Page 4B Birth order series The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, July 5, 1995 Finally, | am getting around to you the middle child. But, I am Sure you're used to being ignored. After all you're not old enough to do all the things your older sibling gets to do, and you're not the baby who gets special privileges just because You can be the unique one in the family, full of contradictions. Maybe you will compete with the “awesome first born” maybe not. More than likely you will find a world outside your home. you need to feel special, if not in the family then with your friends. 2. To avoid pain and danger You the middle child will often leave home the quickest 3. To get even. You become a free spirit Your role in the family may be the “mediator”. My son who is the middle child is a natural at this. Many times he was forced to “listen” just because he had a kind spirit, bless him! Because the middle child never had a mom or dad all to ize that you may have a natural bent This could be hard on a marriage because you have kept your counsel to yourself, describe you is * No middle of the road about this child of us are still trying to accept! Here's a few tips on how to stand your middle ground. Real orders you will be the last to seek professional help from counselors or psychologists. Being in the middle is not such a bad spot You probably don't have as many hang ups as the first born. You are less fearful and anx- ious word balanced” Your peers may be “family” and of utmost importance. Accord- the art of negotiating and themselves they had to learn compromise On the other hand middle children stick with one marriage You have a desire to make: it Don’t be afraid to take the role of leader because you area natural in understanding com- ing to Kevin Leman, you have three natural motivators. recognition, Somehow, someway To obtain rewards and because they have learned that life is unfair. A fact that the rest They are tenacious! adults work. So much so you may even tol- erate abuse. Out of all the birth and enjoy being you promise. Give up the compari- son game, just be comfortable YOU ARE NOT ALONE Submitted by: Father Herman, St. Rita's Parish I know single people and yet they are not alone, but I know also people who live in community but they are alone. | am speaking here about inner loneliness. At present there are many people who are lonely for many years of their lives. This feeling of loneliness becomes most difficult and painful when people get older. Avsingle retired teacher tells the story of her experience of loneliness. “I live on the 12th floor in a block of flats. To say the truth I do not know any of the people on my own floor. Sometimes someone says “Good moming” but I don't know the person. Especially during the night I-hear the slightest Noise but I don’t know what it is. Usually I do my shopping once a week. At such moments I get in the milling crowd and am pushed left and right by all the people. I feel the breath of those who come in my way - and among all those I remain alone.” This person is probably unknown to you, and yet, do you not meet them every day? Perhaps one such person ‘lives beside you and is waiting for you to approach her to understand her. Of course there is an inner loneliness which cannot easily be overcome. There are wounds in our soul, in our heart which cannot be simply healed. But there are people, and for that, Many good people who merely by their presence can reduce that pain of lonliness. Should we not try to be such a good person for a particular individual - by our presence giving a kindness which the other person has seldom received, offering an understanding or loving word which the other person has not heard for a long time? A 16 year old youth said that he felt terribly lonely and bored even when surrounded by those of his age in the bar. It was exactly among such a crowd that he felt most miserable One day after the summer holdiays I met him again, completely different, totally relieved and cheerful. The feeling of loneliness was gone. What had happened? During his holidays he had met a person whl recognized his loneliness and who offered his unselfish attention and support. It was the first person who honestly tried to understand him. Till now he had never experienced such understanding and now he perceived also that he was no more alone Every day we have 1440 minutes at our disposal. Would it not be a good idea to take every day 5 minutes and give them to a person who is alone. These 5 minutes could bring him light, warmth and hope. The few minutes that I spend for someone else, God will make very precious. Why? Because He says He stands beside me when I try to be