shot to leath. Initially, the motive for the triple murder was thought to be robbery. After all, the Drummonds were strangers and there could be no other reason for their cold-blooded in tlio clear, there was. led investiga- re reveal: ly. aul Maillet's evidence slaughter, However, upon examination of the scene of the crime, there was no sign of anything being missing. Money and cloth- ing were found intact. The killer had left spent, as well as unused, cartridges at the scene. The broken stock of o rifle was found floating in the river, When officials scanned the bottom of the tiver, they found an American army carbine. Unused bullets fit the weapon and the stock ~ true, As A charged with “having falled to glvo ald io a per: son in peril of death”. In court. Gustavo admilted that when he had como upon the scene, Elizabeth had been alive, Before find- ing him guilty of the charge and sentencing him to two months ‘imprisonment; the presiding judge castigaicd him for not calling a doctor. Gustave could only meekly respond that he had hoiled.a passing cyclist and had him notlfy police. F i Nearly a year passed before old Gaston's nephew, Roger Perrin, came forward, Informing police (hat the night before the murder ho had scen Lady Drummond ‘and Etfzabeth call at the farm with a bucket, request. {ng water. This was considered a real break in the ene, because the Dominicis had sworn that they had fad ‘no phybical contact or conversation with the Drummonds at any time, ae Guslove wns questioned again. This time he staled that he had heard erfes for help at the time of the murder, Ne had arisen and twice visited the scene of the crime. In,relnting his story, Gustave broke down and blurted out, "It was my fatler who did It. He told me so at 4 o'clock In the morning.” Another son, # Clovis, alsa told elise that bis father had admit- led to him that he had kl 5. tate wo sons, Gaston fedsed, On tho night of the murders -Drummond undressing. He had approached her and made an‘ Improper advance. Sir Jack Intereeded, Gaston claimed to have kliled both the Drummonds in a. moment of extreme emotional excitement. As soon as hw find shot the couple, their daughter Elizabeth had screamed and hod run toward the Hee. that he had matched up to the rest of the carbine. Later (ests proved that this was the murder weapon. Members of the Dominici family were questioned. Gustave revealed that he had found Elizabeth's body while looking at the damage done by a small landslide beside a nearby rallroad track. He also told police that he had seen the Drummonds the night before and was somewhat surprised that they had picked a spot so close to the rond. E At 1am. he had heard shols. At the same time, his wife Evette had awoken and fed the baby, At 5:30 ad arisen as usual and had found ders. . He waved down Olivier, who had Gaston Dominict was arrested and charged with the murder of the Drummond family, "le retracted his con- fession and pleaded not guilty. Gustave withdrew his > statement, maintaining that he bad Involved his father because he had been beaten by police. Only Clovis stuck. with his original slatement that his father had a ing admitted the killings to him. Old Gaston swore at Sun Classifieds Don’t Cost They Pay call 365-7848 wife, Maric, his son. from the farm. Gaston explained to his interrogators that only his Gustave and Gustave's wife and baby lived onthe farki: im all, he ‘liad ‘nine in prison, Gaston, now 84 yenrs old, was paroled, children, bu 7 ts, , 5 , ie ollierefeht, all adults, lived away still swearing that he had initially confessed to the rm, The French detectives were stymicd. Although the murders to protect other members of Ins family. Clovis from the witness Ke Gaston Dominict was found gullty and senlenced to die by the guillotine, However, this sentence was com- muted to life imprisonment. After spending six years Subscribe to The Castlegar Sun 365-5266 Prisoners co Federal Le ay MA ard SUEEE at 4609, GAT gc. CASTE Enter your outdoor Christmas display in The Castlegar Sun's 1st. Annual Seasonal Showcase Event. Judging will be done by an independent panel of local celebrities on the evening of December 14, 1990. Deadline for entries is noon, December 13, 1990. SEASONAL SHOWCASE light up Castlegar for Christmas fe] dienlav nrizec seplay prizes 1t. Trip for 2 to Vancouver on Air B.C., 1 night stay at the Delta’ River Inn & 2 red seats to see the Vancouver Canucks play the Chicago Blackhawks. 2nd. One night stay & dinner for 2 at Ainsworth Hotsprings Resort. 3rd. $50.00 shopping spree from Super - Valu. Honourable mentions 18t. 8x10 framed color photo of your display. 