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‘A2 CASTLEGAR NEWS, September 20, 1981

a By Richard Neff
TORCNTO (CP) — The

Telidou industry, about to
explode into public view, will
soon be more important to
most Canadians than radio or
television is today, says bus-
inessman David Carlisle.
Carlisle is president of In-
fomart, a Toronto-based na-
tional company set up to
supply Telidon with the
datebase, or computerized
information which people can
extract from individual ter-
minals.

: Because people can in-
teract with Telidon, rather
than just be passive ob-
servers, this kind of system
will be more important to the
economy that either radio or
television within the decade,
Garlisle said in a recent
interview. 5

Telidon is a word des-
-eribing a new all-Canadian
industry. It’s essentially a
two-way communication sys-
tem using television sets
which can be connected into
computer data banks.

“The terminals now are

Telidon

Birth of a new industry

starting to be produced in
quantity, there are tests
being run all across Canada
and the first commercial sys-
tems are starting to be put
into production. It is just at
the tak-off point. We expect
that by the end of the decade
80 or 40 per cent of all homes
will have Telidon.”
HAS MANY USES

People will be able to bank,
shop, get the latest news,
sports or weather informa-
tion or simply play computer
games — all without stepping
from their homes. As the in-
dustry expands, new capa-
bilities will be added such as
in-home education.

Today Telidon is capable of
offering the user tens of
thousands of “pages,” or
video screens full of infor-
mation. It is up to the user to.
select what information is
wanted.

Carlisle said a farmer can
call up a weather map giving
him the latest conditions and
a detailed forecast. Then
with the push of a few but-
tons he can check the current

Didn't keep it a secret

* It was just the beginning
‘when. John = Marshall _ of
“Omaha, Neb., “broke his
promise to be quiet about his
wife Lea’s 50th birthday and
“placed a newspaper ad an-
_noucing that “in deference to
her age,” he wouldn't say
“anything all day.

That evening — while the
Marshalls were at a neigh-
‘“bor’s house for cocktails, 20
friends wearing black arm
bands at Marshall's direction
sneaked into their home.

When the couple returned

home, the garage door came
down revealing a sign that

said, “Lea Marshall is 50
years old old old old.”

The 20 friends chanted,
“50! 601 50!”

A plane flew: overhead
with the message that Mar-
shall was “50 years old old
old.”

A plastic foam birthday
cake, one-by-1.5 metres with
50 large candles, was floated
on the Marshalls’ swimming
pool.

Marshall, 54, said he
planned the extravaganza
because his artist wife was
feeling a little low about
reaching 50. She joined in the
fun at the party, he said.

Z Voice of the People

Asks support

Dear People:

The United Nations has
declared 1981 as the Year of
the Disabled persons. But
disabled people aren't even
mentioned in the B.C. Human
Rights Code that was set up
in 1973 to protect groups
from discrimination.

Disabled people are’ only
‘protected from discrimina-
tion whenever the phrase
‘reasonable cause’ is used in
the code, and this does not
protect disabled people from
certain acts of discrimination.

How can you as a citizen of
British Columbia change this
unfortunate situation?

Sit down for a few minutes

.and write letters to your
Member or of the

as recommended by thé B.C.
Human Rights Commission
this past June.” All letters
should be sent to The Parli-
ament Buildings, Victoria,
B.C. V8V 1X4.

If your write these letters
you will not only be helping
disabled people — you will
also help the government of
Premier Bill Bennett keep a
promise that was made in the
Speech from the Throne on
Dec. 4, 1980. *

“During 1981,” the Speech
from the Throne said, “my
government will initiate reg-
ulation, pursuant to certain
sections of the Human Rights
Code of British Columbia to
specify a handicap as a char-

Legislative Assembly and
the Minister of Labor and
Hon. Jack Keinrich, whose
department administers the
Human Rights Code.

Your letters could read as
follows: "I would like to see
disabled people included’ in
the B.C. Human Rights Code

in which
ation in services, facilities,
accommodation and employ-
ment is unequivocally pro-
hibited.”

