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Saturd: mber 28, 1991

Mother-in-Law’s Loan Is

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95 Grim or
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persuade adventure

15 Patient and story
mild 97 See 50

19 Ness bad Across

98 Threaded, as
beads

61 Landlord, for
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63 Potential

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27 French James
impressionist 69 Experienced
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29 Business 71 Home of the

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67 Author/critic

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abbr. 116 Humdinger
31 U.S. sculptor, 117 Attica
townships
119 Avoid by

78 Season for
Paris

82 — et vale

83 Cushioned
footstool

85 Small valleys

87 Blanc or

Brooks
88 org

cunning
121 Captive of
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pompou:
124 Bridal path
125 Undiluted
126 “Let's Make a

spinning
42 Tell in detail
46 City on the
Rhone roup _
47 Tax 90 if sounds like 127 Provinces of
48 Canadian “souls” i
91 French Egypt
historian 128 Complete
92 Elephant Boy 129 Doctrines

prov.
50 Fathered
51 Openers, in

DOWN 40 Cubic meter
1 Jack or stick 41 Home of
lead-in
2 Actress
Anderson

5 Enjoyed in
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6 Word before
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7 Religious movie)
calendar 53 Primitive
8 Sioux indian chisels
9 Nalian painter $4 German
(c1450-1523) name of
10 ome to the Saxony
57 Musical sign

W Bach uncle 58 Cong
12 Anagram of
59 Straw

beehives
62 Philippine
15 Florentine

painter
16 Small reticule
17 Yale men

18 wy ey,

28 Greek war

30 Pre-Easter
Jason

32 Hastens

34 Kitchen
gadgets

35 Artist of the
Ashcan
School

37 “The —
Chase”
(novel)

38 Expung ing

39 E.T., for one Jeroboam

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113 “I'l Say She
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114 Hebrew

77 Talks wildly universe

79 Mental 115 New Jersey
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80 Father of

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More Burden Than Boon

DEAR ABBY: I have a family
problem that I don’t know how to
handle.

My daughter and her husband
and children live in another state.
They- both have good jobs and are
decent, reliable people. Last year,
my daughter and her husband got
into a financial bind and borrowed
some money from my mother-in-law,
who is also my daughter's grand-
mother. (I'll call her Nell.) Mydaugh-
ter and her husband asked Nell to
please keep the loan confidential, as
they didn’t want anyone else in the
family to know about their financial
setback. Nell is financially secure.

Well, Nell phoned me immedi-
ately to tell me about the loan. I
never did tell my daughter that Nell
told me about it, Now Nell keeps
calling me to rake my daughter over
the coals if she is late with a pay-
ment! Abby, it upsets me terribly to
hear her complain about what a
terrible daughter I have. What
should I do?

STILL UPSET

DEAR UPSET: Either write a
letter or telephone Nell and
convey the following message: “I
do not want to hear any more
about my daughter and her

Advice

me be close to Father F.? Even if I
never have any relationship — even
a friendly one — would being near
him make me feel better, or would it
make matters worse?

Should I go on as before, try to be
a good wife and mother, and ho; “ee
that things will get better and
forget him? Or should I divorce my
husband and date other men in the
hope that maybe I'll fall in love with
someone else, and do better next
time?

Incidentally, I'm a proud, self-
contained woman, and consider
myself capable of handling my prob-
lems. But the fact that I am actually
writing to you for advice is a meas-
ure of my di lease help

them and you, so > please do not
mention it again.”

And if Nell calls you and brings
it up, tell her you are busy and
cannot listen to her. Then hang
up. Your daughter and son-in-
law have my sympathy.

eee

DEAR ABBY: Seven years ago, I
fell in love with a man. I told myself
it was only a “crush” because I felt
ashamed and guilty and couldn't face
up to my feelings for him. You see. he
was a priest and I was a student at a
Catholic college in which he taught

I have since married and haven't
seen “Father F.” for some years, but
my feelings for him have not dimin-
ished — they've grown stronger. I
keep thinking about him and don’t
know what to do.

Should I divorce my husband?
He's a decent man. never told
him about my feelings about Father
F., but our marriage is not working,
and he deserves a woman who loves
only him

Should I take a job that would let

me. I can't sign my name
MY SECRET

DEAR MY SECRET: You have
two major problems. Your mar-
riage is in trouble, and you are
obsessed with Father F. (Call it a
schoolgirl crush, a fatal attrac-
tion, “love” — whatever.)

In any case, I suggest that you
see a counselor or some kind of
family therapist. You must let go
of this fantasy you've been nur-
turing for far too long.

CHUCKLE (OR GROAN) FOR
TODAY: “God invented football

80 grown men would have some-
thing to do between wars.”
Dan Jenkins

eee
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