2nd. 8x10 framed color photo of your display. sentenced female prisoners will soon be able to Tetum to B.C. to serve their time, The Burnaby Correctional ming home women, now 56 years old, would be closed. The announcement came after Centre for Women, built at a cost of $29 million, will have 140 beds and house up to 50 women | serving two years or longer. In September, Solicitor General Pierre Cadieux announced the Kingston prison for a judge refused to send a woman from that province to Kingston owing to a high - suicide rate there, The federal government has paid 36 per cent of the cost of the ew Facility and will subsidize 50 to the Castiegar Sun new J into a well-buttered bowl and make a depression in the center. Let stand — Congratulations and Best Wisnes ’ Dandy Christmas Candy Christmas only comes once a year, so I figure it’s up to me to take the season firmly in hand and make the most of it. : ‘Wanting to be fair about the whole thing, Christmas, in tum, makes the most of me as well. In fact, there’s more of me just after Christmas than at any other time of the year. ; : I like to think of it as experiencing the Holiday Season to the fullest. Literally. All day, every day. . : . Of course, just as soon as I waddle out of the Season, I have to start worrying about how I’m ever going to get into my jeans again. —Or, for that matter, my little Datsun truck. . But, for the next three blissful weeks, I will measure, and taste, and mix, and taste, and roll, and taste, and cut, and taste, and bake, and taste, and taste. ‘ ia : Then during the last week, I can settle down to just plain serious tasting. Yes, every single year, for the past eight years, I have unselfishly sampled myself into split seams purely in the interest of bringing. ional: fel Chri recipes to my cooking column fans — both of you. Not wanting to shilly-shally around, I get right into the spirit of the thing by starting with the candymaking. I figure if I'm going to have a working relationship with 8,690,324 calories over the next month, I may as well meet them head on. : One note here. It is best to make the candy while the children are at school. It is extremely difficult — but not entirely impossible — to hold them at bay with a wooden spoon while scraping out the candy pot gripped tightly between your knees io get at each and every scrap of the leftover bits that the cook must taste all by herself. Caramel Pecan Logs : An enormous recipe that makes enough for terrific gifts. In fact, these are so good, you'll have to hide them from yourself. Unless you're like me. In that case, have someone else hide them. Then be prepared to offer enormous bribes. Or make more and don't be so stupid the second time around. Nougat Centers: 3c, sugar 1-1/3 c. light com syrup lc. water 2 egg whites, stiffly beaten 1/4c, melted butter 1 tsp. vanilla Caramel Coating: 2c. sugar 1-1/4 c. light com syrup 1-1/2 ¢. light cream 1 tsp. vanilla 6c. coarsely chopped pecans aha ei familie wt -~"The-nougat centers‘are made in two steps: Combine 3/4-c~ of the: sugar, 2/3 c. of the com syrup, and 1/4 c, of the water in a 1-1/2 quart, beavy-bottomed saucepan. Stir over medium heat until mixture boils. Boil, without stirring, to 238 F. When the mixture gets to about 230F. , beat the egg whites until they stand in stiff peaks. Pour the hot 238 F. syrup over the beaten egg whites in a thin stream, beating constantly with an electric mixer until slightly cool, about five minutes. Spoon while you make the second syrup. Combine remaining 2-1/4 c. sugar. 2/3 c. com syrup, and 3/4 c. water in a three-quart saucepan. Cook, stirring often, to 258 F. Pour immediately into center of egg white mixture, Beat vigorously with a wooden spoon until thoroughly mixed. Stir in butter and vanilla. Let stand, beating occasionally, until is very stiff and holds its shape. The texture of the mixture will change noticeably and it will no longer be shiny. With buttered fingem, press into a well-buttered, the bottom lined with foil, eight-inch square pan. Keep in the fridge until very firm — a few hours or a few days, depending on your schedule. Tum firm candy onto a cutting board and peel off the foil. Cut in half, then in half again, making four squares. Cut each square into four logs of equal size, making 16 logs. To make caramel coating: Combine sugar, com syrup, and 1/2 c. of the cream in a two-quart saucepan. Stir until mixture boils. Cook without stirring to 236 F. Slowly stir in another 1/2 c. cream and cook again to 236 F. Add remaining i/2 c. cream and cook to 242 F. stirring often as mixture thickens. Remove from heat and stir in vanilla. Set pan of caramel over a pan of hot water, Working quickly with two forks, drop nougat logs, one at a time, into caramel, coating thoroughly, hold log over caramel to drain slightly. Drop logs into shallow dish containing nuts and roll to coat. Place finished logs on waxed paper- lined tray to cool. When cool, wrap logs in foil and store in an airtight container in a cool place. Let set at least five hours, or weeks, before cutting. When ready to serve, unwrap and cut logs in one-half-inch slices. Makes 4-3/4 pounds or 128 slices, if The Sex is So Good, Why Does She Have Headaches? Q. I've been seeing a wonderful Q. Over a year ago, I began having a woman for nearly a year now. She is sexual ‘relationship with a single 30 and I am 43. I thought the sex was mother of'one who, at 