“Dave Jaffe,
member of the B.C. Coalition
of the Disabled,

3416 West 2nd
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livestock market figures or
grain futures.
ident of

way to replace a lot of
paper-based systems. The

e Pp
owned by Torstar Corp. and
Southam Inc., also says Teli-
don can be used widely in
business.

“It's an excellent man-
agement information system.
You can send messages very
inexpensively, you can pre-
sent material to groups or in-
dividuals, you can use it as an
electronic filing cabinet, you
can throw away all of your
internal telephone books and
policy manuals and price
lists...

“It is a very cost-effective

power of Teli-
don is that it’s much less
expensive than any other
form of electronic system and
it's much more simple to
use.”

OVERCOME HURDLES

However, Carlisle cautions
that there are several -hur-
dies that still must be over-
come before Telidon can be-
come the world standard for
the industry, including the
fact that the Canadian mar-
ket alone is insufficient to
support it.

Urges utilization
of stale bread

MOSCOW (AP) — Soviet
authorities, facing the pros-
pect of another poor grain
harvest this year, are step-
ping up efforts to conserve
food by telling Muscovites to
turn stale bread into “de-
licious dishes.”

“It’s good, try it,” a mid-
dle-aged woman encourage
her friend after tasting a pie,
one of 11 dishes made out of

stale bread that were. dis-
played last week in Bakery
No. 886 in Moscow's Per-
ovsky district.

Bakery customers, most of
them women, pushed and
shoved to get a better view of
the display of cakes, pud-
dings, drinks and grilled
sandwiches, and grabbed at
recipes stacked on a table
nearby.

A few were allowed to
taste a beet pie with a crust
made from stale rye bread.

The exhibition of stale-
bread dishes was the second
of its kind in the Soviet
capital, and more are planned
in other large bakeries later
this fall, said Soviet officials.

Posters announcing the ex-
hibitons — as well as other
posters on display in many
bread stores — show stalks of
grain and loaves of bread
with urgent appeals to save

break.

“Don't forget — bread is
expensive,” the posters say.
Similar reminders denounc-
ing bread waste and noting
its “high value” have been
published in the Soviet press
in recent weeks.

The Soviet government
subsidizes bread production.
A loaf of white bread sells for
as little as 14 kopeks — 19
cents.

GIVEN TO ANIMALS

Some Soviet officials com-
plain that the low price lets
peasants buy bread in city
stores and take it home to
feed their animals. They have
also criticized consumers fer
buying more bread than they
can possibly eat. But con-
sumers say only large loaves
for big families are produced.

“A family of one or two is
simply. not able to eat one
whole loaf a day,” said a let-
ter to a newspaper in Byel-
orussia. =

Soviet planners called for a
1981 grain’ harvest of 288
million to 243 million tonnes.
But a Soviet agricultural
specialfst, who asked not to
be identified, told The Asso-
ciated Press last month:
“We'll be lucky if we reach
200 million tons.”

Here is one of the stale-
bread recipes now being of-
fered to Soviet citizens:

Rye Bread Pie Crust.

Ingredients: 7 ounces stale
rye bread; 5 ounces cooked
beets; two eggs; %4 cup
sugar; 1% ounces of raisins;
% ounce margarine or but-
ter. S

Cut bread into small cubes
and moisten slightly with
water. Grate beets, add eggs
and raisins. Grease pie dish
and sprinkle bottom with su-
gar. Cover bottom of dish
with half of the moistened
bread cubes. Spread the
beet, sugar, raisin mixture
and add a second layer of
moistened bread cubes. Bake
for 40 minutes.
~ The récipe, as distributed
to citizens, did not "say at
what temperatute the mix-
ture should be baked.

