Wednesday, January 30, 1991 Traditional ceremony Sookerukoff / Verigin Carole Patricia Sookerukoff, daughter of Peter and Helen Sookerukoff of South Stocan, and Curtis William Verigin, son of William and Laura Verigin of Pass Creek, were married in a tra- ditional Doukhobor ceremony at the home of the bride and groom's parents on September 1, 1990. The bridal party consisted of the Maid of Honor, Nadine Plot- nikoff of Crescent Valley, and © Craft & Wedding Supplies 97-292 Columbia Ave. 365 - 6932 the best man, Ernie Verigin, brother of the groom, also from Pass Creek, A reception took place at the Fireside Inn, Peter Barisoff of Passmore was the master of cere- monies and the brother of the bride, Rick Sookerukoff proposed the toast to the bride. ‘The couple traveled to the Ore- gon Coast and San Francisco for their honeymoon and now reside in Pass Creek, B.C. Best wishes to all newlyweds from the staff at we The Castlegar Sun ep SN Zs lal Shoicase Couples often create unique and trend setting weddings If you are a bride-to-be, the way you plan your wedding may affect future traditions for centurics to come. The ond person singular, as in “with this ring, I thee wed.” These days, ‘thee’ Is strictly reserved for God and one’s reason? are being and redefined now. While some en- gaged couples enjoy consulting books of etiquette either for fun or to follow to the letter, many insist on creating a unique wedding that expresses what's special about their union, .Vows you can live by One of the most common innova- tions is altering or rewriting the wed- ding vows, Some modem women think the part that goes “love, honor and obey" sounds more like a doggie’ train ing school oath than a wedding cere- mony. Others object to “I now pro- nounce you man and wife” instead of “husband and wife” or “wife and hus- band.” In the twentieth century, a bride should no more have to choke out something objectionable than she should have to marry someone not of her choosing. On the other hand, the old-fashioned vows do have some chanming attrib. utes. For example. nothing is more int mate than the outmoded use of the sec: Cultured pearls for a cultured bride Several millennia ago, legend has it, a great Hindu god dove into the sea to acquire a single, exquisite pearl as a gift for his daughter on her wedding day. 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Such a pearl is now termed “cultured,” and although it is helped into maturity by man, it is still considered as fine a gem and a very close cousin to the natural pearl. Just as nothing should be faked on the wedding day, the jewelry to be worn should be as real as the emotions felt on this memorable occasion. Imitation pearls that are almost entirely made of synthetic and sometimes organic chemicals have no intrinsic value and no place in the wedding party. Unlike imitations, cultured pearls can be worn with pride long after the 50th anniversary for they will always remind a woman of that very special day in her life. To make sure that the bride has the right cultured pearls to suit her, there are several factors to remember: When selecting cultured pearls, choose the best quality you can afford. Look for pearls that have a bright, clear women getting married for the first time are over.25. Of these, one third are in their thirties, forties, or older. Whatever their reasons for delaying marriage — whether to pursue a pro- The sal types This pea ter adrered prc, Rent a Classy tusedo-... is right at my age?” 2+ é ride's magazine gives the follow- ing advice for this group of-brides: _ Many older brides prefer small lustre and a deep inner glow. Try to select pearls that are relatively free of noticeable surface blemishes such as cracks, bumps or blisters, which can detract from the overall beauty and shorten the life of a pearl. When selecting pearls for the bride, matching the length and style of pearls to a particular gown design is 4 important. One- to three-strand princess or choker length pearl neck- laces best accentuate off-the-shoulder or scooped-neck gowns and help to frame the face as well. High or closed neck gowns call for longer strands of pearls to create a slim and smooth sil- houette. As far as earrings are Not-so-traditional gown Not every woman looks good in white and therefore some choose an off-white or light pink or an even less traditional color for their gowns, After all, the object is to be beautiful. One bride who had lovely legs comes to mind. She wore the traditional white veil and white satin bodice, but the *gown' stopped at her hips and flared out into a tulle tutu. She was stunning. Another reason for taking up the hem is that floor-length gowns were designed for graceful dances such as the waltz. Few people waltz nowadays and those massive skirts look awkward jiggling about to modem music. — ; Even the food and drink served at receptions are undergoing scrutiny. Some couples, who have observed one too many scenes made by drunken rela- tives at other peoples’ weddings. elimi- nate the possibility by not serving alco- hol. And. the thought of guests driving home drunk is an added worry the already nervous couple doesn’t need. And the bride cuts the cake... Chocoholics see ‘no reason to deprive themselves on this of all days by serv- ing white wedding cake. Make it 4 la mode with double fudge ice cream and your guests may urge you to do the whole thing over again same time next ear, Since today people often meet their spouses in the workplace. they fre- quently share professional interests. Some choose to make their mutual vocation part of the ceremonies. Two remember that drop earrings tend to make the face appear longer while stud and button earrings have a shortening ) effect. When it comes to selecting pearl color, women with lighter hair and fair complexions tend to look best in cul- tured pearls with a slight rose tint, while creamy off-white hued pearls complement darker hair and skin tones. However, it is best to match pearl color to individual skin tone by actually placing the pearls against the skin and seeing the effect. 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