30, is three Full colour photos of the winning entries will be featured in The Castlegar Sun holiday edition December 27, 1990. Name: Entry Form ' Address: Phone: ‘465 Columbla Ave., Castlegar, B.C... Ph. 365-5266 Fax 365-7762 We were pleased to have done all the electrical requirements in your new location - A : a | MIKE'S PLUMBING | AND HEATING great. In fact, I still do think the sex ts great. We have simultaneous orgasms most of the time. I can’t imagine sex being better with anyone else. But lately she has been getting a lot of headaches. She says she loves the sex, but she has a headache. Tam beginning to wonder if there is ; a problem other than her aching head. What could it be? How can I get her to tell me what's really wrong? When I ask if something is bothering her, she says no. A. Maybe the’ sex Isn't as good as you think it is. Or maybe she wants more from you than sex. It could be that she has been, expecting . this wonderful sex .to .Jead .to -a.more * permanent arrangement. I'll bet if you - her. ritig, her | show up with an years older than Iam. It was good for a while, but not long. I love her, but Wife suspects "ideal husband" is ga Dear Ann Landers:: My husband and I have been married for several years. Our friends often describe us as the ideal couple. We have a 2-year old child and get along well together. So what's the problem? I suspect that my husband is '. gay. I'm suspicious because there has been very little sexual activity ‘for most of our marriage. ‘When : We go to bed, we are like stranger. i retire to my side and he to his. There is no touching, no cuddling, no conversation. We may as well be in different cities. - When.I try to get close to him he pushes me ; away and says he is tired. My ego is in tatters from so much rejection. T once accused him of having an affair. He became ups and denied it. Later I asked him if he was gay. An odd ‘expression crossed his face, but there was no denial, only silence. I resent being deprived of a normal sex life which I feel is my right. At the same time I'm terribly sorry for my husband. I'm afraid he is a confused and unhappy man, unable to be honest with me. i ‘What shall I do, Ann? I can't go on pretending that everything is wonderful when I’m miserable, and be must be, too. There is no one else I talk to. Please give me some advice, — Dreading the that gives you hope for the future, Ie is, “God, Country, Notre Dame,” by Father Theodore M. Hesburgh, for 35 years the president of Notre Dame University. This autobi hy is night in the Midwest Dear Midwest: From the scant information you have shared, I believe your suspicions are well founded. | © Have a frank talk with your busband. And don’t be surprised if he is relieved and eager ts unburden himself. You'll both be a lot happier once the charade is over and all the cards are on the table. Dear Readers: Just when you begin to believe that the world is falling apart, along comes a book a must read for the younger generation which needs role model — the riveting story of an incredible man who made an enormous impact on history and lived his dream. The publisher: Doubleday. The price: a bargain at $21.95 (Canada Higher), Dear Ann Landens: Yesierday I was‘ having lunch with three colleagues at a restaurant near the office, I'm self-conscious about my eyeglasses. They are very thick. I took them off and put them on the table. Suddenly my friends began to take tums trying them on. One said, “Wow, these glasses are thick! Why not just get Coke bottles?” Another said, “You need a seeing eye dog!” The laughter got very loud. No one noticed that I was on the verge of This isn’t the first time this sort of thing has happened to me. } Page eB When a fellow I work wi0's me in contacts for the first time fie. went on and on about how ugly my glasses looked and, thinking I would be pleased, said, “You are a totally different person without those hideous glasses|"” aad Please tell me how to deal wii this problem. — Ocean Springs; Miss. 2 Dear O.S.: First, never placd your glasses on the table. Put then) in your purse. When those clod’ tried them on, it gave them a perfect opening. if anyone comments about ibe thickness of your glasses or how much better you look without them, simply say, “I’ve beard all this before — too many times, if fact. let’s change the subject.” Do you have questions about sex, but no one to talk to? Ann Landers’ booklet, “Sex and the Teen-Ager,” is frank and to the point: Send a self-addressed. long, business-sized envelope acd a check or money order for $3.65 (this includes postage and handling) to: Teens, c/o Ann Landers, P.O. Box 115262, Chicago, Il. 60611-0562. (in send $4.45.) current compilation of themost iar thi people do, edited by Chuck Shepherd. Proof that true stories are weirder than made-up stories. After much criticism, the Naples, Fla., Police Department led its latest pai against drug dealers in October. The department, which has one black officer (out of 75), had dresse ver white officers in black face and