Regional District

as to:

parcels of land.

first sitting of

B. Baldigara, Secreta:

REGIONAL DISTRICT OF CENTRAL KOOTENAY

ELECTORAL AREA "H"
COMMUNITY OF
SOUTH SLOCAN

NOTICE is hereby given that the first sitting of
the local Court of Revision respecting the 1982
Water Parcel Tax Assessment Roll revisions for a
Specified Area within Electoral Area “A” of the
of Central Kootenay, more
commonly known as the community of South
Slocan, will be held on Thursday, October 1,
1981 at 7:00 p.m. in the South Slocan Community
Hall, South Slocan, B.C. to hear complaints and
correct the parcel frontage tax assessment roll

a) the names of owners of parcels of land;
b) to correct errors or omissions regarding

A complaint shall not be heard by the Court of

Revision unless written notice of the complaint

has been made to the Office of the Assessor,

Regional District of. Central Kootenay: 601

non Street, Nelson, B.C. VIL 4E9 at

eight hours prior ‘to the time appointed for the
the Court of Revision.

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The lights dim, the band
strikes an expectant chord
and Ishtara, veiled, steps out
todance. Her movements are
sure and controlled; yet

graceful, even down to the -

3

precige placement of her
fingers. + -

Her small lissome body
goes into a whirlof steps and
twists and turns. Then her
veil is discarded and her belly

begins its undulations. It
‘rolls in and out, up and down,
the abdomen and diaphragm
seeming to move independ-
ently of one another.

The music heightens and

the drummer begins a rapid
beat. Ishtara moves quickly,
almost jumping from side to
side. \Her skin glistens from
the athletic workout, yet she
continues to smile. Finally
the dance is ended and Ish-
tara retreats from centre
stage. <
_ Ishtara is the stage name
for Melinda Morgan, Castle-
gar’s only belly dance in-
structor. ‘
Belly dancing is an ancient
dance form and to

LINDA HALL.
Getting to Know Your Neighbor |

CASTLEGAR NEWS, September 20, 1981 A3
>

Ishtara...anold dance with a new twist |

women take the classes just
for exercise. “Yes, and people
take the class just for some-
thing to do. Then they get bit
by the ‘Bug’, and before they
know it they're ready to
perform.”

“It's cise for

dance is the “veil routine.”
The dancer uses the veil as a
prop to enhance her perfor-
mance. She discards it in
various ways from dramati-
cally throwing it over her
shoulder to draping it around

* Melinda there are many the-

C 7e

Melinda Morgan with one of her many middle east record albums

ories as to how and why it
developed. “It was thought
(by. the ancients) that this
dancing helped ‘women in
childbirth,” she stated.

She also told me that mid-

dle eastern‘girls would dance
in the streets for coins. Much
of the, dance is performed
with bent knees and on the
ground and it was thought
that this originated because
Bedoin tents tended not to
have very high ceilings.
» Belly dancing came across
the North America when
promoter So! Bloom brought
a “Little Egypt” display to
the Chicago World's Fair in
1898. “People were both’ in-
trigued and disgusted,”
states Melinda. But whatever
its: origins, Castlegar has
really caught the belly danc-
ing fever or “bug” as Melinda
calls it.

Starting next month Mel-
inda will again be offering
her popular classes through
the recreation commission's’
fall program. She will have.
four dance classes a week;
two begininners’ classes, one
for intermediates and an ad-
vanced class for “serious”
dancers.

I asked Melinda if many

Nielson replaces Baker

entenbesh

OTTAWA (CP) ~The tu?

“Who will ave a major impact

on how the government
legislative program gets
through the Commons is a
tough, i i

3 ro”

,last week, replacing’ Walter
Baker who had held it for

years.
Nielson is loyal to Clark,
whose leadership is being

Conservative who led his
party's bitter constitutional
filibuster last spring.

Erik Nielsen, Progressive
Conservative MP for the
Yukon for almost 24 years,
brings a wealth of experience
of making deals and waging
battles to his new position as
Opposition House leader.

Party Leader Joe Clark
named lawyer Nielsen as
House leader, No. 2 Con-
servative in the Commons,

q ioned by some, just as
he was loyal to John Dief-
enbaker when that contro-
versial politician was prime
minister and party leader
against the wishes of many
Conservatives.

The job of Opposition
House leader is crucial to a
party — the holder gets a
$25,000-a-year increase in in-
come to $75,100.

He is the person who
negotiates parliamentary
business with the govern-

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Pacemaker for
Scotty Sally

SURREY (CP) — Three
years ago, Sally got so tired
she had to be carried home
from her walks.