there for someone else. Jesus himself says: “I assure you as often as you did it for one of my least brothers, you did it for me.” Jesus goes along into the loneliness of all the lonely even into'the most extreme, the Garkest and most bitter loneliness He will become visible only through people who bring light in the life of their neighbor, who light for them the Easter light which gives brightness and warmth to their lives ST.DAVIO'S ANGLICAN CHURCH 614 Christina Place KINNAIRD CHURCH OF GOD Pastor John Wiutt (B.th,, M.Div.) ST. PETER ese two young cal instruments. violinists are students 0} wen Lush, of Robson. Lush instructs music students throughout the West Kootenays in a variety of musi- Sunday Summer Schedule 9:30 am Family Service The Rev. Canon Dorothy Barker Phone: 365-2271 ALL WELCOME Castlegar, BC, V1N 2X5 * Church 365-5300 SERVICES: SUNDAY: 9:45 - 10:45 a.m. Sunday School 11:00 a.m. Worship WEDNESDAY: Family Night Pioneer Club - Adult Fellowship - Care Groups Faithtully serving Castlegartor over 30 years. A Church built on LOVE-ACCEPTANCE-FORGIVENESS LUTHERAN WORSHIP TIME 9:00 am SUNDAY SCHOOL 10:15 am 713 - 4th St., Castlegar Rev. V. Tech * 604-354-1527 ALL WELCOME! A Bible Based, Spirit Filled, The Pypdyterian RC open, Family Church * Youth Ministries © Victorious Women Men's Fellowship seemecesesnenmmesses WATCH FAITH ALIVE oN SHAW CABLE 10 Seemmsamenman Affiliated with Canadian Fellowship of Churches & Ministers GRACE PRESBYTERIAN 2605 Columbia Ave. SUNDAY WORSHIP - 11:30 am Need a ride to church? Call 365-2438 Rev. Murray Garvin Calva Baptist. Church SUNDAY SCHOOL 7 NO Sunday Services Nursery and Chaidren s Church 1-226-7540 * 365-2438 3, CASTLEGAR 4) UNITED CHURCH y 2224 - 6th Ave., Castlegar Ph. 365-8337 Minister: The Rev. Ann Pollock 10:00 am WORSHIP dunng services The uncovering of the soul Submitted A woven copper shoe, an exploration of our impact on the environment, a soap stone sculpture and paintings which attempt to uncover one's soul are all on exhibit in Kootenay School of the Arts Summer- time Gallery at 503 Front St. in Nelson. The school’s painting studio has been converted into a gallery for July and August and will run shows in conjunction with Nel- son's Artwalk ‘95. The first exhibit of the season highlights some of the work completed by KSA’s recent first- year graduates. More than 50 two and three-dimensional pieces are on display by 20 of KSA’s students. TRAIL AUTO BODY Complete Body & Paint Facilities Auto Glass Replacement Towing 2316 - 6th Ave., Castlegar 365-5114 In April, these students suc- cessfully completed their first of three years toward a diploma in the arts with many returning to begin a second year of study in the fall. Their work in the fields of clay, painting, metal, stone and textiles is on display July 3 to 28 in theKSA Summertime Gallery The gallery is open to the pub- lic Monday to Friday, 8:30 a.m to 12 noon and | p.m. to 4:30 p.m. Kootenay School of the Ans will also be hosting an opening reception—along with Art- walk—Friday, July 7 from 7 p.m to 9 p.m. Everyone is invited to attend and take in the work created by KSA’s students The majority of work is also for sale with the proceeds going toa student scholarship fund. Team Uniforms & Jackets Wednesday, July 5, 1995 The Castlegar Sun A sure cure forthe Don’t miss this annual summertime blues! Zuckerberg Island Heritage Park/Chapel House and the C.P. Rail Station Museum are gearing up for the onset of summer tourists and activities, New and keen student staff on the Summe-or Career Place- ment Program through Cana- da Employ- ment Centre are Jodie Anderson, Jason Becker and Aaron Kennedy, who are already learning and earning in their positions as Museum Assis- tant, Labourer and Tour Guide Aaron is working on plans for special events at the Island. The Heritage Society will also be uti- lizing the skills and talents of Canada World Youth—in August. The Art Club will again be displaying their work upstairs in the station galery during July and August lec of local CAROLEE Fitz-GERALD stockings, Victorian Lace tree ornaments and so on for early bird shoppers. Other popular items include a variety of hand- crafted items—cow eggs, herbs and spices, kitchen acces- sories, small, and framed watercolour prints from Bev Kennedy. There are also Teardrop Crafts by George and Mila Richards, dreamcatcher jewellery by Joanne Ross; and pens, jewellery and clocks by local artisan Har- vey Jack. I'm getting a hammock with plans to laze away the summer days between trips to the ‘back’ (front, actually, ninety feet of semi-tamed landscaping chal- lenges), visiting grandchildren, the Belbeck fiftieth wedding Submitted It started in remote logging