colorful clothes because, said one official, “sales are made predominantly by blacks.” GOVERNMENT IN ACTION — When promoters of Japan’s National Arbor Festival in May realized that the site where Emperor Akihito and his wife would plant a ceremonial tree was downwind from a 3,100-head pig farm, the local government of Nagasaki spent about $50,000 to perfume the pigs with | nd. _ old boy in May after a neighbor complained the boy was uprooting his flamingo law omaments. During a reporter’s visit, the boy was rolling on a pile of laundry on his living room floor, saying (referring to the flamingo incident), “That’s a no- no.” — In a report by the defense select i to Britian’s lime air freshener during their visit. — The federal government downgraded its estimate that “Top “Secret” and “Confidential” are stamped on 10 million documents a year, by claiming that only 6.8 million were so stamped in the last fiscal House of Commons in May, private security guards at 56 Venezuela, arrested a 37-year-old ophthalmologist and 11 others, charging them with running a stolen eyeball ring from the city morgue. The scandal broke in May when a pathologist wondag on a body happened to notice that the eyeballs were missing and, on checking, found that eyeballs of all other morgue bodies were missing. — Ina story loosely used in 40 “L.A. Law episode, Thomas British military ions were Donald 46, a Sunnyvale; d as being “hopeless,” “not strong enough to perform . . . heavy lifting,” often asleep on the job, and in “some” cases “afraid of the dark.” — Findings of a Senate Budget Committee report on ing earlier this ia officials declined to spray malathion (to kill the Mediterranean fruit fly) over a five-square-mile area of Riverside County because an , endangered species of rats living there might be affected.-. — Campus police at the University of Alabama at Birmingham guaranteed to a ji 10-minut P time to emer i (including jump starts for dead batteries) starting may, offering as payment if they fail coupons for free car washes, — San Diego County political leaders were in a tizzy earlier this year when they discovered that the Board of Supervisors, to save $600,000 in constructing a jail seven years ago, ordered drywall and Styrofoam for walls instead of concrete (making the jail structure weaker than that of the local dog pound). Eleven jailbreaks have occurred since (most from quick punches through walls). — A Hemando County (Fla.) deputy sheriff arrested a 3-year- year included the revelations that the Anny has decided to increase the variety of sizes in women's shirts from 54 to 126 (despite the fact that the clothing industry uses a approximtely 40 sizes) and Calif., who bas‘ brain tumor, sued the state in May for the right to have his head frozen (“‘cryonically suspended”} and severed so that some day scientists might attach it to.a healthy body. Other people leave such instructions for their bodies after death, but Donaldson wants it done as the cause of death. : — In June, while Trish and Vincent Caminiti were. vacationing at Disney World,: 20,000 bees, arriving in a dense,. id that the Navy has acqi 53,268 each of a certain F-14 airplane machine tool whose rate of usage (four per year) indicates the Navy is now stocked up on it for the next 13,157 years. CREME DE LA WEIRD — Esther O’Handlen died near Peoria, IIl., in 1988 at age 72, leaving an estate of $300,000. Now, five heirs of her father will share half the estate even though four had never heard of Esther and even though Esther’s heirs “black, 3-fc funnel cloud. that “sounded like a helicopter,”: according to a neighbor, invaded: their Bayport, N.Y., home, entering a hole between the roof and gutter. They produced two kilograms of honey and 10,000 offspring before technicians removed them with a large vacuum cleaner. — At a joint appearance in June, Little Rock, Ark., black activist Robert “Say” Mcintosh Pp out se, for claim the father ab d her after he raped her mother. Esther's heirs share the other half R lieutenant governor Ralph Fo: had earlier d h from prevented even thought hey app ly never took care of her, either. . She died toothless and iated, an: American flag. McIntosh then’ d d Forbes’ idacy, having survived ber last months on milk and Twinkies. — Police in Caracas, saying, “I’ve always favored white people who will tell you they don’t like you.” : She doesn't aiways want sex — Octogenarian still sexually active. know how this turns out. Q. 1am engaging in my first sexual affair since the death of my husband three years ago. We were married for .29 years when he passed away. I am 55 now and still very much, to my surprise, interested in sex. The man is nine years older than me. We have a fine relationship in all ways, except for one thing. I cannot always arouse him sexually. He can arouse me every. time. This makes me uncomfortable. I desperately need advice on how I can become better at arousing him. she doesn't seem to ny feelings. For the past few months, we haven’t had sex. I go to her place for dinner and play with her kid. Then I go home. I don't know what to do to get this relationship back on track. Maybe there is nothing I can do. I masturbate to fantasies of her. She {s the only ‘woman I want, but she doesn’t want me. Is there anything I can do to get her back in bed?. . . pated not try to keeping headache. will go. away. . However, before you try something that drama. tic, why don’t you ask her what she . fi wants from you and this relationship?..