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Acceptance of death

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Newborn infants not’
insensitive playthings

Some parents may be

harming their newborn infant’s
development by treating their
child like an insensitive play-
thing who can't do much except
cry.
* Babies are by no means
unfeeling blobs, says pedia-
trician Dr. T, Berry Brazelton,
noted for his research into the
alertness of newborns. “From
the moment they are born,
babies are strong, complex
individuals with powerful ways
of ing.” he says.

to stimuli including cuddling,
noises and moving objects.

Via the scale, the pedia-
trician can help a mother to
observe what her baby is doing
and how she responds to him
and his idiosyncrasies. “We
show the mother how her
particular baby acts.

“Instead of becoming pan-
icky, for instance, when her
baby cries, she should deter-
mine how the baby uses crying:
for communicating. Crying is

“Babies have a lot to tell
their parents, The parents just
have to learn to read their
particular baby's messages.
They can get feedback by ob-
serving their actions and
watching their faces,”

There is no set formula for
reading those messages, said
Brazelton, who is chief of the
Child Development Unit of the
Harvard University affiliated
with Children’s Medical Centre
in Boston. He contends that
parents just have to learn to
interact with their baby and, by
observation and experimenta-
tion, they will naturally esta-
blish rapport.

“A baby and his mother,
for instance, get into a kind of
rhythm as soon as the child is
born,” Brazelton said, “It's like
a dance of sorts with each
looking at each other, smiling,
touching, cuddling, hearing
each other's voiees. During the
first few wecks they establish
ions of cach other."

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Brazelton, who was in
Chicago for a teacher education
program co-sponsored by the
Institute for Psychoanalysis
and Northwestern University
stressed the fact that the first
weeks and months in a baby's
life are critical to his develop-
ment.

Problems can develop, for
instance, when a mother
doesn't know how to react to a
baby and does not touch and
cuddle it enough. That could
lead to a baby who is mal-
nourished and does not pro-
gress as he should.

If not helped in time

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before they are two
years old}, those babies with
extreme problems can turn out
to be retarded.

In his research with
mothers who have problems
with their babies, Brazelton has
developed an assessment scale
for use by pediatricians, The
scale tests an infant’s behavior
in various stages of sleep and

kefull and its

to some babies for,
getting their day organized.
Some babies need to ery to go
to sleep.

“Others use it as a means
of saying that they want to be
picked up, or don’t want to be
picked up.”

He believes that mothers
need to relax with their babies
and learn to trust their own in-
stincts more. “Many mothers
feel insecure because the baby
doesn’t respond the way a book
says he should. The baby feels
those anxieties."

Brazelton, who has written
2 couple of books on the subject
of newborns, including Infants
and Mothers, says that while
books can be informative, they
are not meant to be followed
religiously. A mother generally
knows what's best for her own
baby.

Natural
new hues

for kitchens

Natural foods, natural fab-
tics and comfortable natural
lifestyles are the current
trend, as people everywhere
are learning the advantages
of uncluttered, back-to-ba-
sics living—away from the
hectic workaday environ-
ment.

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pliance selection,
Frigidaire is introducin;
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almond, to complement
every Kitchen and turn
appliances from starkly func-
tional to softly eye-pleasing.

Decorators and families
would agree that the kitchen,
the busiest room in the
house, needs the quict
warmth and calmness that
color can bring. That is
exactly what almond does,
according to the Frigidaire
kitchen stylists who describe
it as subtle and relaxing.

Human beings, because

they know they are going to.

die, often have a taboo about
death, an Ottawa clinical
psychologist, told a special
workshop in Victoria.

Dr. Brown teaches a
course on dying and bereave-
ment at the University of
Ottawa and St. Paul Univer-
sity, Ottawa.