But now the 11-year-old
Scottie strains at the leash
when Ethel Masterson takes
her for daily walks around
her neighborhood in this
Vancouver-area municipality.

“She would get so tired

' whenever I took her for a

walk,” says Masterson. “Her
breathing was weak and she
wouldn't exercise.”

When it got so bad that

* Sally had to be carriéd home,

Masterson took her to a local
vet. x

A heart problem, he de-
cided, and referred Sally to
Mike Dear, a Richmond vet-
erinarian who did graduate

from a U.S. supplier at “a
small fraction of its $2,000
cost” because the shelf life of
the battery-powered gizmo
_had expired.

It resembles a fat, over-
sized pocket watch and was
designed for regulating the
human heart beat, normally

_ about 72 beats a minute.

Because a dog’s pulse runs
about 120 beats a minute,
Dear revved up the pace-
maker to fire a heart-jolting
current of electricity when
Sally's heart beat fell below
90 a minute.

The implanting operation
took three hours and two
incisions, one in Sally’s left
side for the pacemaker.

Through the second incision,
dan 4

work in animal iol
London and Philadelphia.

It was there that Dear
chalked up a world first by
implanting a pacemaker in an
eight-year-old Basenji named
Count. It corrected a con-
genital hear! auscle defect
that causes «' heart to skip
beats. Cor ut lived for six
more y! 3

In Sm y's case, Dear found
the sa. e myocardial ailment.
She «*-s healthy in other
respr 3 and thus a likely
candivate for a pacemaker.

GOOD DEAL
Dear got the pacemaker

in D

ear

in the ventricular heart mus-
cle and wired it to the
pacemaker.

Five days later, Sally was
on the mend and back at
home in Surrey as one of
about six dogs in Canada and

- the U.S. kept alive by pace-
makers. .

It cost Masterson, an office
clerk, $800. In her measure
now, it was a trifling amount
to pay to'keep Sally going for
at least three more years.

“She runs and jumps
around the way she used to,”
says Masterson.

Aleit at

ment leader — now Yvon
Pinard — and the New
Democratic Party leader.
JOB TOO COMPLEX
It is his job to ensure that
legislation the Opposition
wants is not lost as the gov-
ernment puts through its
He how

‘, e :oR
+ ‘That affair ended with two
ministers resigning and @
ministerial aide being con-
victed of bribery.

Nielsen once accused the
RCMP security seryice of
running a domestic spy net-
work that stretched from in-

much debating time is given
to each piece of legislation
and to other business and
helps plan the Conservative
debating strategy.

The House leader has to
judge the temper of. the
Commons, Some critics have
blamed Baker for the defeat
of the Conservative govern-
ment in 1979 because he
failed to anticipate the num-
ber of votes against the bud-
get. Baker and others deny
the charge but he has had a

unions to opening
MPs mail.

He opposed compulsory
medicare in the Yukon and
battled bilingual air traffic
control in Quebec. He was a
constant critic of the federal
prison .system and a: sup-
porter of return to- capital

+ punishment. Baas

He was regarded as Dief-
enbaker's chief political strat-
egist and coined the phrase.
One Canada for a 1960s
election.
DEFENDS THE COMMONS

difficulty time
the iabel of being the man
who couldn't count.

When the Conservatives
decided last spring that the
government's constitutional
plans had to be blocked,
Nielsen, then deputy House
leader, planned and guided a
filibuster that.lasted many
days. os

The filibuster ended when
the government agreed to
send its constituional pack-
age to the Supreme Court of
Canada. Conservatives
claimed a victory, although
others said they gained little
but time.

Nielsen said in a later
interview he has other tricks
up his sleeve.

Despite that, Liberals and
New Democrats say they are
pleased with the change in
Conservative House leaders.
They said Nielsen is more
willing to make instantan-
eous commitments than was

Baker.
CRITIC OF GOVERNMENT

Nielsen, 57, public works
minister in the short-lived
Clark government, has been
known’ in the past as a
hottempered and dogged
critic of the government, es-
pecially when dealing with
law and order.