~ Her answers may give:you a ¢ what's causing her headaches. doesn't : want a- commitment, ; the ge pean't be clue to = “If she: fortable with a that=doesn't include sex, you i have to stop seeing her and the chil: _ be a way of avolding sex. at least for a while. Good luck! Let me women who He isnot by this, but I am very much so. I feel it is unseemly for @ woman to be more eager than a man, What do you think? A.T think you should be glad that you ‘have a man who can sexually arouse you.-If he is not bothered by the situation, you shouldn’t be either. As a Taan ages, he no longer has a psychogenic erection, which is an erection obtained merely by fantasiz- sing or anticipating ‘sex. He requires More’ direct stimulation to become Rel Ufe. that his needs at this point may be stronger than my needs. * Sometimes hugging and kissing Is all I really want from him. He has trouble understanding this. According to him, I should want sex when he does unless there is something wrong with one of us. He vacillates between thinking that he isn't a good enough lover and that I am not very interested in sex. Can't it be that we're both normal and healthy, just different? And, how do we resolve this? When he touches my genitals at a time when I don’t want to be touched, I recoil from him. This is hurting our relationship. Please help! A. Yes, you are both normal and healthy — with different levels of Aele Fira By.Dr. Ruth Westheimer CAUTION 2) oo: : ING? COLUMN:|& CONTAINS EXPLICIT SEXUAL ‘MATERIAL: WHICH, MAY..NOT, BE ‘SUITABLE FOR): ALL -READERS. * f | sexual desire! Tell him I said so. Occasionally he should give you the hugging and kissing you desire, and you should give him the sexual pleasure he desires even when you don’t. Tell him that you will mastur- bate him sometimes when he wants sex and you don’t. It is common for couples to experience different levels of desire. This is only a problem when they make it into one. When he under- stands that your disinterest has nothing to do with his ability as a jover, he should relax and stop pressuring you. Q. My lady friend thinks I have a problem, but I think I am fine. I am 81 and can still get an erection and ejaculate, though I don't ejaculate every time I have an erection. She is 55 and understandably worried that I won't be able to keep up with her if we get married, which is what I want to do. Sometimes when we have sex, I lose my erection. I am always capable of giving her an orgasm, either manually or orally, so that isn’t the problem. I don’t care if I have an orgasm every time or not. But she cares. I went to a doctor at her insistence and the doctor gave me a clean bill of health. In fact, he said I am doing very ‘well in the sexual department for my age. Why do my occasional lapses bother her so much? And, how can I convince her It really isn't a problem? ’ A. Bravo that you are still inter- ested in pursuing an active sexual relationship! When a man loses his erection, his partner thinks she is not exciting enough for him. This isn't tue. You know it and I know it. But. she may not. You must reassure her that the occasional loss of erection at; your age is not unusual. It doesn’ mean you aren't excited by her interested in satisfying her. If she; can't accept this after hearing it from your doctor and from me, she may not: be the right woman for you. : Q. My husband likes to talk about ' his fantasies while we are making love. Is that normal? It bothers me when he talks about having sex with two women while he is making love | to me. Sometimes he talks about the ° two of us being part of an orgy. Or he describes things we have seen in- X-rated videos. I am afraid he will: “start asking me to do those things. Is: that the natural progression — from ‘ fantasy to acting it out? And, if so, what do I do to keep him in line as a > normal husband? $ A. Everybody has sexual fantasies! : Some people do like to talk about : their fantasies to their partners. And, ' no, there is not a “natural progres- | sion” from fantasizing to acting out. ; He probably does not want to act out | his fantasies. But he does become | aroused by saying these things out | loud to you. Stop worrying! You should be flattered that he feels secure enough in your relationship to share’ his ’ fantasies with you. You don't say that | he has ever asked you to participate - in an orgy. So, I assume he has not. What are you worried about then? } This is harmless sexual daydreaming. Why don't you invent some fantasies | of your own and whisper them'to him -; di lovemaking? fs