The workshop, sponsor-
ed by the Community of the
Sisters of St. Ann, was
attended by members of the
elorgy, medical and psychi-
atric counsellors, nurses, so-
cial workers, funeral direc-

tors, volunteer workers and ‘

others who are called upon to
assist people faced with the
realities of dying, death and
bereavement,

Dr. Brown is a member
of the thanatology team of
Ottawa Civic Hospital and
has worked with the dying
and bereaved for more than
10 yeats. She has been
described as Canada’s lead-
ing thanatologist.

In speaking at the work-
shop, she explained that
death is as much a part of life
as birth. It is a universal
phenomenon with historical,
social, psychological, spiri-
tual, personal and interper-
sonal ramifications.

“We cannot get away
from it, but we certainly try,”
she said. However, because
of “death taboo,” people who
are put in the face of death
tend to have to deal with all
of it, all of a sudden “and that
comes from:not looking at
dying all through life.”

“If in a life span, we use
the opportunities for con-
frontation’ of death as they
come and not run from them,
facing death is much easier.
If we have realistically and
healthily looked at death. in
life, then it does not come
down upon us all at the last.

“Accepting death starts
with the child who has lost a
pet perhaps, or a grand-
mother or grandfather;
sometimes the loss of a
friend. In our civilization we

“Those who confront the
inevitability of thelr dying
tend to live more fully,” she
said. She explained her stud-
ies had shown that those who
tend to utterly disregard or
deny the fact of death do hot
really deepen thelr lives,

Those who put death
into the pattern of a total life,
not morbidly but in a very
realistic and healthy way,
tend to deepen the living of
their lives, It helps them
realize the shortness of life,
no matter how long it is, and
it helps them make the
decision to live as fully as
Possible now.

The denial of death, she
explained is also evident in
the way people look for
scapegoats when confronted
with death. They search for
someone to blame and all of
the disciplines become tar-
gets. People in general will
blame anyone. They will
scapegoat anyone who makes
them face something they
don't want to face.

Dr. Brown said there is a

+ necessity to not only accept

the reality of death but to
contemplate death, to bring
it into all of our consider-
ations as an integral part of
life,

The facing of loss
through death, has a finality
that cannot‘ be tasted totally
aforehand. The shock and the
denial is something that will
hit in differing degrees and
has to be gone through
before a person can begin to
go through what has been
called the ‘grief work,’ " Dr.
Brown said.

So there needs to be a
certain acceptance in ber-
eavement just as there has to
be an acceptance of one's
coming death—the actuality
of. one’s coming death—in
order tobe able to work

through the psychological re-

actions to it.

There has to be an initial
acceptance of the death be-
fore a person can begin even
to grieve, and once the first
acceptance comes, then. you
can have the whole gamut of

fons and she

find a lot of people whojh:
relueed to look at oo she

explained.
One of the emotions that

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appears {s anger—anger
against the medical pcople,
anger against the very per-
son who has died, and even
anger with yourself.

Dr. Brown explained
that the role of the funeral
and of the families of the
body at the funeral can have
a very important psychologi-
cal bearing upon the grieving

process of the surviving
members of the family.’
The funeral service, she
explained, can afford the
opportunity for a fitting
closure to the life of a loved
one and at the same time, a
sense of continuity in the
realization that "I am berea-
ved, there are others still
with me to help me go on.”

The funeral service, she

. explained, can be of great

benefit especially. for the,
family that has to go through
an untimely death, If there is
ever a need for a family to be
in the presence of the one
who ‘has died, it is in the case
of those who have died
unexpectedly and quickly;
she said.’