It was Nielsen who first
asked questions in 1964 about
Lucien Rivard, the narcotics
pediar who escaped from
prison when he was watering
a skating rink during a heat
wave, to the eternal embar-
rassment of the Liberal gov-
ernment.

Like Di ker, Nielsen
is a staunch of the

you,” states Melinda. “It d

tones your body. You feel

some male shoul-

ler.
“Floor work” is next. “This

“It's- excellent exercise for you. It
tones your body. You feel graceful and in
control of what you're doing.”

graceful and in control of
what you're doing.” But she
warns, “A lot of people think
you will lose weight if you
belly dance, but I've seen
miany a fat belly dancer.”

A traditional belly dance is
20 minutes long and ‘she ex-
plained that it always follows
the same rigid format. The
“entrance” begins the per-
formance. “This is where you
present yourself to the audi-
ence. It's lighthearted and
folksy.”

The second part of the

is my specialty,” states Mel-
inda. “I love it!” The music is
somewhat slowed and in-

‘tense, while the dancer des-

cends to the floor to do a
series of backbends and belly

rolls,

The “drum solo” brings the
music up again to a more
lively pace and the dancer
begins the next part of her
routine, the “most, exhaust-
ing” part, says Melinda, the
hip and shoulder shimmies.
“You throw in any fancy stuff
‘you have; spins, drops, you

save that for this part, and
then you hopefully exit to

4

has p
the Kootenays. She loyes
and her M

Melinda took her first belly
dance lesson in 1972 in Santa
Rosa, California where she
was born and grew up. A
year later she was ready to
perform for the first time ina
night club.

Melinda grew up dancing
and as a little girl she
“dreamed of being a dancer.”
She took ballet when she was
nine and feels this has “given
me a good foundation. Any
adult who has taken dance
classes previously is far
ahead in belly dancing.” Mel-
inda has studied tap dancing,
jazz dancing, and modern
dancing as well.

Melinda showed me her
large ‘collection of middle
eastern record albums, and I
was fascinated by the num-
ber of bands who do this type
of music. Although names
like George Abdo, Eddy “The
Shiek’ Kochak and Bert Bal-
ladine meant little to me, I
was assured that these were
the tops and if they had a
“top 10” in middle eastern
music, these three would be
way up there.

Besides teaching, Melinda

In costume as she dances she becomes Ishtara

Commons and he long- has
believed that Prime Minister
‘Trudeau has hurt it over the
years with rule changes that
restrict debate.

In an interview last week,
Nielsen said Commons rule
changes in 1969 ended the
days of lively exchanges and
Parliament's. ability to con-
trol government action.

“The changes made it
easier for government to do
what is pleased with the least
amount of hassle,” he said,

He felt pessimistic about
plans by Liberal House
Leader Pinard to change and
streamline Commons proce-
dures to end a situation
whereby it sometimes takes
years to get simple amending
legislation passed.

Nielsen said Liberal chan-
ges are normally “designed
merely to enhance the ability
of the government to do as it
pleases.”

The Regina-trained lawyer
and former bomber pilot says
political activity is the .ob-
ligation of every citizen. He
got busy as a Conservative
organizer soon after he went
to Whitehorse to open a law
practice in 1952.

When the local Conserva-
‘tive candidate backed out in
the 1957 election and no one
else could be found to run,
Nielsen let his name stand,
winning the seat after’ suc-
cessfully proving “irregular-
ities, I won't say corruption”
in the way the contest was
run. « .

Gutgoing personality makeq
her a natural at it.

