The Castlegar Sun Wednesday, June 16, 1993 Ann Landers Syndicated Columnist Dear Ana Landers: Several months ago, ovr 2-moath-old son died of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). Since that heartbreaking tragedy, my Canadian Quiz-Cross busbaad aod | seem hopelessly alienated from ove another. We have been married for only two years {have asked “Lenny” to 90 for counseling with ime of attend a meeting of The Compassionate Frends, which | read about ia your columm, but be refuses. He never mentions our son's name, and wheo | try to talk about our shared loss, be changes the subject Our sex life is almost non-existent. Lenay never touches me unless | touch him first, Ann, I truly love this man, but I feel like his roommate instead of his wife. Pve toyed with the idea of having an affair, but | would feel too. awkward and guilty Nevther one of us knows what causes SIDS, and we have no information 0a it. I know our mariage is in trouble, but I doo know what to do. Please give me some advice as well as some informaboa about SIDS. -- Lost in Maryland Dear Maryland:'One. would assume that the death of a child would bring couples closer together. but strangely enough, it often does the opposite Your husband is in desperate need of grief therapy «He needs to accept his loss and go through the mourning process. SIDS is one of life's cruelest blows. For infor maton, send a self. addressed, stamped envelope to: SIDS Alliance, 10500 Little Patuxent Pkwy. Suite 420, Columbia, Md. 21044, or phone: | -800- 21-SIDS. My condolences you both. ACROSS Primitive chisel Dear Ann Landers: My wife's sister divorced her husband two years ago after 35 years of mar riage, aod now she has moved into our lives tally Prior to their rplit, we saw them maybe once every couple of years or 0. They previously lived eight hours away and near their own married daughter and “Flor” now lives five miles from us and shows ‘up at our house EVERY WEEKEND unannounced, like clockwork. Sometimes she is at our frost door before my wife is out of bed in the morning. When we recently announced our plans to move, Flora said she would also move in order to be close 1 us. It is clear that she plans to continue ‘his paarcegarers fer es The unbridled nerve of this worn is affecting our already strained marriage. I'm not saying that [ wart her completely out of our lives, I just want her to slack off with the clockwork visits. Am I out of line or what? — Fed Up in Calif Snow vehicle Hymenap- terous insects Fermented — de siecle Flaccid flesh Private teachers Troublesome Situation Kind of bums Staff divider Goat deity Dear Fed: The missing factor in this equation is your wife. How does SHE fee! about Flo's intr siveness? If she resents the too-earty, too-frequent visits, its up to her to set ber sister straight. If on the other hand, she has 20 objections, there just Hanker tor might be something in your marriage that needs fix Greek vowel og Pouches Chery! or Diane Double- crosser Finnish steam Burdens Well-groomed Woodland deity Albanian coins DOWN Paper bits Piece out Joumey stages Latticework Quantity of money Shocks Stop Pack completely together Carney and Linkletter Green-eyed Chair cover 2. Cook meat One billion ears roma distance On parole Sprinkling with holy water Vociferous Spirtual wandering Earnest money Growing out Bikini top Likewise Shed tears Celebes ox Spurious religion Genoese magistrate Go astray Annoy Not another Tie! This Year Induct Dad into the fabulous Hall of Fame with a gift from Carl's Drugs “Your Friendly Pharmacy CARL'S PLAZA DRUGS| Castleaird Plaza) 365-7269 in our LOOK FOR THE ANSWERS to the CROSSWORD WEST KOOTENAY ADVERTISER Coming out this Saturday Calvin ana Hobbes by Bill Watterson [oad Wuat TREE REALLY 2) NO. BUT THE | CAUSES. I SNEEZING. 