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‘79 CUTLASS SUPREME Loaded,
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Dube Chevrolet
323 Nelson eres NELSON 352-6688"

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‘MGB Limited Edition ONE ONLY No
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‘79 CAMARO 228 V.i 8. auto, trans.,
p.b., radio with 8-track, very

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Kay Motors

2880 Highway Dr. GLENMERRY
D. No, 05234

‘78 FRONTIER VAN CONVERSION
Self-contained, dual tanks, swivel

Mike's R.V. Ranch
CASTLEGAR Ph, 365-5741
D. No, 001124,

‘79 MAZDA RX7 GS modal with mag
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°79 COUGAR Hard to find XR7 model.
Most options. In Immaculate con-
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D. No. O1457A

‘79 PACER Only 4 left in stock, Three
wagons and one hatchback. All at
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Beaver Auto Centre
FRUITVALE D. No. 014828

98 REGENCY 4-dr. sedan, loaded, in-
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low mi

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79 228950, 4-spd., stereo.
Dube Chevrolet
328Nelson Ave. NELSON 352-6608

'79 DODGE WINDOW VAN Come in,
make your best deal, and ge! o $250
rebate from Chrysler.
Trail Chrysler
2815 Highway Dr.
D. No. 8875

76 pope ase SQUIRE STATION
p. be, radio, 33,000

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Waneta Jnct. TRAIL , 368-8295.
D. No. 5888

1-TON U.W.8. VAN V-8, auto., p.s.
p.b., extra seot. Really clean unit,
Turlin Motors
GRAND FORKS 442-8245
D. No. 5130

“78 BUICK SKYLARK § V-8, auto.

trans., p.s..p.b., AM radio

B-trock. .

* Kay Motors

2800 Highway Dr. GLENMERRY
O. No. 05234

Waneta Plaza Toyota”
Waneta dnct. TRAIL
D. No, 5605

‘79 GRAND LEMANS WAGON Very
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Maloney Pontiac Buick
CASTLEGAR 365-2155 (Collect)
D.No. 01457A

'79 JEEP WAGONEER 4x4 V8, auto.,
pt p.b., air only, 8.0060 km,
uckets, roof rack.
Mike's R.V. Ranch
CASTLEGAR Ph, 365-5741
D. No. 00112A +

‘79 MONTE CARLO 2-dr., V-8, auto.
trans., p.s.-p.b.cfactory alr, bucket
di ith Bet
$7995
Kay Motors

2880 Highway Dr, GLENMERRY
0. No, 05234

 82aNelson Ava. |

'79 MONTE CARLO Sunroof,

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Dube Chevrolet
SNEGON 352-6688

‘66 INTERNATIONAL FLEETSTAR 6V71
GM, Jacobs, 484 spicer,
aluminum box, new 23000 R.A.
tag, 12000 F.A. Good running con-
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SALMO 9357-2292

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‘79 PLYMOUTH CARAVELLE STATION
WAGON Come, in make your best
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Chrysler.

Trail Chrysler
No. 5575.

THE MIGHTY MINIIt looks alittle like
bread box on wheels, but it goes like
asports cor witha lid on.
North Shore Service
NELSON (across the bridge)
10. 00330A,

‘78 DODGE MONACO 4-dr., air,
cruise control, and many extras.
This week's special $a600
Beaver Auto Centre
FRUITVALE D. No. 014828

175 CUTLASS SUPREME. SALON 2-dr,
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Turlin Motors
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Hs Hier PICKUP W/8' CAMPER

pe the this week
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GRAND FORKS 442.8245
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* 2880 Highway Dr.
D. No. D5234

‘75 FIAT 4-dr., 4-spd.. front bucket:
seats, low mileage... $2895
Kay Motors
GLENMERRY

‘77, CAMARO RALLY SPORT V.8,
auto., p.s., p.b., new paint.
Turlin Motors
GRAND FORKS ~ (442-8245,
D.No. 5130

‘75 FORD LT 9000 204 W.B., 16000
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‘79 TOYOTA LITTLE CHIEF MOTOR
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Waneta Plaza Toyota

Waneta Jnct. TRAIL |

D. No. 5605

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new winter tires.
Skyway Truck & Trailer
SALMO 957-2292
D. No. 6409

‘79 JIMMY BRAND NEW 4-wheal drive
will do most anything you wont it to.
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CASTLEGAR 365-2155 (Collect)
. D. No, 01457A

7S PONTIAC. VENTURA 2-dr. coupe.

Reg.
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Trail Chrysler

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D. No. 5575.

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