Cé CASTLEGAR NEWS, May 27, 1981 War between the sexes TORONTO (CP) — The war between the sexes has reached a state of siege with the men behind the barricades. More than likely the man behind the wall is going to be a reformed male chau- Males manning the barricades refuted the masculine val- ues many feel to be second nature to them. RULES FLUCTUATING Women are asking that men be more than bread- winners, Luker said. Now men have to be sensitive, vinist, who Sam Luker calls Mr. Nice Guy. He also calls him a door- mat. “They are usually men who are guilt-ridden about the double standard,” Luker told a seminar at York University’s annual conference on family life Thursday. “They've given away their power and ter- ritory, not negotiated it, and as a result they're not a real partner. “They’re closer to women who used to play th martyr. And women are no happier with Mr. Nice Guy than Mr. Chauvinist.” Luker, a professor of family studies at the Uni- versity of Guelph, said that power lies at the heart of the male-female battleline. “Once you have given women the ability and opening to go out and work and bring in a pay cheque, the power base in the home is umalterably changed. They key to an equal relationship between the sexes is how that power is distributed.” MEN ARE UNSURE Luker said that for most men a new consciousness is unexplored territory and many feel “more unsure than ever of their role.” “Men are seared but they don’t admit it, es- pecially to their wives. Men may not know they are under siege, but sooner or iater their boedies will tell them — they die sooner, suffer more ulcers, heart attacks, — all those stresses.” - Luker outlined some of the battles scars men may suffer while under siege: — More women than men walk out on their families in Ontario. — Many men are losing interest in sex and report- ing to psychologists, such as LUker, that sex.is just not worhtwhile. —~ Men feel increasingly trheatened by the militant homosexual movement be- cause they see men have sharing, i as well as strong and emo- tionally independent, re- flecting a world where the rules for masculine be- ( DUSIN ESS diRECTO . Telephone 365-5210 RY Now Insertions, copy changes and cancellations for the Castlegar News Business Directory will be accepted before the first Wed- nesay issue of each month only. Dunwoody & Co. Chartered Accountants 410 Columbia Ave. Castlegar Ph. 365-2151 Len Folkman, B.Com., C.A. Resident Partner havior are ing and uncertain. “There used to be rules we could follow,” he said. “We knew we would be OK if we met the standars, but now the rules have been thrown away.” But changing or expand- ing one range of emotions is tough. “Men have been raised to be inexpressive, yet now their wives expect them to be tender, exp and Services Complete Septic Tank Service Sond Gravel Topsoil Excavating Post Holes i f ‘Soligo, Babcock 0. * Chartered Accountants Backhoe Backfilling Snow Removal 365-6505 HESS RS o1sco Jezebel’ Ss o1sco oisco atthe Tera Nova OR'S IG TOUCH OF CLASS Custom-made Drapes, ee ee 601 - 23rd Street Castlegar 365-2144 WELDING EQUIPMENT AND SUPPLIES Distributor tor ap. De Oxygen —- Acetylene Hobart Welders Bartle & Gibson Co. Lt 605 Columbia Ave. Castlegar Phone 365-7745 Henry John, B. St., C.A. Resident Partner affectionate.” But he said there is a way out of the masculine dilemma. The first step he said is for men to organizg con- sciousness-raising groups for themselves, DON'T TALK SPORTS They should be~ men- helping-men groups and th topics for discussion should not be the weekend's foot- ball game. “We have to tidy up our own house first as women did in the feminist move- ment.” The second step is a “cool sex" instead of the prevailing “hot-sex men- tality.” Hot sex is genital-ori- ented and reflected in Playboy and Playgirl atti- tudes. Cool sex is “person-o oriented. There are many ways to have erotic exper- iences — by talking, touch- ing, as well as inter- course.” “If we're going to have richer interaction between men and women we must move away from deperson- alized obsession with gen- ital sex. I believe men and women are more inter- ested in intimacy than sex.” The last step i is to nego- tiate for the things you want in a relationship. That means you shouldn't give power away, as a Mr. Nice Guy. DEALERSHIP First time offered in this area. 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Highs. low 20: ‘ows arov yy with overnight nd 16°, VOL, 34, NO: 43 35 Cents VICTORIA (CP) — Ser- ious traffic offenders will be jailed or.their vehicles seized under tough ‘new troduced, Highways Minis- ter Alex Fraser said Fri. day. : Fraser said he will bring in stiffer penalties for traf- fic ‘violators’ during the current session . because on the province's high- legislation ready to be in- © The situation is'so bad, he said, “I wouldn't go out driving Friday night ‘in British Columbia.” °°. ‘Drivers now’ receive , demerit points. for . traffic * violations which result in © higher insurance rates‘and * possible. licence suspen: sion. “It's obvious to me. the. point ' system: is not’ ‘work- “things are out of control” _ tte that tata e'll amend the Motor. Vehicle Act. wee rather ‘than a fine or a few points, the dri- ver's liberty might be at stake as well as the ve- chile!” 0°" In December,. 