4 FRU NS MORE THE TREES ARE \ WIND ? | pre, COMPLICATED REALIN SNEEZING ] K x \ > ; = ( TODAY = YOU THINK { TAKE 1 wl S THE GUY WHC THINGS, [isnt THAT J T THINK THE WEIRDER SMD, "E TWINK Luk | | | | | | WEIRD 7? / CONVERSATION SHOULD BE KEPT | \ TO A MINIMUM WEY SEEM DRINK WHATEVER COMES > 1 | UNTIL AFTERNOON | \ NUT OF THESE THINGS WHEN T SQUEEZE ‘EM’ "P BABY BLUES by Rick Kirkman and Jerry Scott MA-MA! MAMA! MA MA! MAMA! MAMA! MA-MA! MAMA! MAMA! MAMa! Db DA' DA DA! DADA! Dp Da! DB-DA! DA: DA’DA:DA DESPICABLE EE a ston een MAYGE yT WAS AN sone TIME T TAN ACCIDENT. 4 1 ANTICIPATE D, aed NO, OE NO-NO. NO-NO, NO-NO. DON'T ToucH NO-NO. NO-NO, No-No No No. NO-NO. NO-NO a) ONE BIG HAPPY by Rick Detorie 7W Gm? VERY Goon.) [ frie DM.CHECKS ) aay [RUTHIE, OH YEAH?| | [ JOE, a COME HERE, y (Baa ee (rene YOURE YOU RE | | I | Aeynle bid) me J Y ee. in Service Award This award will be presented every week to someone in Castlegar who shows ‘extraordinary service to his/her customers or clients. The recipient will receive an award plaque to keep courtesy of Kats Trophys and a lunch for 2, value to $15.00, courtesy of the Sandman Ina. We'd like everyone in Castlegar to know that service excellence exists in our community. This award recognizes a nominated business. If you know of Someone that offers "Excellence in Service," call me, Marilyn Strong at 365-5266, or drop a letter at the Castlegar Sun with your suggestion. shes) (3 BRAT Happy Birthday «June 9 Sandon LaPointe - from Grandma & Grandpa Happy 8th Birthday Lisa Miller-Jones - love Mom, Dad, Brendan & Jessica Happy Birthday Mom - love Gordan & Nadine Happy Birthday Kim Randen - from Mom. Dad, Chris & Bradley «June 9 Happy Birthday Babe Helen -love your Granddaughters, + June 24 Happy Birthday Rhea, Mariah Stoochnoff Joanne - love Jeff & Jo THIS WEEK'S WINNER IS INDICATED BY LOGO Phone in your birthday wish & we will print It free of charge All birthday greetings must be [Phoned in (965-6286) by the week waeet the paper is published. IF YOUR BIRTHDAY SUBMISSION 4S NOT IN THIS WEEKS AD, LOOK NEXT WEEK. Pick Up Your Royal Treat At The Castiegar Dairy Queen In the Castieaira Plaza. Happy Birthday Brad Croteau - love Mom & Dad B. Jason & Stacy Happy 8th Birthday Lisa Millas-Jones - love Jean & Otie «June 11 Happy 50th Birthday Peter Makortoff - love Max & Lucy Happy Birthday Uncle Bradley - love Devon & Sierra + June 12 Happy 7th Birthday Happy Birthday Mog - love Derek & Nat Cammie - love Steven, Mom & Dad Happy Birthday Grandpa Hywon - love Devin & Sierra Happy Birthday Unele Al - love Devin & Sierra «June 13. Happy Birthday Marlee Kanigan - love Dayna, Amanda & Loni spedialize in ice-cream cakes, Cll 365-3522 for takeout or pick-up orders. NEW Royal Treat (= effective immediately ee, Wednesday, June 16, 1993 The Castlegar Sun Page 11B Sun Classifieds 365-7848 ANNOUNCEMENTS B.C. SENIOR games zone 6 400 club 11th draw winner-Michello Pasquoloto, Trail KOOTENAY CRUISE 50's & 60's dance Saturday, June 26 8 p.m. - 1 p.m. Rec. Cen. tre. Featuring Crossroads 50's dress