“Dear Ann Landers: Ming is o message ‘for’ that large segment of North American wo n who keep soying. “Where are the decent men?" je next time you: are af. a: social: athering, drooling over the stud in the-tight punts with his. shirt open to the waist, please look around the room. You will see at least half a dozen “write-offs.” They are the men who you decide — after a single gidrice — are not ° your type, not worth the trouble to get to know.” For example, the; guy standing by the hostess, He isn't all that attractive, Hi you sald a faw words to. answers, I've heard you say, looking for a man wha has't ness, the ca externa Is. pacity to love. "one the truth Is, these qualities ¢ fir clothes aren't sharp. When he didn’t have any snappy ec ‘on't important; I'm ; character, tender- about people.” But ‘ot, visible from the out- side. Finding them requires tine, ‘and you aren’ ‘t ‘willing: t to Invest it. ‘The man with the qualities you ‘claim ara imp 2 rtant may be standing two feet away but you ‘leo ‘right through him because he doesn't have ‘the standard * algeut or party-| patter that catches your.ear. . iknow all about such men becauselam. - — The One You Wrote Off Last Night Dear One: i'm Selightad ¥ you wrote. And now will you please sit back and re-read your letter and sub- siitute, any cool answers, You men keop saying, "Externdls aren't impor- Heer "You tell me how vou long.to maet a women wlio as love and care about - vestigation takes time.” " How often have you a snd your brothers i inored an Intelligent, oman b she was a little ‘overweight or, too skinny? or her complexion wasn't peaches and cream, or she was too shy to'come ecto," but as you sald, ine Pp en to you like a Dynamite Dish — so you wrote Het off. . That train runs both ways, my friend. Dear Ann Landers: For the. past ‘eight: menths 1 have been living with a man | am fond of. | have a° three-year-old dgughter, and he is vel ¥ good to her. When |! first started to see “Rob,” he told me hé did not know where his. parents were ‘and had no interest in finding out. He got into: trouble when he was a teenager ond they kicked him out. He is 32 now. Last week one of Rob's high-school classmates — honed, She said his mother has been looking for-him Tor the past few years and would love to know if he is alive or dead. { told Rob | thought he should contact his mother ; es to put her mind at ease. He said, “Mind your own usiness." I'd like to send her a note — nothing am afraid of the consequences. Please a more — ‘but ( vise. | —B. Twix And B: Tween In Austin, Tex. Door Twix: IF you could persuade Rob that it would be an act of generosity and compassion, fine — but the decision must be his. Don't take it upon yourself to play - Glorla Great-Heart, or you may reg ' Questionnaire ~ deadline. nears The Canada Council has. announced that Jan. 23,1981, is the ‘final date by iwhich Canadian writers can request questionnaires for, inclusion’ in the council's study. of a potential scheme to. compeh- sate writers for the library ‘use of their books. All Canadian writers ot published books are aligible. S Those who’ have. not+ yet received questionnaires should request them from the, council by Jan: 23. All com- “pleted . questionnaires must , be returned to the council by Feb. -16, including those of writers who have received but not yet returned: thelr ela President of. air force at WICHITA, KAN.. (AP) Ten-year-old Steven. Garri- son figures he'd like to ke “president of the air force” if there really is a job for him in the Reagan administration. He got a letter this week . from Pendleton James, Rea- gan's director of presidential ° personnel, saying he'd: been recommended for a job in t fe + new administration. His background was being re- - ‘viewed ‘and his application - would be seriously consid- ered, the letter caid. _. The boy's only contact with President-elect Ronald Rea- - gan was in late November > when; Ye wrote a letter con- plained. i “But they call me Kami- age 10? gratulating him on his ‘elec- tion victory. He got a form letter from Reagan, promis- ing to “work hard to earn ‘your continued faith and es- Garrison: and his parents digure his name was mis, ‘takenly placed on a computer list of job applicants. But why president of the air force? - “At school, as any other kid, ‘I play soccer,” he -ex- kaze, like the airplanes, be- cause I'm rough and tough and almost indestructible.”. Answer for Sunday Ejossword Puzzle No, 93] | Answer for Sunday, January 18, Cryp BUILDING COSTLY STAT: tA TINVOL VED (BIG . 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