> “It's a Middle Eastern
custom to tip a dancer at a
club. You see belly dancers
with bills sticking out of their
belts and straps. It’s a thrill-
ing experience. You know
your effort has been worth
it”

During the winter of 1976
Melinda left sunny California
and came to Canada for the
first time, landing in Edmon-
ton where she toured as a
performer. “I wasn't pre*
pared for the cold!” shé
stated. s

‘Through a mutual friend
she met ‘Mike Morgan iti
Peace River. The couple
married and moved to Call
fornia, B.C. was in thei?
blood, however, and afte?
four months they returned
here, and Mike soon got on at
CanCel. o°

This past summer Melinda
spent two months in Cali-
fornia ‘taking more courses isi
the art: of belly dancing. “I
took tons of notes.” She had
the thrill of giving a solo
dance at a club under the
billing of “the Featured
Dance Teacher from Can:
ada.”

i ti

Melinda admits that the
dance workout is physically
draining. Her legs must be ia
top shape to stand the strain.
“They are always moving.
And you never stand straight
up. It’s always a bent knee
stance.”

The Morgans have a 16-
month-old son, Kristopher.

- One-and-a-half weeks before

was in t
‘said, ‘you're in
do you do yoga or some-

enjoy skiing and look forward
to getting out on the slopes
this winter. t

In her future Melinda
would like to see herself, Ish-
tara, as part of a dance
troupe to perform through-
out the area.

Why Ishtara? I asked.
What does it mean? “It's
from. Phonecian mythology.
It means goddess of the
earth. “I guess I've always
felt very earthy.” ~

Question: what is a man?

Sebi

I wrote -this ,columa, 28
years.ago, but'a recent spate
of male (and female) chest
thumping recalled it to mind.
I find that my opinion on the
subject has not changed
greatly in the interval and so
offer it for i ion as a

JOHN CHARTERS’

Reflections &
Recollections

companion piece to an earlier

one on a lady.

At the Question: What is a
. Man? - .

I get so completely fed up
with reading and hearing
such remarks as “a wonderful
hunk of man”, “he-man",
“Man’s man” and others that
I ask myself what does the
term “a man” signify, other
than from a purely biological
definition, differentiating

fréin “Adam's rib"?

What is a man? If one
asked a hundred people the
chances are excellent that
one would get a hundred
answers varying from the
humorist's “one who chases a
woman until she catches
him”, to the “Are you
kidding?” from the girl next
door.

From the many advertise-
ments, TV and the pocket
books, an outsider might
conclude that a "man" was
judged on the same basis as a

same reasons. He would be
“broad shouldered, tall, dark,
handsome, fearless, lusty,
would swear, probably
smoke a pipe, take an active

interest in sports of all kinds, —

and in women generally.
Some would require that he
have a deep voice, hairy
chest, thick beard, wear a
certain style of clothes and be
a gentleman.

These are certainly charac-
teristics of certain males on
certain cultures on the earth,
particularly on this continent
and of this period of time.
They are, limited, non-inclu-
sive, but not the essential
qualities of a man. They
virtually are internal rather
than external, spiritual
rather than physical.

A true man I suggest
would have a definite and
well considered code of con-
duct which would include the

bull and for jally the

best of the

society in which he lives, as a
person, a citizen of the
country in which he lived, as
a husband and father, and to
human society as a whole.
If he promised to do
something he would do it to
the best of his ability, and if
he could not, he would say so.
But whatever he did, would
be done without fanfare. It is
probable that he would be-
lieve in some eternal power,
greater and beyond himself.
If not it would be only after
long careful thought and
searching. He would make
. decisions’ and accept the
consequences without com-
plaint. He would be kindly,
considerate and thoughtful of
others. He would be cour-
ageous in defeat, sincerely
modest in victory.
As Charles Kingsley most
aptly said, “Man.was meant
to be not the slave but the

in proportion as he recovers
his humanity. 3
Moreover, a than is the
result of all the challenges of
life, met and subdued: As
Bucher said, “A man is ‘a
sword, daily life, the artificer
and those areas which beat
upon the anvil and file the
edge and etche in, cidlike, the
inscription upon his hilt.”
Finally, the term, a man
knows no boundaries of time,
space, creed or societ}.
Buddha and Christ were men
in the finest sense of th
word but so was S
and Kipling’s lowest cas}
Indian water carrier, Gun,
Din. I would also nominat
his late Majesty George V
and the quiet man working
his garden down the stree:
and a million others. To
often, unrecognized and uf:
sung but the salt of the earth
and these men are the stays

master of and

of