contest & Jive Contest. $10 per per person - includes midinight snack Tickets available at r Hair Design 1480 Columbia Ave. Castlegar * Ps ” MYRA & Brian Stevens are happy.to an 02. brother for Kelly. Grandparents are Marge and Ait Hayward of Ontario and Anne late John Stevens of Castlegar. — USE CONFIDENTIAL BOX SERVICE. There may be Certain firms or individuals to whom your replies should not go. Simply address your applications to the Box number in the ad ‘and attach a separate list of such names. En close the application and list in an envelope addressed to Confidential Service Box De partment c/o The Castlegar Sun 465 Colum- bia Avenue, Castlegar, BC VIN 1G8. We will destroy your letter if the advertiser's name is on your list In Loving memory of Lois G. Haviland who passed away June 20, 1992. A loving wife, a loving mother, so gentle and kind. What a wonderful memory she left behind; Long days, long nights, she bore her pain, to wait for cure, but all in vain; Til God Himself knew what was best; He took her home and gave her rest. — Sadly missed by Husband, Chuck, child: ren; Joanne, Tom, Charlene , Laura Lee & families PERSONA ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS & AL-ANON. Phone 365-3663 Castlegar, BC Escorted worldwide resort and touring holidays for unattached travelers -Deluxe single accommodations with no supplements *Two age groups — "30-49", "S50 and over” For free brochure please send name, address & age group to: SINGLES TRAVEL c/o Box 18 The Trail Times 1163 Cedar Ave. Trail, B.C. V1R 4B8 ARE you searching for @ meaningful relation ship, companionship, new trends, or that spe cial person? We operate a contidgntial introduction service for selective unattached adults. For more information writé to: Box 137 Marysville, B.C. VOB 1Z0 or call 427-4378. ARE YOU a n/s, 8/4, tall, financially secure man, 50-60, who is planning retirement this year to the beautiful West Kootenays? A clas. sy. loving, sincere lady would like to hear from you. Interests: travel, fishing, camping, gar dening, music, biking, quality home life, Reply to Box 2056, c/o Nelson Daily News, 266 Bak- er Street, Nelson, BC V1L 4H3. CANADIAN CANCER SOCIETY IN MEMORIUM DONATION INFORMATION. Box 3292 Castlegar, BC VIN 3H6. Phone 365-5167 CARD OF THANKS A monumental, heartfelt thanks to everyone who made my trip to the Odyssey of the | Mind world finals - a dream come true. Gail Maki-Richards THE STAFF AND STUDENTS of the West Kootgnay Teacher Education Program and imily of the late Dr. Don Parsiow would the to ‘express their most sincere appreciation to all those people who sent flowers, attended ‘our memorial service, spoke at the service, contributed food, our sent condolences. * Each of you has helped us through our tragic loss of Don. Special thanks to Mike O'Connor, Bob Dooley, Thelma and Gerry Ehman, Mon: signor Bob Anderso, Thé Catholic women's league and to Barb Bray. Thank you Joseph Ranalig co-ordinator W.K.T.E.P. TO MY co-workers & associates at Celgar Pulp, tamily & friends — thank you for your prayers, cards, flowers & words of encourage ment. - George Zaitsoft WE, PATRICK HICKEY & SUNNY STRA NAGHAN would like to extend our profound thanks to all those who aided us during our untortun mabile accident on Sunday. Janvary 3/93. to the individuils who provided quilts, they have been cleaned and can be picked up at the ambulance office located at 2233 6th Avenue in