1980, a government study group recommended tougher traffic laws -which would provide for impounding of * vehicles in some cases, jail terms, radar detectors and’ man- datory ‘blood tests for people injured in accidents the ‘banning. of | Serious traffic offe The: group's: report called the. points - system. “totally. ‘inappropriate °for ; violators who show a flag- rant disrespect for the! law." Many “high poitit”. ark vers continue to drive and, : “when stopped. for further: violations, they: view -any new ticket with h cantempty” si the report sait Fraser, said tbat under anew offence’ will be ‘ereated for travelling more than 80-kilometres an hour “beyond the ‘posted speed + limit." "There will. be stiff -fines for first offenders and those’ convicted a second. ‘their licence is under. sus-. ‘pension, ” the penalties in- ielude jail tertn'and hav- he said.” : 2 i sors kinds of teat fic offences will require the © accused to appear in court - instead ‘of ‘juat paying ‘a” fine or: receiving penalty points.: He did not “give BIRCHWOOD from the site today ‘on a ‘first-come firs: Club. Members of the club were out. fF the ci served asl rial park ‘is bal by: the ‘Castlegar Kiwanis: iterday falling thes trees‘and A ; Fruitvale, but’ those, jobs would have disappeared soon. regardless of the mill's sale; : says Atco’s president. Hore “The sawmill has been shut down, and the planer mill will: be shut down after the stock- | pile of rough lumber is run through. «Dick Nelson, Atco, presl- dent,. said in’ an interview Friday if the mill. had -not been sold, it would have folded within ‘six months having lost a large amount of money last year, and it could not survive financially during _ “the. present poor: lumber market conditions he said: In addition, there . were 7 spokes-’ . men, both local and: in Vic“. toria, also said the, Hadikins’ tion, the. company’s « plant - , would have had to be re- “disagreenients among the three brothers who: owned the company, he said." No irregularity in lack of input “The sale of Hadikin: Bros. Lumber Co. was approved by Forests Minister. Tom Water- land without input from.local but a ministry -apokesman . says there is.nothing irreg- Speaking from the’ députy forest: minister's office Victoria: on Friday, the spokesman said it would be normal to ask for the input, but it does not always hap- pen. While he had not: been involved in the approval, the spokesman said there were no signs of conflict in the sale, and, the buyer and sellers: wanted ‘the sale to be final was going to bé,shut down, and, -the’ ‘total. number « of | people employed would not change that: much,.he said.” He also said the mill was located in an area that will.be . flooded if the Murphy.Dam is built. . Glen Allin, ‘Arrow’ Timber, Supply Area manager,’ told _the Castlegar News Friday, the minister had few. choices. “The company had:to be sold or. it’ would fold, - and -the ‘minister. had ‘to decide, if he would let it go. bankrupt, .be sold to. another, ‘Canadian in: company, : > or: sold ‘to an “American company. Nick Hadikin, one of the three own the ministry/and Atco Lum- ber about. selling the com- pany, Allin added. Atco President Dick Nel | son‘siad his company was ap- © ‘proached * by’: Nick: Hadikin © about buying ‘Hadikin Bros., “and he outlined: his plans to the ministry, of. forests.: The ‘senior: ‘ministry offi- cials in Victoria see the TSA as one economic region, and they do not see his company's buying Hadikin Bros. timber as timber leaving the region, Nelson said. * located if B.C: Hydro’s ‘prop: osal. to, build the Murphy Creek Dam is finalized. . Nelson’ and ‘Jim Switser; - manager of.the Trail Canada company’ pane by: IWA‘and union ‘members ‘on ers il probatiy be hired:by er. woods eee i approached .@ “TYPICAL SCENE across Canada is a visit’, from the member of the census team. Here, census .re. Jean ‘Lun. - forms that da and. fomitte: away . This includes | individuals from:.home on dquist chats with Mrs. Dorie Jonasson as son, Karri, looks on. This Wednesday is Day in Canada ond Statistics : . Canada says people should fill out their Census night of June 2. People *not at home Bui’ ‘still in Canada: on “June -3 should be counted where they spend the —CosNewsFote by John Charters . Arash of pet poisonixigs in’ “ Robson’ has local concerned, : Fourteen animals were poisoned last weekend, .and two’ more - were poisoned people leaving .the baits. -: of complaints during the past’ . two months, ‘and ‘an Sayer igation | is continuing, Staff Sgt. John Steve: : A local doctor fas warned .. there is. a real danger that‘a \ young child could eat\one of.’ ‘child |; could pick ‘up.: the search: : + Meiats eye ill being ante ‘for’ the: peesting pu he expects? She said the batts a are 5 dog food : laced’ with’ strychine, E are. being. thrown ‘poisoned food and eat it, said “Dr. de V. Ward. He added : children do ‘pick. up and eat > things lying around if it looks like food. ‘The- Johnsons are cireule-.’ ting a petition around Robson in‘an attempt to micriag An announcement will be. ‘made later this week about ‘contract ‘ negotiations’. be- following three days of bare gaining last week... The two sides: bargained for three days last .week, in what Bill Krug, the city’ad- ministrator ' bargaining " for - the city, described as “a” ‘has been agreed to by. ‘getting into garbage. ‘cans, she said, Val Jobtson also suld they Bas (a are .alis shen they are brosgtt in'to 3 his office, they usually can be ; - saved, ‘he said. : Dioge were being poisoned a last summer as well, said Dr. “David | Wiliams, a-local Veter- Ged Siete cin ead = 8 the.union this week. | He said'a news. blackout sides, and details are navel Sables ey The union wants ‘wage parity between. the city and CanCel, and toclose the wage ” gap between inside out- side workers, Ed Hagan, the sion.” Krug said Thursday the ~ negotiations were going well, it agent for the:Cana- dian’ Union of Public, Em- ployees, said several- weeks ago. 335 both, Kootenay: Forest Products “who received, the Gus Por: cher award.” § Further details will appear “ in Wednesday's paper. $ TODAY'S PRAYER: * :. Tetich us, © God, to: keep * our mouths. and. tongues. under ‘control, and by ‘so: doing keep ourselves out : of rouble,