camps and communities more than a hundred year ago. It has + become B.C.'s largest industrial sport. Logging Sports is a cele- bration of historical lineage; one has only to imagine their great grandfather, or grandmother for that matter, using a crosscut saw or axe to-cut firewood or take logs to the mills to put food on the table The Slocan Valley is proud to host the 15th Annual “Slocan City Logging Show”. This is a Canadian Loggers Sports Asso- ciation sanctioned tour event, Competitors from B.C., the Unit- ed States, and some as far away ia compete for prestige, . and over $5000 in cash zes. Exciting events include Speed Climbing, Log Rolling, Axe Throwing, and the Canadian Championship Doublebucking. To be held from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m. on July 8 at the Slocan Log- ger Sports Grounds, the show* also includes concession, Bavari- an gardens, door prizes and much more. Admission is one loonie. Slocan Loggers Sports would like to thank all the sponsors for their support and donations. Without this the show would not be possible. It promises to be a great day in Slocan! anniversary/family in Robson-and-searching forthe of life. artists’ works take note! A com- munity market is planned for every second Saturday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.. also at the station museum downtown. Friday, June 16 saw The Countrymen, a C&W duo from Nelson featuring the Woykins, open another season of outdoor entertainment ‘on the platform’. This is an opportunity for local performers to showcase their tal- ents in a casual, relaxed atmo- May your summer be. filled with plans and projects, too Don’t forget to call the Heritage Society at 365-6440 to arrange group tours, weddings and photo opportunities at Zuckerberg Island Heritage Park/Chapel House and the C.P. Rail Station Museum/B.C. Provincial Police Building (Castlegar's first jail), to volunteer, suggest, or give a pat on the back to everyone who chips in to keep these wonderful ¢ i i alive and sphere. Donations are | and aspiring stars should call Deb Mcintosh, C.D.H.S. admin- istrator for further information and auditions. Ample parking, no construc- tion, centre of downtown Castle- gar—it has to be the Gift Shop at the C.P. Rail Station Museum. Deb has been expanding ‘e excellent selection of gift, sou- venir, local crafts. The Gift Shop now features a Christmas corner with candles, ke} Playmonr » FOODS IN-STORE BAKERY Specializing Home-made breads, pastries, pies & more!! Also “RUSSIAN FOOD" including Borsch, Pyrahi, Varenniki, Lapsha Located Playmor Junction Come In & visit us! y available to us all! Uniforms & Jackets -2210 365-2) Gerick pots Col. Ave qwe, Atte - Displays - Crafts - Tour A Fire Truck - Rollerblade Demo - Water Stations Castlegar & District Recreation Department and The Castlegar Sun present STREET SMART Thursday, July 6°1-4pm Castlegar Community Complex - R.C.M.P Bike Rodeo This event is sponsored by KS Kootenay Savings Credit Union Open to all ages (children under 7 must bring a buddy 14 yrs. or older) Bring Bicycle, wear hat & sunscreen, bring bathing sult & towel ME THE BEST VALUE|Petse esac TRUCK CONCESSION AVAILABLE for your Muscle flexing events, such at this one pictured, are favorites at the15th Annual Slocan City Logging Show. Box 8, Slocan Park, B.C. Photo submitieg ung It Rec 11 Phone: 226-7744 + MUCK MONSTERS: A noble way to start the summer off. Puddin’ scrub, jello eating (no hands please) and meh more! Fri, July 7th, 10 ami. to T fim. Inatr: Betty Kooznetsoff. Fee: $8/1 person, $13/2 same family. Register today! + BIRCH BARK CANOES (Ages 8 & Older) - What tribes used birch bark canoes? Why birch bark? Kids will learn sbout this and more as they make their own cance. Wednesday, July 19th. 9:30-4.m. to 12:00 noon. Slocan Park Hall, Instructor: Ann Popoff, Fee: $15/1 session, PRE-REGISTER BY JULY 12th + SUSPENDED IN TIME (Ages 6 & Older) - Send « time capsule to the year 2045! Bring momentos and fads you don't mind locking «way. During the session kids will write articles about their world, make crafts and make « painting of their vision of the world in $0 years which they can also put in the capsule. Thursday, July 27th, 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. Slocan Park Hall. Instructor: Betty Kooznetsof{. Pee: $7/1 session. PRE REGISTER BY JULY 24th + ART ADVENTURES “NORTH” (Ages 5 to 9 yrs.): Explore nature through many painting mediums - charcoal, oil, acrylics and pastels. Daily hikes for inspiration. July 31st to august 4th (Monday to Friday) 9:30 to 11:30 p.m. Instructor: Ron Mulvey, Crescent Valley School of Art. Fee: $55/5 sessions. 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