Castlegar. Your immeas urable support will never be forgotten and a lifetime of thankyou's could never express the hema! gratitude to all of youl Sincerely, Pat & Sunny LOST & FOUND FOUND IN KINSMEN PARK 10 karat gold chain bracelet with 2. charms has obvious sen FOUND: LADY'S GOLD WATCH found on hwy between Columbia Heights and Quance le, Mary Road, Goose Creek Road area. identity & it's yours 359- HELP LOST DOG male, black ‘ab, with | red collar wiwo tags. Very friendly answers to Deets. Lost near Shoreacres. Reward offered Please call 365-7848 or 1-204-837-2434 col eS ae LOST CAT. orange, tan, black, and white. Short hair. Face black, half white. Biue eyes. Missing vince June 7, around 2800 LOST: large number of | noe on leather chain 365-5858 or 399-4234 _ LOST: KEY chain with small green shoe at tached. 365-5373. a LOST: KEYS, key ring is brass in colour with saying on kt. 365-7153 FREE PETS 3 KITTENS to giv 35-7654 FREE TO a loving home 5 adorable, playtul kittens. 365-7290, __ GIVEAWAY THREE kittens, seven weeks old Cute & cuddly, litter trained. 365-0492 even ings. _ es KITTENS TO give awa LAB AND DOBERMAN PUPS TO GIVE AWAY, 365-8158 MOVING!! MUST GIVE AWAY 6 week old kitten black with blue eyes 265-0755 eves (Kenna/Nicole) or 365-7848 days (Nicole) ETS FOR SALE Fatrvtew PICK UP AND DELIVERY SERVICE Ph. 365-7378 JAN REEVES CERTIFIED GROOMER Fairview Subdivision, Castlegar Shwarzenberg Pet Supply 44 Ib. Dog Food $15.80 and Purina Pro Plan WE ALSO SELL “All Sizes of Travel Cages” Leashes + Nail Clippers - Brushes + Shampoos + Whistles - etc (Elektro Dohmen Enterprises Ltd.) 365-5104 365-5464 Minto Rd., Castlegar Industrial Park DOG GROOMING - PET SUPPLIES & FARM FEEDS - LOCATED AT HILL TOP THRIFTY hile w. of Castlegar on Hwy. 3 Fromm Dog & Cat Food, Bird & Fish Supplies Tues. - Sat 9 am -5 pm 365-5225 FAMILY-RAISED purebred Miniature Schnauzer puppies tor sale 365-7273 KENNEL REDUCTION - puppies, young adults, Cockers, Miniature Eskimoes, Poms, Maltese, etc. 825-4471 MOLUCCAN COCKATOO, male, with cage Store shelving, aquariums, and supphes 825 4471 N SHAR-PEI Wrinkle puppies, Bik, F, CKC Reg Wermed, Shots, dew claws done, No eye tacking needed. $500 1-478-5431 LIVESTOCK & FARM SUPPLIES 18 ACRES of standing Alfalfa. Two cuts 11 & 16 Aye. 8. Erickson 428-5445, 2 YEAR old Beigian - apply filly, $1000 phone 442-3502 after 5 pm. 9 YEAR old gelding, reg. AQHA, deluxe Pleasure horse. Always in the ribbons. Suit able for indy ©r youth. Ready to show. $3000 fiem 229-4 c HILORE N'S SUMMER Horsemanship Camps. Some openings still available. For more info. & brochure call Aspengrove, Ver Non. §45-9470, EXCELLENT MILKING GOAT just freshened $50 obo 399-4264. FEEDER STEERS READY FOR pasture phone 428-2974 NUBIAN GOATS Hillers with kids, also year ling does. 227-9430 or 227-9570. QUARTER HORSE mare 8 years old $1000 firm; Lop-eared rabbits 365-2593 STUDENT EMPLOYMENT 20 YEAR OLD WILLING to do yard clean up. & maintenance, law mowing, & odd jobs, ex perienced. Call David 365-6316 EXPERIENCED AND responsible 14-year old boy looking for lawn-mowing or other odd jobs in Castlegar. Call Darcy 365-6195. GRAD LOOKING for summer employment Babysitting, etc. 365-3359 or 365-6494 MATURE, RESPONSIBLE 21-year old will look after gardens, pets, children, houses, or whatever! References. call Caria, 365-5061 HELP WANTED LOOKING FOR Person with some carpentry & electrical experience to work on busy RV lot Bring in resume to 1685 Columbia Avenue Castlegar, B.C Lordy, Lordy Paddy's AO Happy Birthday June 15 from Mom, Dad, Nicole, Jonathan, Lindsey & Dylan $200-$500 WEEKLY!!! Assemble products at home, easy! No selling, You are paid direct. Fully guaranteed, no exp nec. Call 1-504-641-7778 ext. 123, 24 hours AGGRESSIVE, SELF motivated individual re quired widirect sales experience to sell seit adhesive stock labels and custom made la bels, in rolls, anywhere in Canada, Side linetulkime. We pay shipping on tabeis direct from our tac tory to independent owned supermarkets meat dept, deli, bakeries, stores, dustry, hospitals, etc. Good repeat Sell stapling machines and staples Also ad specialties for every type busines decals, ball pens, art calendars, etc, top cor mission paid - Our 43rd year. Fax resume or write : “Alex” Alexander Label Factor, 1275 Wellington St. Ottawa K1Y 3A6. Fax (613 728-1820 onty serious minded persons apply read the The Castlegar Sun will not be responsible for any errors in advertise. alter one insertion, It is the responsibility of the advertiser to ad when it is first published and to insure that it is correct. If N@ notification is given, the Castlegar Sun will regard the ad as cor rect and will charge accordingly. The Castlegar Sun accepts no liabil ity in any event greater than the amount paid for such advertising ITTER REOUIRED Immediately tor my home. References re banker's wages. Work collect an earning poten Sook 2 representatives Up and service diéplay merchandise in 86 in your area. No di at business, training 1s should call (416) Recession proot industry. COMBINE MOTHERHOOD & CAREER WITH DISCOVERY TOYS. Low start-up cost ©. Call now for information JOBS, earn $300/$900 week " rOUNd positions. Hiring men/women » room/board., Will train, Call 1-504-646. EXPERIENCED, RESPONSIBLE breakfast Chet required tor busy restaurant. Must be able to s Wage is negotiable. 1E0. oF tax to 22 FULL TIME residential counselor. Salary posi tion, experience with’ challenging behaviors an asset. 365-6421 Jim Moberg. = HAIRDRESSER, PREFERABLY with clien tele. Reply to Box 500, c/o The Castlegar Sun 465 Columbia Avenue, Castlegar, BC VIN 2721 Columbia Ave. « (next to IGA) 365-6450 AUTOMOTIVE SALES We require an individual.who has outstanding interpersonal skills, disciplined work habits, and a desire for success. No prior experience in automotive sales is required; the successful candidate will participate in a comprehensive sales training program led by a professional instructor. This is a great opportunity to learn and prosper in an exciting and rewarding field. Our expanding organization offers a generous pay plan, consisting of a salary plus incentive bonuses, a company demonstrator, and full company benefits. Please forward your complete resume. KALAWSKY PONTIAC BUICK GMC CADILLAC LTD. 1700 COLUMBIA AVE. CASTLEGAR, B.C. VIN 2W4 365-2155 TIVE-IN housekeaperdver needed Thureday and Friday each week. Must be over 25 years, no family. Full-time or part-time. Call Rossland hospital, 362-7344 ask for Jack MAJOR CARRIER requires locally domicile owner/operator to hau! a daily scheduled run 5 trips @ week Castlegar to Princeton. Inter ested parties contact Kelly 403-440-1149. SHAKE AND ASPHALT roolers with exper ence, willing to learn new types of rooting, must have own truck and tools, full time work Phone 542-1005 SUMMER AND permanent employment in FLA, Hi, in resorts, hotels, amusement parks, cruise lines 516-929-0341 ext. R56. TURN OVER A NEW LEAF. Become a Total- ly Tropical Interiors sales consultant and start earning 1@ income while working part-time hours. Sell a product that sells itself Call Cindy 368-8055. - WOODLAND CLERK Minimum of 5 years expert ‘ence along with computer skilis on Lotus and Word BC. Send resume to: Westwood Fibre Lid, 705- Laval Crescent, Kamloops, BC Fax 372-8303 At Box Mein FILM TO PHOTO Hy cos Volume permitting Why wait days for your photos when you can enjoy them almost instantly? Just drop them here on your way to run errands, and pick them up on your way home! Vogue Seudlo 1126 - 4th St., Castlegar 365-7515 YARD MASTERS is now hiring full time sum:- mer employees. Must have lawn care experi ence and resume. Call 368-5961: | message. WORK WANTED BARTLETT & Sons — bey Plaster, Dry: wall, Free Estimates, John 362-7279 3 bedroom, 2% baths, 4 level split. 2532 9th Avenue. 75 x 150 lot, raised oak cabinetry, new carpet & tile flooring, large decks, paved driveway, Asking $157,000 .at your house? It’s time to call your Welcome Wagon hostess. She will bring congratu- lations and gifts for the family and the NEW BABY! Ve ie Mig Call "Marie 365-2455 multi car garage. JANITORIAL EMPLOYMENT A hard-working individual is required for the cleaning of the General Office and Parts, Service, and Sales Departments Responsibilities include the regular upkeep of bathrooms vacuuming, dusting, and the washing of floors. Please forward resumes to KALAWSKY PONTIAC BUICK GMC CADILLAC LTD. 1700 COLUMBIA AVE. CASTLEGAR, B.C. VIN 2W4 365-2155 SAWLOGS mnt 4 Notice is hereby given that an application will be made to the Director of Vital Statistics for a change ci name, pursuant to the provisions of the "Name Act” by me, Ken Jackson of Box 277, Robson, B.C. to change my minor unmarried child's name from Heerebout Jesse Paul to Jackson Jesse Paul dated this 7th day of June A.D. 1993 Ken Jackson Site 29 - RRI - C-1, Castlegar, B.C SHERMAK CONST. Co. Ltd. HOUSE FRAMING ¢ FORMWORK ¢ ROOFING * SIDING ¢ FINISHING @ ARBORITE WORK * CABINETS © VANITIES ¢ T-BAR CEILINGS. * ADDITIONS ¢ RENOVATIONS — ‘ALL TYPES OF GENERAL CARPENTRY Mike Makortoff VIN 3H7¢ Ph. 365-2932 355-2216 (7 a.m NEW DENVER/NAKUSP AREA Contact Jim Hicks (5 p.m. - 9 p.m. at 358-2493) SLOCAN VALLEY/CASTLEGAR AREA Contact Greg Barber (5 p.m. - 9 p.m. at 355-2588) NELSON/KASLO/LARDEAU AREA Contact Loren Brandt (5 p.m. - 9 p.m. at 825-3416) Additional inquiries may be made to Dave Wickstrom at the Slocan office, -4p.m.) or 359-7589 (5 p.m. - 9 p.m.) Slocan Forest Products Ltd. Slocan, B.C. Canada VvoG 2C0 SLOSON Telephone (604) 355-2216 . aes =) David Daniel 365-2166 (Bus.) 365-6892 (Res.) REM Jordan Watson S7ea feueane Ave, The Right Agent Makes The Difference Over 20 Years of EXPERIENCE Executive quality PLUS! Grosvenor subdivision. 3 sets of patio doors, 4 baths, jacuzzi, gas {/p, double garage. Private sundeck & patios Perfection at only , m every window! South end with 1, wood stove, lireplace, hot tub. landscaped and ready to enjoy $150,000 ‘ Pertect in-hiirie business location. Brand new 3 gas t/p, garage and {ots more home, 3 bdrm $125,900 Take a look Deal at Fantastic starter or retirement home in excellent f, paved drive, new floor & fresh wall coverings. Hospital location ONLY $77,500 Call DAVID or JORDAN to view these listings or any Real Estate in CASTLEGAR